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writes: Been seeing a guy for a while now. We get along great and have a lot of feelings for each other. He hugs me all night long and the only time he doesnt is when I hug him. It feels great for both of us but he won't kiss me. The first night we spent in the same bed together, (nothing happened) he kissed me. I was half asleep and by the time I realised he had kissed me I would have kissed him back, but he rolled over to go to sleep and the chance was missed. Since then, nothing. I've gone to kiss him a few times but can sense he is not keen; he is shy but even though we sleep together, hug each other and have feelings for each other, this is the only thing that doesn't happen. Please help.
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Jess, writes (11 March 2005): If he has not had many/any partners before, he might be a bit scared about taking the next step with you. Even though kissing is quite innocent in itself, he might think that one thing may lead to another, and that he will end up in unchartered waters and not know what to do next! If you're worried about it, maybe you need to be the one who makes the first move. Just be gentle and loving about it, and keep him as relaxed as possible. If he doesn't respond to that, maybe you'll need to talk to him and ask him if he feels uncomfortable doing anything with you.But just be supportive and understanding - you cant go wrong!
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