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*eaofconfusion
writes:My boyfriend, J, of 10 months broke up with me. We were having a long distance relationship. He says he has to move on because I lied to him. But he still feels for me and that he would never give up hope that we'll one day come back to each other. After all of what happened on Monday and yesterday, I'm surprise he doesn't hate me. But I have to fulfill three things.Mature emotionally.Prove my love to him.And the toughest one of all.Completely forget about two guys in my life.JJ and D.JJ wasn't much of a boyfriend, but. I really really did like him. I was in 8th grade at the time and I was so deeply hurt when I found out he cheated on me. This was online, by the way.D I actually dated personally. It was an IRL relationship. So much stuff happened and I wanna forget it all, is it possible to forget about them? Literally? to it's fullest? I believe I can, but I just wanted your opinions and to see if anyone out there is in the same boat as I am, or have been.I don't wanna move on, I feel as if I can't move on without J. He was so perfect no matter how many stuff we go through. He would be the only guy to have never hurt me in my entire life. At least...I think so...I'm only eighteen and about to graduate.
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reader, UndecidedIsland  +, writes (2 May 2010):
I don't think any of us ever forget past relationships. After all, you always get something out of a relationship and that is what makes you who you are today. To ask someone to forget an ex is immature in itself. To me - the 3 things he has asked you to do makes him sound insecure. Maybe a bit of time apart is not such a bad thing? You never said what you lied about so maybe you need to examine what is wrong in the relationship that made you feel the need to lie to him.
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reader, Teaofconfusion +, writes (22 April 2010):
Teaofconfusion is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't wanna get over my ex. We still have hope.I just wanna forget JJ and D completely.Is that possible?
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reader, heather108 +, writes (22 April 2010):
 There is an old saying that's actually very good advise:
"The best way for a girl to get over
one guy is to get under another one."
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Life is too short to pout so it's time to move on... ;~)
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