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writes: Hi,Im in 10th grade and i have guy problem. There is this kid that i have had a crush on since 9th grade. The weriod thing is though is that his friend told me that he liked me. I didn't even know who the heck this guy was until i met him face to face at a social event. Nothing happend between us because it was the end of the year. Now that im in 10th grade his locker is right next to mine. He's beem asking me out almost every week since school started. I told him no because that he is the kind of kind who hangs out with the guys who are like pricks, But one time i did say yes and he said that he was just playing around. What confuses me the most is the last time he asked me out i said no and he said thanks for rejecting me and i saw it in his eyes that im really not sure if he was serious or not. The next day at school one of my friends who was also his friend asked him if he asked me out the day before and he said that he did ask me out and i rejected him. He won't even look at me when he said that. After that day he has never really talked to me or nothing. Before the last time he asked me out he was always calling my name and always was tryin to get my attention. But it confusses me because if he was playing around the whole time with me making me think that he liked me (wheather or not he did) do you think that he was really serious the last time he asked me out?
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (28 January 2006):
 He could have been serious, it is hard to tell what is going on in the mind of a 10th grade boy! If you feel like you want to have a relationship with this boy, you rpobably need to smooth over the rejection he feels first. Next time you spot him at his locker, maybe you could say to him that you never know if he is dserious about you because he is such a joker, or something like that. You want him to know that you didn't mean to reject him you just never know when he is just playing around. But really, if he is the kind of guy that would ask you out and when you say yes say he was just joking he may not be the kind of guy you want to give your heart to, he may still have some growing up to do. Good luck, let us know how it goes.
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