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Archived questions from: 9 September, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He tried to kiss me but I refused, he's apologised but should I see him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - I started to talk to a really nice lad on on fb I no him from around the village, I met up with him at about 2 in the morning with one of my other friends, and he tried to kiss me, however I felt really awkward and refused. He said 'sorry for being ...

What kind of behavior is this for a relationship? Is it acceptable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - I have a friend who's in a bit of a situation with his girlfriend/female friend that wants to date him. I put a slash term there, as neither of them really know if they're dating or not - too many emotional episodes, it would seem. Anyways, uh, a...

Whats going on with my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4251 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - Hi aunt Agony, I use to be really fit and active, hiking, indoor and outdoor sport, working out, but recently stopped because I have major injuries from rhe start of this year. I am outgoing and good looking (I have been told).For a time now I feel ...

Do men get intimidated by beautiful women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - Do men get intimidated by beautiful women? What are your thoughts on this? I've seen this question elsewhere and thought I'd ask the users here....

Should I ask him if I'm the problem why he can't be satisfied?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - I have been seeing my b/f for about 18 months now. We spend weekends together when we can. We are both in our 40s. We never managed intercourse but always satisfied orally. I can't satisfy him orally now and he won't kiss passionately anymore. I...

How do ask or find out if I'm wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - Well there's this girl I really like. She is rather shy. I have taken her out once and we both had a good time. She's been rather quiet recently but theres been a lot going on in my life and her life. What I would like to do is get some ...

G/f always puts family before me because she needs to feel wanted by her family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - I will try to keep this short... my girlfriend and I have dated for a little over 2 years, and we're in college together. Recently we've started to have some problems. Lately she's been "standing me up" a lot more, canceling plans frequently (more ...

He has never had children and I can't have any now. I worry that someday he'll want them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man for 2 years. He is 40 and I am 50. We love and care about each other but there is a problem. He is not sure if he wants kids and I am unable to have kids. I have one child from a previous marriage. He told ...

Why does he go out of his way to push my buttons when I'm having my period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (?) - Around the time of my period, I've noticed myself to be in a pretty bad mood, feeling crappy and being over-emotional. I admit that. What I don't get is why my bf pushes my buttons about it. He will know that I'm on my period, and ANY comment I make ...

I have a boyfriend but I have strong feelings for a past love. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - Hi there. I've been with my bf for two years but last year we broke up for around 4 months and I dated another guy while on a trip to the beach. We both lived in the same city but when we went back home nothing ever happened. We stopped talking but ...

Fate seems to be getting in the way of me getting a girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - Is there truly such a thing as free will? I ask this because I seriously think that my life is being 'controlled' I am 18 years old, never had a girlfriend and yes this does get to me quite a lot from time to time. And even if I get close to getting ...

Should I confront my wife about her old pictures which I found?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - I was going through some photos with my wife, and came across a couple of her I didn't recognize. I know what year they were taken, and it's the year we broke up for a couple months. During that time she had a fling with an older man. I've been ...

My LDR boyfriend seems indifferent lately ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - What do I do if my long distance relationship with my bf has become shaky because he doesn't seem to reply most to my messages.. Also we didn't talk for 4-5 days and when he replied he sad he had been busy.. He seems very indifferent and uncaring ...

After years of dating I suddenly find myself questioning his appearance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - Hi all. I've been dating my boyfriend for years and it never bothers me about his height and the looks. Yesterday we both we were watching the mirror so he said' now I see that you are taller than me' we are both 6.2 an I'm maybe 3 inch taller. ...

When I initiate sex my boyfriend rejects me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - me? I’ve been rejected a lot.? Me and my boyfriend are dating for like 2 years now.. and for a year and a half sex was great, but now its different… He always refuses to have sex with me when I initiate it. It gets me really frustrated. His reason ...

How far should we go without being in a proper relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for about three weeks, however we have known each other this whole year. We have seen each other about 6 times in the past three weeks, including three times this past week. We have made out and the other day we went a bit ...

My girlfriend was recently diagnosed with leukemia. Does anyone have any advice on how to be there for a cancer patient?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - My girlfriend was recently diagnosed with leukemia. We have been together for a year. I love her a lot and want to stay with her despite tough times ahead. Does anyone have any advice on how to be there for a cancer patient? I want her to feel...

I laugh whenever my boyfriend gets mad at me, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - For some odd reason, I tend to laugh whenever my boyfriend gets mad at me. I don't do it intentionally, it just happens and it's uncontrollable. While I'm laughing he gets even more mad, and I really have to try hard to stop laughing by smirking but ...

My ex has a new girlfriend barely a month after we broke up, and he's going all out to profess his love for her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - My ex broke up with me like 4 weeks ago. It was such a hurtful break up that I kept questioning myself what went wrong in our 5 year relationship. The love, the mental, physical, and emotional aspects were there too but maybe they were to me and not ...

I'm falling for my best friend but he is not a suitable boyfriend. How should I handle things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - My best friend and I like one another. He has teased me about liking him a few times but I have always said no. And we laugh and then talk about other things. We've always been close friends who joke about everything but can confide in one another ...

What can I do? Does she start these arguments to hide that it's SHE who is cheating, not me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - OK, so I have never tried anything like this before. I just don't know what to do. I have been with my gf for 12 years. Living together for 11. I would have asked her to get married. but she was married previous to our relationship, and reminded...

Am I justified in feeling very upset at his refusal to apply the topical medical the Dr ordered to stop me getting more Urinary Tract infections?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - I recently got a urinary tract infection (UTI) and was in terrible discomfort and pain for several days. I was treated with a dose of anti-biotics and was told that my partner would also have to apply a topical medicine on his penis so that there ...

I proposed to her a month ago and she says she's still thinking about it. What should I do? Does she not love me as much I love her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4249 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - I proposed to my girl and she told me that she will think about my requests now it's almost one month full she still tells me that she is still thinking about it. I love have her so much but now i'm running out of patience. What must i do? Should i w...

I think she's the perfect girl for me. But does she really care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4252 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - We've been together for six months, then I moved away and a month later she broke up with me because of she didn't want the long-distance. We kept in touch and at first it was awkward and now two months later we're back to talking 24/7, it's like ...