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writes: Hi aunts, just want to say thanx for your advice in the past and just some more advice and info on another question.... My boyf of 2 years went to his Christmas party with his boss and few other guys last week. It was one of them huge party nites with lots of other groups/companies at it. Because his company were paying for everything, dinner, accomodaton in the hotel and of course boys being boys they would be up all nite drinking in the residents bar. Yest he asked me to send a txt message to one of his friends as I'm quicker at typing it out than he is. As I was goin thro his messages to find the one i needed to reply to I saw a number which was vaguely like the one I was looking for so I looked at the message. Except it was from a girl saying "thank you for been such a gentleman last nite" and her name at the end of it. This was sent at 5.40am in the morning and I am wondering what does she mean? I haven't mentioned this to him as I really don't know what to make of it. There was another message after that one asking did he get home ok sent around lunch time next day? Has he cheated on me? There's one other girl that we both know called this girl's name but she is married to his best friend...... I haven't slept last nite wondering and worrying about it.....
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reader, frizzylizzy  +, writes (21 December 2007):
 Listen finding out can't be as painful as the anxiety your feeling right now. Its time for you to be strong and be straight up with him and just ask him. Its better to know, honestly.. I still think it's quiet innocent, do you knwow what he is texting..
Look good luck girl, if he is cheating on you your better off finding out now and not wasting anymore time on him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey again.He was texting her again last night. I want to know whats happening but at the same time I don't want the heartbreak of finding out he was with some one else either.....I was physically sick when I found out today he was texting her again last night....
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I know I should talk to him about this but I'm just afraid of hearing what I dread most in the world and that he cheated on me! Thanks a mil for your advice :)
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reader, frizzylizzy +, writes (17 December 2007):
You need to ask him about this. To be honest it seems quiet harmless and the chances are it is but you need to put your mind at ease...
I don't think he will mind too much, especially since he's not hiding his phone but just bring it up casually, don't accuse him of cheating just be very casual when you ask him about it. I bet its very innocent.
good luck girl
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