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Archived questions from: 14 August, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He wants to support me while I job search, Should I let him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I lived together, then he got a better job across the country. We miss each other a lot and the distance has been rough. I have only been able to start my job search this month (we've been apart a year). We just signed a lease on an ...

He's acting more distant. But I can't see what I did wrong. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - I have been seeing someone and we have been getting on so well he knows a lot of my friends too so it's not like I am any girl. He has just acted so distant and failed to make plans with me over the last few weeks! I have seen him as we have all ...

I want him to get a divorce so we can marry. Why does his wife keep trying to get his attention? I want her gone.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - im living with a man twice my age. yes he could be my daddy. but i love him. he works hard, cooks for me, cleans. and i dont have to work. the problem is is that his wife is still in the picture. she just wont get the hint, that he loves me and n...

We've been together a long time. But is the attraction waning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

14 August 2012 (M) - Hi,I've been with my girlfriend for five years. We are engauged and due to get married next july.She dose not like going places as she is an extreme home bird. When we go for dinnar I find that there is poor conversation. Or if we go away on holid...

I think he's the ONE. He's cheating on his Gf to be with me. But why the delay in breaking up with his GF?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - There's this guy. And he's cheating on his girlfriend.. with me. I'm the 'other girl.' I honestly love him and think he's the one. However, he told me he's thinking of breaking up with his girlfriend to be with me, but he hasn't. It kill...

I love my Gf not my ex. What can I say to my Gf when she objects to me talking to my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

14 August 2012 (M) - Ok, a little back story of my ex and I. We practically grew up together starting from middle. We were best friends and soon gravitated to being something more. We've been through a lot together and could never really let eachother completely go. She ...

Like her personality but not fully attracted to her physically. Do I stay or move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

14 August 2012 (M) - I've been dating this woman I met online now for about two months now and I'll be honest when it comes to the physical attraction I just don't find her as attractive as I want to find a girl I date to be. I find myself looking at other women when...

Should I ever bother? He doesn't believe that something damaged from the past can be fixed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4280 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - Is there any hope for the future? I was seeing this guy of whom ive loved ever since I met him, his actions shows he felt the same however was always shy. We ended but stayed friends. however even whilst he was with someone else he still thought...

There's this guy. And he's cheating on his girlfriend.. with me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - There's this guy. And he's cheating on his girlfriend.. with me. I'm the other girl. I honestly love him and think he's the one. However, he told me he's thinking of breaking up with his girlfriend to be with me, but he hasn't yet. and...

Shouldn't you see someone regularly for a relationship to work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - It seems like the odds are stacked against me and my ex who have just got back together after a few years of being apart. We have been together again for 5 months, but I hardly get to see him and it's breaking my heart,because I love him so much ...

I'm feeling uncomfortable with my boyfriend's reaction to what I wear.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - Hi guys So I'm feeling uncomfortable with my boyfriend's reaction to what I wear. I am a doctor and at work I wear scrubs. He came to see me at work the other day and then said he could see my bra (the strap was showing so I pulled my top back ...

I love my boyfriend but I cannot stand his personality any longer!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - I love my boyfriend so much but I cannot stand his personality anymore. When we first met, it was like a match made in heaven. We are so passionate with each other and I have never been in love with anyone else the way I am now with him. The problem ...

I'm fed up with men!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - I am seriously getting fed up now with men. I am 30, slim attractive and I do get a lot if male attention. Every guy I seem to meet it only seems to last a few months and then I think it's going well and they disappear. I don't chase after them but ...

I'm seriously falling for my boyfriend and show him tons of affection but I don't feel I'm getting any back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4281 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - I'm so confused and upset I would really love to hear others point of view I meet my boyfriend online 8 months ago and things are generally good I'm still yet to hear that he loved me. I fing his behaviour very confusing so to make it easier I...

After many difficulties we broke up. Would I be right in suspecting he had this girl waiting in the wings all along?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - hi readers. so my boyfriend of three years and i have split up again. we went through this circle of breaking up and getting back. he was a bit too possessive over my internet life and would not stop spying on me blah blah blah. now he has met s...

Does her sexual past matter? Would I prefer this new friend over my GF just because of my Gf's sexual past?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

14 August 2012 (M) - I have never been the jealous type and I am not sure I would define what I feel as jealousy. My new girlfriend sexual past is really affecting me. I have had quite a few girlfriends in my life and never felt anything like this before. Not even c...

When I think about having feelings for others I just feel numb. How can I overcome this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - Hi I find it very hard to have feelings for someone I just feel completely numb like I have no feelings at all its down to being treated so bad by my ex boyfriends I think I did meet someone nearly two years ago who only wanted a fwb but I star...

One thing sober, another drunk! What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - Whilst seeing someone new my best friend made it clear he wanted to get with me. Let's call my friend P. P's best friend told me he was in tears when he found out I was with someone new. I stopped dating this guy in hopes of getting with my frien...

Should I be worried that b/f has stopped using pet names and just calls me by my name?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - Dear all, Would you be concerned if your boyfriend stopped calling you pet names and replaced with using your first name instead? I noticed my bf of 8 months as started doing this. For example instead of hello or goodnight my darling/ angel/ ...

Is it fair to ask my boyfriend to pay the bills if he moves in and pay no rent?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - Would it be fair to ask for my boyfriend to pay all bills (electricity, gas and water) if he moved in with me? I have a house but have a mortgage. He is wanting us to live together but only gives me options of selling or renting mine out and get...

Am I a fool for staying with someone who still can tell their ex they love them too when they can't say that to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

14 August 2012 (M) - I have been with the same guy for a year and half. He has always said he had love for me but also has love for his ex. I recently discovered some text that I might not should have from his ex talking about their sexual past. They don't live in ...

Why can't I have a spine to leave him? Please help me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - Hi Why do women even the one who are financially way independent keep on stay in an abusive relationship. My bf for one always and keeps on abuses me emotionally, never show his affection, always makes me wonder whether im imagining thin...