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Dating: Help and advice

I like porn and masterbating, but am I being lied to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Do ALL men look at porn and masturbate while in a relationship? My boyfriend insists he doesn't do either. He says porn makes him feel weird to watch and that he never even feels the urge to masturbate when I'm around (he does it when we're apart ...

I still run into him a couple times a month, do you think I lost him forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend a week ago, we were together on and off for a year!! we lived together. the reason i broke up with him is because he started talkin to many different types of women at work wantin to go to their place and hang out and ...

Can you forget someone completely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend, J, of 10 months broke up with me. We were having a long distance relationship. He says he has to move on because I lied to him. But he still feels for me and that he would never give up hope that we'll one day come back to each other. ...

Army boyfriend and engagement !!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Hey my boyfriend is in the army and is away alot. We have been together a yr and a half now and its been hard him nt bein around, but since he went away before for 3months and came bac and is away alot and i only see him every other weekend we ...

Do I give her attention or space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been broken up for 2months now once she found out i cheated on her(only kissing 2 random drunk nights at a bar).we dated for over 5years and i am deeply sorry and dont know how to get her back in my life. i have said how ...

I really need help with my boyfriend and his addiction

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Hello, I hear all the time it's normal for men to watch porn. My boyfriend won't stop watching it. He use to be very honest about it. So with him being honest I went to be honest on how it really effected me. It hurts me to know that I can not plea...

Just rubbing shoulders or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - I belong to about 5 to 8 ethnic groups in India and Western Europe. Girls who are in a relationship seem to like brushing shoulders with me even though they are already in a relationship. After a while some get comfy enough to brush their boob...

I'm obsessed with my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Hi there, I need advice...I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 11 Months now. And I am pretty much obsessed with him! It's horrible. When he does something wrong, I find myself apologizing! The most recent issue happened last night. I was wor...

Is he just using me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Okay basically; im in a relationship with a boy who iReally love. iLost my virginity to him which makes the situation more complex. He is impatient and takes things a bit too literally when he knows iDont mean it. iReally want to be with him but ...

Worried about risking the only stable relationship in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - My dear friend and I are currently single. He is a big flirt, Has questionable taste in women, very demanding of their time and affection, and then freaks out when he finds out they are or used to be junkies with complicated stds. I am afraid o...

Advice on role playing needed please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. I want to do role play with my boyfriend and I've already bought the outfit. I want to be a slutty nurse... could anyone give me any advise on what to do and say. I have done a bit of role play before but never done it properly. Any t...

How do I explain my born-again virginity to my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend and I are moving in together in 2-3 months. He is a warm, wonderful person. I recently decided that I want to abstain till marriage. Reason? I hit rock bottom last year. I was partying and drinking excessively, and I acci...

Is it me or am I choosing the wrong guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - hi, I have a problem choosing the right guys. I have lots of guys I flirt with around me, and they flirt back. I got a guy texting me for over a year now, but he's too shy or whatever to really ask me out. This other guy I met at a club went out ...

Lots of eye contact on the bus, but he doesn't ask for my number!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - So there's this guy who gets my bus and I see him every now and again. When I get on the bus he's already on it, and when I go to sit down I usually go sit at the back while he sits in the middle, and he just looks at me lustfully and in awe when I ...

Unsure where this relationship is going and afraid of getting hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Hi all, I've got a little dilemma on my hands. I've been seeing this guy for a little over a year now, with no title. We spend a day or two a week together for a few hours because our schedules don't mix at times. He is the only one I'm intimate ...

Going in circles - which of us should back down?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Okay here it is... I met a guy(we will just call him Steve) a little over 2 years ago and we have gone back and forward for the past 2 years because I don't want to stop dating people until he makes a committment to me and he doesn't want to make a ...

Is there a future for me and my fiance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - To give you the background, my fiance and I have been together for nearly three years (engaged for one of those). We were close friends for about a year before we started dating. We moved in together just before getting engaged but have not mad...

Will any man love an ashamed ex-prostitute?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - I am from an abusive family and at the age of 16 I ran away from home. I am ashamed to admit this but I turned to prostitution. I did this for a few months. It is a dark depressing period in my life. I eventually moved in with a friend from ...

