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writes:Hey, well last time i was in this situation it just sort of fit, so im not too sure how to go about it again with the new girl. I see her a few times a week because of college, got speaking and i think we have gotten quite close for how long we have been speaking and we get on well. Now, i want to ask her if she wants to go out or to come round to mine, but not sure how to go about it? should i straight out say 'do you wanna come over/go out'? or say like, 'well if youve got nothing better to this weekend im going out you can come along if you want'. So its either make it a strong invite or an optional one, if that makes sence. Just scared im gonna scare her off by being so frontal after a short amount of time, think its worth a shot? Reply to this Question
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reader, GingerPrinz +, writes (3 October 2007):
Always be as frank and upfront as possible. You wouldn't be the first guy yo say "hey there's, uh, a thing ahppening someplace Saturday, uuuh, come if you like" and then for that girl to turn up with a date. If you make your position clear the worst that can happen is she'll say no, then you'll know where you stand.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (2 October 2007):
Don't say "if you've got nothing better?" Just ask her if she would like go to xxxx with you Saturday night. Take it from there.
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