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writes: Me (21) and my girlfriend (19) loved each other. She has two ex's who make up alot of stuff about her. At first I stupidly accused her of these. But they are all false. I trust her with my life and have never been so happy with someone, she is amazing.But now she has broken up saying that if she is single then we both won't be hurt when things are made up about her. We have both had bad relationships before and i desperately don't want to lose her as she is truely special. She says she misses me and i think she still loves me too but she is trying so supress her feelings to stop herself getting hurt again. Her mother told me she said she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. She told me she only wants to be with me but she is doing the right thing in being on her own.Do i have any hope of getting back together with her? Reply to this Question
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reader, MilanaNYC21 +, writes (31 January 2006):
 YES, there is hope but you must act fast. First off, let her know how stupid you were for listening to her ex's. Then apologize repeatedly and then buy her a huge bouqet of flowers and a box of candy. Let her know you have also thought about spending the rest of your life with her and there is nothing more you would like than to prove to her how amazing you truly think she is.
If the perseverance does not work for the next month, then my friend you have lost her. Let it be a lesson, to trust your instinct and not listen to gossip!
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