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writes: Ok i think i maybe blind rite now in this stitution and i need help with this cuz iv never done anything like this this b4 iv always hav had guys ask me out like as being there gf but i hav this guy friend who asked me if i wanted to go out with him sometime and i said yea..that doesnt mean were bf and gf rite now rite? Him and i hav hangout only 3 times so far cuz of our work shifts he has to jobs and and he lives on the other side of town but when we chill we kiss and stuff and we both know we like each another hes told my bestfriend a few times that he really really likes me one time the 3 of us went to dinner and i went to the restroom and as soon as i left he told my bestfriend that he really really likes me... So whats goin on between us? With him and me kissin and stuff and the way he asked me if i would go out wit him sumtime i just cant figure it out weather or not hes my bf... And if hes not how will i know? And if we aint y hasnt he asked me out by now? Im 22 hes 32 i hate bein clueless plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (19 December 2007):
 It's a strange one. I remember that when I met my girlfriend we hit it off right away and we had been flirting a little for months beforehand. We got it together and it went pretty quick.I remember we met a couple of friends of mine for my birthday drink and they asked me how I knew everyone there. So I introduced everyone and told them how I met them. I remember my girlfriend was a bit put out I hadn't introduced her as my girlfriend. I could see it in her face and she wanted to go home.I thought of her as my girlfriend but I didn't know whether she was comfortable with that or if she indeed felt I was her boyfriend. Anyway, after a chat we kissed and cuddled and that's when we confirmed it.I would say look we're spending more time together and I feel so comfortable and at ease with you. I really like you - are we like boyfriend/girlfriend? Cos I don't want to see anyone else.And see what he says.
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