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writes:i really like this guy. he's smart, kind and sees me 4 the person i really am. the problem is hes seeing someone and i can tell he's not happy. is it the wrong time to tell him how i feel? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2007): Nope. Don't tell him. He already sounds like he has enough to be confused with as it is.
Distance yourself from his relationship problems. You may be all that's holding his relationship together. He gets the friendship and love and support from you, and gets his other needs met by his girlfriend. Between the two of you, he may be unhappy, but not enough to call it quits on the other relationship.
Back off, let him realize how unhappy he is, and then let him end it. Once that's over with, you can move back into his life and seek happiness together, or not - however that may work out.
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reader, agony_emz  +, writes (3 May 2007):
 i feel for you!! i know how u feel! i think that firstly you should talk to him about his feelings for the person he is seeing as you may have misunderstood his body language! for yourself i think you should wait first as this could end up hurting yourself and this guy. and if you are right about him not being happy dont jump straight into telling him how u feel as he will be confused and this can make him run scared which u dont want!! good luck x
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