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writes: I am finding it really hard to find my soul mate. How do I know I'm in Love if I don't know what Love is??
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2005): Follow your heart and pray about your soul mate. I'm following mine. I beleve that I have found my soul mate. Once you find them, don't let them go, because they are hard to come by. There is a such thing as a soul mate. My soul mate and I have almost everything in common, some things we disagree on though. I think it's awesome that we have the same birthday. If they are your soul mate, you should be able to feel a strong connection between the two of you. When your with them, enjoy every moment. My soul mate and I love to be around each other. He makes me feel so lucky to have a wonderful, loving, Christian guy like him. Just ask God about it and don't get mad if your prayer is not answered right away. God knows wha He's doing. God Bless You!!!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (13 March 2005):
 A good place to start is to recognise that the whole "soul mate" ideal - the fantasy that there exists one perfect person somewhere Out There, someone who is Exactly Right For You - is a load of old tosh.Every single human everywhere is imperfect, up to and including a person who might happen to love you with every fibre of his/her being. That person, should you locate him/her, might grow to first tolerate, then even enjoy, your particular flaws, in just the same way that you'll overlook hers/his.When you love someone, you feel confident and peaceful whether that person is around or not. You trust that person's judgement and trust that, even if there's temptation around, they'll come back to you. And you know you'll be glad to see them.A loving relationship starts with being friends first, having similar outlook and interests. It grows from there and occasionally stumbles, which is still OK. Recognition of the other person's imperfections is balanced by affection for their better qualities.So, don't go out into the World of Romance looking for your soul mate. There is no such person. Look for someone who you'd want to be friends with and someone that you feel comfortable talking to. Look for a person who makes you laugh and who makes you like yourself. Look for a person who likes to do things you like to do, whatever those things are.In a world of six billion individuals, you'll find someone who fits that description.Hope that this helps.
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