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Archived questions from: 14 April, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is the anniversary of your first date important?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (M) - So I was talking to my sister earlier and the conversation went pretty much like this... Me: I've been with *girlfriend* for 5 years soon. Sister: When's soon? Me: May... ish. Sister: *rant that can be summed up with 'how can you not know when ...

Is he really wanting to break up or is he just being a typical guy that's scared of the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 3 or 4 months now. He's two years older than me and will be entering his last semester of graduate school. I'm a junior who still has two years of college left. Anyway, when we first started dating we were ...

I was thinking about showing up at his place with my raincoat on and nothing underneath for the one hour drive to my mom's cabin. Do guys like things like this? Or, is it too forward?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - I am a 24 year old woman and single (I hope not for much longer). To make a long story short, when I met my boyfriend, I took a deep breath and went after. The problem was that he was rebounding. Over a period of time, he got over that and came ...

I am sick of him throwing a self pity-party

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - Sometimes my boyfriend does things that I have problems with, so I address them with him at an appropiate time. The problem with this is my boyfriend cannot handle hearing anything negative about himself. He does not try to work on me with any ...

He never exactly said it, but he didnt correcj me. When is a gray area considered lying...and does it indicate a pattern of deceit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - Do you think if a guy lies about what he does for a living it says something more about himself? Do you think he's lying about other things? Or he's just a liar in general? The weird thing is, that he hasn't technically lied about his work. ...

How do I deal with the flirty ways of my latin lover...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - ok, i've always been very confident, very independent, and adventurous...my current boyfriend is from south america. he is a big flirt, i know he cares for me, but sometimes when he ogles other women, i get a little weirded out. apparently it's a ...

Have I lost interest in sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - Something strange has happened to me, after a strange first relationship at 16 I ended up celibate for a year BUT now I have no sex drive and I find sex a chore, argh!! Have I lost interest in sex (i still enjoy the emotional aspet)...

She wants sex but it just feels wrong...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (M) - I need some advice. I am 60 and my former girlfriend is 33. We have a son 4 months old. I moved out of her home 2 months ago because she declined to be in a committed relationship with me. She has 4 kids from 4 different dads. Sez now her oldest d...

My cousin and I are in love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (M) - Moderator note: I suspect your age is not what you claim. yes that is my real age people. it may not look like it but I am. sorry. then what can I do to make it better then? hello my name is as it shows at this time. I got a real problem here ...

Is she faking her attraction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (M) - Im trying to figure out what to do here. I have known this girl for just over 3 years now. We met online originally but have built quite a friendship and have been together in person many times now. I have fallen for her. Before meeting her in ...

In love with an ex from 20 years ago!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - I think I'm going crazy.... I am madly in love with my ex from 20 years ago. Did I mention we are both married with children? This has been going on for over a year now and it's not getting any easier. I can not stop thinking about him. Know one ...

Do I make the first move or wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - my friend and me have known each other for 7 and a half years, his the love of my life, i have always wanted to be with him and he knows this. about 4 years make he wanted me to move in with him and i just laugh thinking it was a joke and we left it ...

Rumours that he is a pervert!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - well me and ds guy started talking 1 month back things were fine till 1 week then he suddenly started behaving strange he asked me to give him some time i agreed to it then on 1st april he snt me a text saying that he misses me and he will contact ...

He has a baby so that's making me gunshy about getting involved

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - There is this guy whom I have been madly in Love with since I first laid my eyes on him. I just recently found out that he has a baby. I actually had him to bring his baby by one day so that I could use him in a photo shoot. I was trying to see if ...

Are men interested in girls who model?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - Hi all. For my future career i want to be a model. My first question is how could i pursue this safely as a 14 year old girl, what agencys etc. any suggestions? my second question is that is it true some men don't like to go out with models? im ...

Advice for a new relationship? Also happens to be my first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

14 April 2010 (M) - I know this might sound kind of general, but I am looking for some pointers or advice for someone just starting out in a new relationship. In particular, I would really like some words of wisdom about how to grow a relationship and make it last. ...

I'm confused! Does he have an interest for me or not??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (?) - I'm moving back to my hometown in a couple of months, after 3 years. Thought I would try out this mobile site to meet new people from there. My intention was to never find anyone, but I had an interest in this guy I found, and it has peaked highly. ...

He hasn't contacted me in over a week. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - A week and 2 dayz.. Wth!!!? help!? Okay so ill try to be short and sweet,My bf and i been together for 13 months Im 21 he's 24 we usually see each other twice a week.We usually text each other "ALL'!!! the time(about random stuff) and call each oth...

When I like a guy I get scared and block them, so at 25 I haven't been in a relationship yet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - i'm 25,i haven't been in relationship yet, i'm good looking and i have a job and freinds,the problem is that if i liked a guy i get scared and i blocked him as if i'm guilty or feel ashamed that i liked him,i avoid eye contact or smiling even ...

Is it wrong to want to dance with other boys if I have a boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now, we've known each other for 2 years though and were bestfriends untill we decided to start dating, he constantly tells me he's in love with and never wants us be apart, I know we won't last forever. ...

I love her but she slept with so many men

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

14 April 2010 (M) - I was dating someone a couple years ago that I cared very deeply for. We were having a great time together. During the time we were together she was sexually assaulted by someone she knew. She didn't go to the police or tell anyone for months. ...

What is going on with this boy? Please please help?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - He liked me for months and showed it and I started liking him back too. But the problem was that a close female friend of his started liking him too and began to give me the cold-shoulder. We used to talk and she was even one of the ones to tell me ...

Friends' is not an option, I want all or nothing, ... should I tell her ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (M) - I talked to my ex today, we had hung out last week, and it was like we were together again (she admitted this). I told her that I had feelings for her still, and because of that I couldn't be friends with her right now. I told her that I would ...

I was all excited and ready to start my new life with the man I love, ... until his wife emailed me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - I entered a relationship with an Scotsman 3.5 years ago. We met and started dating online and he's visited me in person in the USA approximately 11 times since he asked me out via email. The plan was for me to move to Scotland when I receive my PhD ...

How long should you be with somebody before meeting family and friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - I have a feeling this is going to get pretty long so apologies in advance and thanks in advance to anybody who manages to get through it all. I left school in '08. My last year of school I had a new teacher. She was nice enough, always late, set...