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Archived questions from: 28 November, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What do I do about my dirty little secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - what do i do when i really like this guy, i've dated him before and we've had sex lots of times, were not dating right now, i'm kinda making him my dirty little secret (cheating) but i really like him and i don't wanna hurt the guy i'm with...idk ...

How long would you wait for this woman in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - A question mainly for guys I guess - if you were in your late forties and rarely met a woman that you were attracted to and then met one that you got to know over several years and really, really liked her but circumstances were preventing you from ...

Why has she not run off screaming yet? What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I don't know how but Whenever I've tried dating girls before I've somehow always ballsed things up. They tend to like me, then they get to know me a bit and then suddenly I've lost all appeal. Probably because I'm myself, I don't try to be ...

Help me interpret these men!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4541 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - My bf broke up with me about two months ago, he said that he thinks we are just better off as friends. He recently starting talking to me again and told me that he still really wants to be my friend and so we started hanging out more. Last time i ...

So if he does not want to see me why not just say "I am busy" without saying he wants to go out?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi, I am a bit confused and i am not sure if this guy is blowing me off. We went out a couple of times and last week he kept saying that we have to meet up this week and he would love to see me BUT .. this never happens ! So if he does not w...

I'm scared because I'm starting to really like him and I think I should hold off on the sex, but our sexual chemistry is through the roof.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I met this guy on an Internet dating site, we spoke on the phone for 3.5 hours before meeting up and numerous texts. We went out for a very nice dinner and made plans to see each other a couple days later. We ended up sleeping together and he ...

Is her answer code for a blow off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - This girl and ii were planning on going out for our third date. She had previously not returned a late Phone call of mine, but a few days later when I asked her out she said yes, and that she was excited and couldn't wait. I texted a few days later, ...

How do I get through this date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I haven't dated for a while and I impulsively agreed to a date with my brother-in-laws brother. The thing is, I'm extremely nervous whole thing. I don't think we've actually spoken in the 4+ years that my sister has been married to his brother. He ...

Why can’t they just accept him for the person he is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little more than a year now. I’m going to be 20 and he’s going to be 21 next year. The problem is all about my boyfriend and what people think about him. He was working with my cousin at home depot before he got ...

I am totally messed up when it comes to relationships/sex/dating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi! I really need some advice and input from all of you wise people out there! :) I am 19. I've been in two relationships. The first one was at 15 and lasted for 2 months. The second one was at 17 and lasted a month. I dumped both of them. I ...

What does "I like it when you are strong" mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone this is my question what do you think my boyfriend of 8 month meant by this he said to me last night when we were talking he likes it when I'm strong what can he mean by this thank you ...

Were these bad questions to ask?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - I started dating this woman. She has asked me these questions many many times. "Why do you love me?", "Why me?" Why do you find me attractive?" I easily answer them. Early in the am, I texted her cell phone with some questions of my own. I ...

Should I tell the 26 year old I like how I feel? Do I even stand a chance with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - ok so here is how it goes.im a 16 years old teen who has feeling for a 26 years old guy with me in a department..ive always ignored what i felt because this is weird and stupid..but its just that the guys is amazing and i really get along ...

She used to text me all the time but she has stopped and is now talking to a guy on Facebook...should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - I've been dating this girl for a little over a month now, and from what I thought we are both madly in love,, we used to text eachother all the time(hundreds of messages a day), but about four days ago she almost stopped texting all together and ...

Not attracted to the guy I'm dating....am I shallow? Will this change as I get to know him better?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hey all! I don't wanna sound shallow or anything, but I've recently been on a few dates with this guy. Nothing happened, but he is clearluy interested in me. I have a good time with him and all, but... I think he's really ugly and I don't feel any ...

How do you feel about nick-names in a loving relationship? Do you have a favorite nick-name?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Does your loved one give you nick names? Or a nick name? And which one do you love the most? I think nick-names can be a barometer of a relationship. If the nick-names stopped happening then I would know there was a problem, even if nothing had been ...

The man who I thought of as a father figure has started hitting on me and I think its disgusting!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi all, I am feeling so pathetic right now. So I recently got to know this particular someone through my work. He was like a father figure as he was very helpful and I felt like he treated me like a daughter-ish or you know, like h...

Does he like me or was he just being friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - basically there's a guy from uni who is quiet but i always speak to him..not really ever attaractive to him bt he keeps himself to him self...then yesterday we both randomly chatting on fb and said personal family things...i said hug. his response ...

When I do choose one man over the other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4542 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - So I'm dating two men. One for six weeks and one for 3 weeks. I've seen both about 5 times. At what point do I stop dating one or the other? When a conversation arises? I like both and I want a boyfriend that will lead to marriage. Neither has ment...

Why do men become too familiar so quickly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - What is it with men who act way too familiar with you on the first few dates?? I've gone out with a few men who act like were already married on a first date. I say that because people will ask how long we've known each other and I'll say " 2 days" ...

I'm still living with the "ugly-younger-me" mentality even though I've now grown to be this gorgeous woman.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

28 November 2011 (?) - I have serious body image issues. It all spawned from chronic low self esteem, depression, etc... I used to be fat and ugly and guys and girls would bully me over it.. Until one day I blossomed, and I'm what people call "gorgeous" but I genuinely do ...

My boyfriend spoils me to the point where its become uncomfortable!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - So ive only been dating my boyfriend for a few weeks now, but i feel like he spoils me entirely TOO much, as selfish as that sounds, in a way it kind of makes me feel helpless like im incapable of doing anything myself. I told him about it, and he ...

Does she see me as more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4541 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - Hi, I would really appreciate some feedback. I've been really good friends with this girl for a while now, I've always known who she was, but in the last couple of months, I've really gotten to know her. We have a couple classes together, so I s...

Is he attracted to me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Does this man like me ?. I'll call this man J. I was talking to one of his friends today and his friend said " J loves you " and i said " how do you know ? " and he said " he told me ".Now , by saying he loves me, do you think he means it ...

The girl I like is a Jehovah's Witness

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - There's this girl who I found to be amazing. I am the type to fall for girls who "catch my eye" as in i am picky and i go for girls who call out to me. This girl caught my eye a while ago but she's one of those girls that i call wayy out of my le...

How to make him hold my hand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - This is going to sound stupid but here goes. I'm a teenager. There's this boy I like, and I've only known him a few months but I want to start moving forward with him. I don't want to hurry things though, he always gives me a cuddle as I leave hi...

Is he telling me the truth about working in Porn films? Or just saying it to shock me? How should I react?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - well at this moment in time im very confused! I've been seeing this guy for a while now and i knew he had a bit of a strange past since the beginning! but he has told told me he used to film porn movies and has also had sex with porn stars......

I want to break it off with him. But its like he has me on a leash. How do I find the strength?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4542 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi I'm 17 and I've been with this guy for about 6 months now. He's my brothers friend, well they're not really friends but they know each other. He was so nice and sweet in the beginning but now oh my god he is the worst. He treats me like s^^t and...