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writes: I dont really know what to say but i really really need some answers please.Im 17, about 3 months ago I started talking to a guy who lives quite far away from me, we're of a similar age and we talk and talk on messenger, and talk on the phone and text all the time. Well we have been anyway. I really like him. I never fall very badly and haven't really been bothered about this kind of thing before. Im a pretty head strong person so don't generally get swept up in all of the guy thing, I mean i've obviously had bf's and pulled guys and stuff but yeah...But he's different I swear I think about him all the time and I've tried to forget about him, honestly I have, but I can't. I really want to be with him and imagine us being together and imagine us doing things together.When we do speak, its amazing, and we talk about seeing each other etcThen he'll go off on a 4 day bender and i wont hear from him, which is fine. But, i've come to the conclusion that i have to do something about this because i feel like im spending half my time waiting to hear from him these days.I thought f*ck it, move on but Im not finding it that easy.So what do i do?1. Tell him exactly what i feel, with fear of sounding like a twat and also being rejected and also it might not be that easy because I cant just come out with something deep like that.2. forget about him, forget about these feelings. move on. end of. i just dont think i can do it, and if i could i dont no if i want to.I just want him to be honest,Im really sorry if i sound stupid but i REALLY need some advice.stuff like this doesnt happen to me everydaythanks x
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reader, Andy00  +, writes (18 December 2007):
 If you are still interested in having something with this guy, I'd say talk to him about it. Surely there isn't any harm in doing so. I understand the fear of looking foolish and being rejected can be quite intimidating, but sometimes in love, these are gambles that you have to take. If you don't talk to him, do you see there being any chance at all of you having anything? If you don't take the gamble, whatever could have happened between you won't happen, in which case you must accept that, and try to move on. The ball is really in your court. The decision is yours to take.
Good luck, and I hope you make the right choice for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): try doing something physical with him. something where you have to touch hands or anything kind of contact. see what happens
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