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anonymous
writes:I'm a bit worried about my relationship lately.me and my boyfriend been together for more than a year now, we cuddle, kiss, tell each other we love one another a lot but i think he has a thing for my older sister, i dont know why but its just the way they are together and it annoys the hell out of me. what are the signs he likes her?They just seem to get on too well, i want them to get on obviously but its going over the top now. its making my confidence sink, my older sister is a tiny size 6, she is really confident, has a great job, shes 20, and there's me who is a size 10, dont have a lot of confidence, have no job right now, i just feel that maybe he wants her instead of me. I dont know if this is just me and i dont want to confront them they might think im crazy. Me and my sister are extremley close always have been, i dont think that she likes him i just think he wants her, i wish i could be someone else just to make him notice me a bit more because right now he seems interested in her. he looks at her across the table when we are eating dinner, he laughs at her and plays pool with her, he even asks about her day sometimes, he never asks me rarely, the way he smiles at her i wish it was me he smiled at, i have trust issues from being hurt in the past but something inside me is telling me he wants her, not me, what do i do?
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reader, Tasmanian devil +, writes (1 April 2010):
 If you and your sister are so close, then maybe you should talk to her about it, but not in an accusatory tone, just a heart to heart, you seem like you have low confidence, so that might be a reason for paranoia. But if you talk to your sister she can tell you if she thinks hes hitting on her. But it might just be he wants to get close to your sister because he knows how much she means to you and is trying to make a good impression on your family.
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reader, 2old4this  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 He may have a little crush on her or he may just be getting along as friends really well with her i'm not sure. I think the only thing you can do is one day get him alone and be honest and ask what he is feeling.
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