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Dating: Help and advice

Does my bf want me to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - I need some help with my boyfriend. All the time i am around him he talks about other girls and how hot they are and i am starting to think that he wants me to be a diffrent person. If you think that he wants me to be someone ealsed i mean sometimes ...

My boyfriend found out all my secrets and I feel lik I cant talk to him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend told me that he read my diary and he told me what page it was and it amberrasted me totally! I dont een know if i can talk to him but i should be able to speak to him because he is my boyfriend. I need some edvice please respond to ...

I'm secretly dating my 1st cousin! How do I tell my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - im in a relationship with my 1st cousin we meet up reguraly and have an amazing time i love his company and he forever tells me he loves me and i love him we plan to move away together and start a new life i just cant help but wounder what my family ...

I love her but I want to be selfish too! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (M) - So this is the story of my relationship... I met my girlfriend at work. We became good friends working together. She was going through a tough time with her then, husband. She was planning on leaving him, and at the time I was trying to just be ...

Is it ok to make out on a first date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (M) - Is making out on a first date a no no? How would I bring a chick home after the first date? Ask her do you want to see my room? Once you talk to her for a bit.....just go for the move? Or ask her do you want to cuddle? Then kiss her?...

Where can we go on a date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - Hey, I've been with my boyfriend for six months and he promised that when he had the money, he'd take me out on a date. I've only ever been on one date with him; it was to the cinema, I paid. The other day he asked me where my ideal date would be...

Any tips for my boyfriend to make me cum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - Hey guys, ok so me and my bf have been having sex for quite a while now and it's good. But we want to take it to the next level. And I was just wondering is there any special things he can do to me that will make me cum? We both really want me to be...

Is he full of shit? Once a cheater always a cheater?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - I broke up with my b/f a month ago. Been together for 4 years. I finally caught him cheating. I have dealt with him dirty dancing with two other girls, sex texts to his friend(thats a girl) I have dealt with more sex texts from 3 different ...

What's his game? Is he hiding something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - Is he hiding something? He was out of town for the weekend for a work trip in Las Vegas. He usually at least makes contact with me once a day, but while he was gone I didn't hear from him at all. Even when I contacted him, he didn't respond. ...

Lunch with an ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (M) - I have been dating a wonderful, very attractive, (but slightly stubborn, perfectionist), lady for one year now. We are both divorced, she for 12 years with over 10 sexual relationships that ended for one reason or the other, and me for 1 year, her ...

I miss the "old him". What can I do to make our relationship right again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 1.5 years now and he has been perfect but he's now starting to taking me for granted. I.e. he used to buy me tiny gifts like a chocolate bar, or send a nice phone message during the daytime, now if this happens ...

He's my fiance and the father of my kids - Am I losing him? Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - Well I've been with my Fiance for about 18 months now. Things got serious very quickly, partly because I already had a 4 month old baby when we met. He bonded with my son brilliantly and now sees him as his son. He's a brilliant dad, and a month ago ...

Am I blinded by love or just plain stupid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - Ok... I am at a crossroads in my relationship. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 18 months. But we have known each other for over 2.5 years. When we met, we were both in relationships, and began as friends. We BOTH cheated on our ...

My girlfriend won't give me the same chance she gave her past boyfriends.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

1 April 2010 (M) - So I've been with my girlfriend for a while now. I truly am in love with her and she says she's in love with me. Not too long ago, she told me that she had anal sex with two other guys. she only tried it though, she didn't do it over and over. this ...

Boyfriend gave weird answer to my money questions and now I'm confused!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - i m in a commited relationship...its a ldr..well jst for fun i asked my bf.. How do you think a woman and a man in a relationship should handle money together? n the reply which he gave i found completely irrelevant...he said that Money org...

Confused as to how to act w/her..she's so busy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

1 April 2010 (M) - I was introduced to a girl over a month ago, we initially exchanged text messages and then spoke on the phone for over 3 hours then met up the same weekend for a coffee where we chatted for over an hour - i then text her the same evening and said ...

Will I be able to find a girlfriend in a male dominating career?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (M) - Can you still find a partner/girlfriend even if you do engineering as a career? I ask because I do Civil Engineering as a degree and I'm just curious since I don't have a girlfriend at the moment. Moreover since it is engineering, wherever I work, ...

Girlfriend accusing me of cheating and I haven't done anything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (M) - Ok the last few days before school went on break my girlfriend is acting really annoying because ima be going out of town and singing at venues. she keeps saying ima be messing with girls and im going to forget about her. i dont get it i haven't ...

Boyfriend touring admitted he cheated on his ex and now I'm afraid he'll cheat on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is in a band and is currently on tour, he calls/texts me everyday to see how iam and tells me how his day goes. in his previous relationship of 6 years, he cheated on his ex twice. he only told me this a few days before he left on ...

