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male
age
30-35,
*rico
writes:Am a guy of 22 ,handsome and very jovial with everyone espercially with girls which makes them to be fond of me to an extent that whenever they are doing something they will always want me to be by their side for jokes. There is this particular girl that am having feelings for but she doesn't know. Anytime am by her side i feel so happy that i joke to the maximum with her and she loves it which makes me feel much more better. She shares her private life stories with me sometimes telling me of her past boyfriends and i also try to advice her on certain issues relating to her and she appreciates it. The problem is that i don't know if i tell her she's going to accept me because some of my friends approached her she rejecting some and mingling with some one attitude of hers is her friendliness with people which gives me double mind of me telling her my feelings. Numerous times i do call her sweetheart which she does reciprocates just for pleasantry sakes. Even when i was about to travel to where am studying which i told her am going to be there for about 2 months. She told me she going to miss me dearly together with some other girls. When i finally got to where am studying i started missing her which made me call her sometimes boasting her happiness telling me she misses me. If i don't call her for a long time she'll call me and we chat well. Sometimes when i call my friends they'll tell me she's asking of me ceaselessly to an extent that i don't call her for a long time she'll call asking me why i didnt call her for that long. A day arrived that i just decided to pay a visit where she works and it happened that she travelled, due to the fact that i told her on phone that am coming to pay a visit to her workplace she told she'll leave wherever she went to just to come and see me. To my greatest surprise she came and we chatted for a long time. When it was time for me to go she decided to see me off to where am going to take a bus back to where am studying then she left back to where she's residing. Anytime am coming back she'll tell me to let her know so that she could prepare my arrival. If i eventually come back and am worn down and hungry she'll cook for me on her own might. Sometimes if i ask to give her money to prepare she'll reject but later if she sees am that hungry she'll see to that i've eating. And if she hasn't she'll so guilty.whenever am discussing with other girls she'll tell me to leave but in my mind i think she might just be joking she will keep on sazing it and laughing at the same time making wonder if she is serious or playing. Anytime. Recently i told her i'll be leaving the next day to school she told me to extend it a day more that if i don't she'll be furious with me i agreed but didn't obey. When rhe saw me about to leave on my own scheduled day she became furious with me and later i calmed her down telling her the reasons. Whenever am leaving she'll like to see me off telling me mostly as a warning not to date girls in school . So dear friends am contemplating whether if i tell her my true feelings she is going to accept me. Dear friends i'll need your candid advice most espercially the females.please i want to know if she really loves me dearly because one thing baffles me she use to tell me of a guy she's dating for a long time but didn't say whether they've seperated. Am afraid to be refused and to be intruder.i need seriously your best available opinion and advice . Thanks all for your cooperation.
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reader, harchi +, writes (4 April 2013):
 what i have to say about this is you may not know if she feels the same way if u dont tell her your heart. If u are scared of her reaction thats no priority. But anyway why dont you try out ur luck before someone does for you.
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