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Is it wrong to date two guys at the same time?

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Question - (4 April 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2013)
A female Nigeria age 26-29, anonymous writes:

is it right to date two guys at a time? There is this who helped me once with finding a location. And since then, we've been friends. I tell him some personal things about myself, and he does same. I like him as a friend and wish to kip it like that with him. I dont want to take things further with him since i have a bf who im very much in love with(and since i started dating this guy, i cant accept another offer from any guy no matter how tempting it may be) but this guy wants to take things further.

He says he is going to say goodbye to me if i dont accept to date him. And he says he is going to treat me like a queen if i only accept to date him. I dont want to date him and i have told him but he doesnt want to give up, and i dont want to date him. Im just confused.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (4 April 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntif you don't want to date him then don't date him.

if he says "date me or i'm leaving" then he's not a friend and let him leave.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2013):

"He says he is going to say goodbye to me if i dont accept to date him."

He's not a friend then at all OP, time to get rid of him. A friend would respect your relationship and your decision. He's also lying about treating you like a queen because right now he's treating you like a whore. He doesn't care how you feel, he doesn't care that you're happy with your boyfriend and that makes him a shit friend and a liar.

You can't trust this guy with your heart or friendship he only wants what he wants and he doesn't care what you want.

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