Do guys ever just want to stay friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - Will guys ever CHOOSE to be just friends with a girl? If he finds her beautiful inside and out- nice, sweet, amazing looks, smart, etc- and they're both single? There's sexual tension. Can he ever just want it to stay platonic? Happened with ...

Can I get my son's father out of our lives? He's a jerk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - I went out witht his guy for 5 months, he told me he couldnt have children because of his medication he takes for his epilepsy. Lo and behold I became pregnant, I decided to keep the baby and split with the father N, because to be honest the guy is ...

Should I wait until I'm finished with college to begin dating again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - I'm a freshman in college and I'm going through my first breakup ever. Yeah, pathetic, I know, but even though I'm 18 I've only been in one relationship. He was the only guy I'd ever flirted with, kissed, held hands with, all of it. He was my first ...

Did I lose my virginity... or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - I dont know if I'm still a virgin! His penis slid on my vagina but not inside. Does this mean I'm a virgin still? He didn't cum, there was a condom, but he had pre cum and it lasted literally a minute coz I wanted to stop. I'm so confused abou...

I have a gut feeling my boyfriend has the hots for my sister...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - I'm a bit worried about my relationship lately. me and my boyfriend been together for more than a year now, we cuddle, kiss, tell each other we love one another a lot but i think he has a thing for my older sister, i dont know why but its just the...

Mismatched sex drives...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - Me and my partner have mismatched sex drives and attitudes to sex. Mine is high, his is low. He is 41 btw, and says he's gone off sex. It's not a sgood as it used to be. We have a LDR and I've been back with him for 5 days, after 2 months apart. L...

Should I believe he is being genuine when he said he doesn't want to be anyone's boyfriend right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - First off, i have been dating and trying to keep busy. Was with my ex for 3 and a half years..it was petty stuff i think that broke us apart.. fighting over things i regret.. no one cheated.. we did have alot of love.. he broke it off... a year la...

Can my boyfriend tell that I get really turned on when we are making out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - when my boyfriend and i are making out i get turned on really easily. is this wrong and can he tell? ...

I think my friends ex is starting to fancy me and I don't know if I feel the same!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - I think my friends ex is starting to fancy me and I don't know if i feel the same. Me and his ex used to be close but i found out she,s been lying to me for ages about how they broke up. He wants to stay friends with her and he texts her and she ...

How can I tell if he fancies me too? I have very low self esteem so I am scared to come out and tell him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - Guy troubble! :s There is this guy I really fancy in my school but I don't know if he fancys me!! We are friends and he is in some of my classes! When ever he sees me in thos classes I catch him at the corner of my eye looking at me, if he t...

I want to ask her out but I am a coward. How can I conquer my fear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

1 April 2010 (M) - So there's this girl i really like, she's really beautiful and funny and smart and i really want to go out with her. the problem is this: basically, i'm a coward. I'm usually an outgoing person, i have loads of friends and i'm great at making people ...

What do women want? I don't know!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

1 April 2010 (?) - A while ago, I came across a blog entry from a male musician on MySpace. It was about how men should be treating women with more respect and courtesy, and how women are not objects, and so should not be treated as such. I was liking the whole idea ...

My friend is having problems with her boyfriend, and now I have feelings for her boyfriend and I think he feels the same way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - My friend and her boyfriend have been having a lot of fights lately. But her boyfriend like me and I like him. But the problem is that he flirts with other guys with him not around. He also knows it. What should I do?...

Is he my boyfriend? Are we going out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - Ok, we have been going for movies, lunches, teas and walks since the end of Jan. He hasn't made a move on me physically yet, however we connect like crazy and have the most amazing conversation. We can sit in cafes drink tea and talk for hours ...

He said I could surprise him, what is he expecting and how do I surprise him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5150 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - I like this guy, he likes me too, he's a virgin and a little shy. he knows i want to sleep with him. but he is i dunno, afraid? on the phone one night, i asked him if i could kiss him, and he said, yes, and i could do more, like Surprise him, wha...

Should I get involved with a guy who has another women pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - Should I get involved with a guy who has another women pregnant? Hi I started hanging out with a guy and we really hit it off it's only been a week and 2 days but I really like him and he makes me laugh. The only thing is he told me that he has a...

Will having sex with him make my hurt worse? I don't think I could handle he has had others.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - This is a bit of a long story, but I'd really like some advice. I am interested in someone who is older than me and I know for a fact that he is interested in me as well. I asked him recently how many sexual partners he has had, and his answer w...

How can I change his mind to try for a baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend met one of our friend's sons today, and he was beautiful. My boyfriend knows I want a baby, but he just doesnt want to have one yet. It upsets me, because I just want to be a mum. I know that there can be a lot of complications...

Why do people always seem to want sex straight away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - I don't get it. Why do people always seem to want sex straight away it just wrecks a relationship and your body especially after when you realise you weren't ready. Here's a tip, save yourself until you know it's the right person or just until your ...