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*onfussed?????
writes:Hey, im a member of a sports club that i go to every day, theres a guy who works in the shop there that i like so much, the only problem is im 16, hes 24+. I talk to him everyday and it sort of seems to me that theres playful flirty banter between us.The other day i went in the shop and he was in there with a few of his friends one of them asked me if he's asked me out, i misheard and thought he said did you ask him out, so jokingly i said yes, then realised what he actually said and said i was joking then he looked at me and smiled.After this one of his friends came and was talking to me asking fairly personal questions. I dont know wether to tell him how im feeling or not, because if he didnt feel the same way it would then make it really akward to see him everyday.Please helpConfused xx
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reader, confussed????? +, writes (4 May 2007):
confussed????? is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for the two answers but i am living in the Uk, where you are legal from 16.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2007): This one is simple. Go ahead on crush on him. Feel free to fantasize about him...
But whatever you do, don't ask him out, and do not say "yes" if he asks you out. You're only 16, and the age difference is significant. Plus, if you really like him, you won't want to risk him getting in very serious trouble.
And if he falls in love with you, he won't mind waiting until you turn 18. Of course, if he pushes for sex, you might as well dump him, because it just won't work out.
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reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (4 May 2007):
 hun you should tell him how you feel telling someone how you feel about something is very importent no matter how hard it can be but you will feel alot better but honestly i wouldnt be messing with him or trying to get with him he is to old, you can have him put in jail if someone finds out, you are better off friends. trust me i am not trying to be a bitch but when i was 16 i dated a 21 yr old and someone called the cops and he went to jail i felt so bad, and if you like him as a friend you should keep it as that, but if you still want to be with him be very careful!
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