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writes: I've just started a relationship with a new guy and I like him so much. We haven't been together very long, but get on so well! We have already slept together in the same bedroom and experimented with foreplay a little. I'm 20 and he's 18 and we are both virgins and are planning on sleeping together. Problem is I'm worried that when I do sleep with him he will lose interest or move on to someone else and I will get hurt. I know I worry about things a lot and I wish I could stop being so possessive. I'm also worried he doesn't like me as much as I like him because he doesn't tell me Ii'm gorgeous all the time like my ex boyfriends used to do. He is a very shy guy - but very good looking and I'm gradually trying to bring him out of his shell.I'm not very experienced with relationships either and don't really know how I should behave in them!Please help!
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Jai, writes (7 March 2005): As you are a virgin, I would think long and hard before you commit to anything. Losing your virginity will stay as a memory for the rest of your life, therefore, you want it to be a good memory.Only sleep with him if it feels absolutely right. Don't be hung up over him not paying you compliments. he is probably thinking how gorgeous you are in his head but too shy to say so.Try telling him how pretty and gorgeous he makes you feel instead.
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