I know my rage is out of control but I feel it's justified

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - I need some help here guys... My boyfriend and I are in a deadlock over this issue. We have been dating for 2 and a half years, we had a really rough patch about a year ago. He cheated on me, finalised his divorce etc. Now during that period we ...

I'm grieving and lonely, and I don't know what I should tell her about my feelings for her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - Two months ago my mom lost her long battle with cancer. We are from another state on the other side of the country and none of our relatives were able to come to the funeral. I have no brothers or sisters. My dad passed from a heart attack last ...

Is it the right thing to do to warn a partner we might not look so great when naked?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - I think as we get older, we become a bit less selfish. But even though that is a good thing, it is a shame that we start to put on a bit of weight. Then when we strip naked before having sex, we have to warn the other person that we might not look ...

After only 2 months together my girlfriend thinks I'm boring! How can I change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 2 ish months says i'm boring. What should i do to make her feel that i'm not boring. Our relationship is still new but i must say that we've been through a lot of things together. Please help! I need guidance for this because i'm...

I want a boyfriend! How do I go about getting one when I am the only gay in my school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - Hi I am in my teens and I'm gay. I've been masturbating to gay sex like millions if time and I feel pleasured but the thought that makes me have an orgasm is having a boyfriend and there's no gays in my school except me but no one knows. ...

My ex's cousin wants me to go out with him but I don't want to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - so im 15 years young recently i've been saying im over my ex alot of times yet i know im not in fact i think i love him my ex boyfriend.my exboyfriend cousin likes me hes always calling me and seening how am i doing and when im not in the mood he ...

What's going on with my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - What is going on with my girlfriend? We've been dating for over a year and everything has been going really great. She has been very sweet and everything. However a few weeks ago she went away on a volunteer trip with a group of girls for her coll...

She's curious about a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - recently i have noticed a string of changes between me and my girlfriend. on sunday evening, she opened up and told me while she is in love with me, there is another person who she shares feelings for. i am male, the other person is female. s...

She only sees me as a co-worker and friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - Well about three weeks ago, I started asking this girl at my work place for lunches and hanging out. I thought we were hitting off pretty well. We chatted during our lunches about each other. She even wanted to work out with her so that I will get ...

I love her, yet I know she could do so much better for herself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend now for about 2 weeks, I have never had a problem with going the distance before until recently it has become a problem. Im 20 years old, I hav alot of debt from petty fines, Im quite poor as i am unable to get a job ...

How do you confess your feeling to a shy guy without scaring him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - how do you confess your feelings to a guy who is very shy without scaring him off as he is a good friend and you want to be more than friends but you don't want to ruin your friendship with him?...

He never wants to go out, spend any money or do anything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Ever since the beginning of the year I have felt different towards my boyfriend of 6 years. I used to feel a connection, but now not so much. We still get on very well, but it's like we have separate lives, despite the fact that we live together. ...

He is TOO confusing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - I am in High School and have already experienced my first love and heart break. Before my last break up I constantly flirted with this guy and I found him handsome, intriguing, smart, funny, endlessly fascinating, and just special. He always paid ...

My boyfriend can't make friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I moved to this new city 2 years ago for school. Back home, he had a few friends but they've understandably drifted apart. Here, he has no social outlet besides me. My poor guy tries to make friends but he just can't. He has no...

He's being a jerk to me! Brainstorming needed please!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - hi i have been with my bf since last august, but there's been trouble in paradise, so to speak. at first everything was i love you and you love me and all this planning and dreaming ... we'd met through an online service quite by accident...but w...

Does my girlfriend want to take time out from me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

21 April 2010 (?) - Here's my situation: I am in a long distance relationship with a woman, and things are as good as they can be from a distance. We meet online every night, and talk on the phone every day, and we have visited each other several times, She's in The ...

He's not in my life any more and I'm sooooo miserable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - I broke up with him and now i'm really sad. at school he doesn't seem to mind that we broke up, he even seems happy about it, but after school my texts my cousin alot cussing her out and blaming her for us breaking up. she doesn't like him so he ...

How can I show her that I trust her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - hi, i have a bit of a concern/ worry for my gf. Its a bit mixed up, but: She thinks that i do not trust her much, when my questions are general noseyness and not wanting suprises. She knows i trust her, she asks if i would like to look through her...