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writes:about 5 months ago me and my mum had a masive fight and she kicked me out, my boyfriend of 4 years still wanted to keep in touch with her, what i was fine about. not too long ago me and my boyfriend had a argument my mum had told him my dad didnt like him and thinks im too good for my boyfriend, whats crap as my dads never said a bad word about my boyfriend and they get on when there together. but my boyfriend was convinced and started shouting at me when we was out together, i got so up set and didnt want to argue with him in public so i left. I know my boyfriend has quite a lot on his mind at the minuet but he knows that its a bad idea to leave me stewing as all i do is worry. I told him i wanted a fresh start where he dont see my mum and we keep our selfs to our selfs, he said he needed time to think about it and that he will talk to me when he is ready. i have gave him more than 2 weeks and ive still not heard any thing from him. I`m worried its over, i dont want to lose him, ive even given up some one who wants to go out with me ive told him to never talk to me again because i love my boyfriend. so ive pushed some one else away, and now my boyfriend has done this. how do i get my boyfriend back ive text him telling him i love him and want him in my life and that im willing to do any thing to have him back. we havnt yet split up but im un sure if we are going out now as we havnt spoken for so long. how do i get him back to how he was befor my mum started spreading roumers please help!!! xx
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (15 September 2009):
 If your boyfriend is willing to listen to your mum's false statements (rumours) even after four year sof getting to know you, it indicates the relationship was not strong and he is not worth having around.
Since you've already let him know how you feel, and he has not been in touch, it is safe to assume you are single. Begin your grieving process and move one.
It sounds as though you have a very troubled family. You may want to concentrate on making THOSE healthier and more respectful and rewarding relationships, instead of focusing to much energy on a man who took someone else's word over yours.
Good luck.
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