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writes:What do I do if my long distance relationship with my bf has become shaky because he doesn't seem to reply most to my messages.. Also we didn't talk for 4-5 days and when he replied he sad he had been busy.. He seems very indifferent and uncaring these days... What should I do ??
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (10 September 2012):
 I am afraid that long distance relationships are abit like that.
You both are in different places, living different lives, doing different things each day. It can sometimes get hard to simply find the time to be able to speak to one and other and remember that you love them.
I do personally think that LDR'S are rather tricky situations to be in, as for me its all about the person acutally being there and giving you love and affection that makes a relationship. I personally could not have a LDR, however for some people it does work.
I will admit though, if you are in an LDR you do need to be prepared for things like this, as when your living to seperate lives its very hard to stay in contact with the ones you love.
I wouldnt panic about it, and i would say that he is probably telling the truth and has just been very busy, however see if maybe the convorsations between you too get up and running again in the next couple of days, and if he goes queit again, and can't speak because hes busy, you do need to think are LDR'S really right for you? Good Luck
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 September 2012):
 If he is indifferent and busy then you need to be the same.
Have you two ever met in real life?
How long have you been a couple?
if he's not replying and he's indifferent he's probably pretty much done with the relationship and nothing you can do will change that if he's just trying to ease out of it.
it's the cowards way out.... he needs to tell you that he's done.
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reader, spicolee2002  +, writes (9 September 2012):
I think your still young and long distance relationships are hard and you have to be careful on what you do. When I was that age I loved to party and life was just to short to not do the now and not later. Your in a age of your relationships were they just are fun. I don't know you or your fellow but as a guy the first yard that was greener on the other side. Id go but most guys that young are sneaky and do what they think with there other head. Love is sacred and if he was with you a100% he would want to talk and could not wait for your phone calls and makes you feel like your the only one in the whole world. You must go with your gut because it's always right. Peace and hope it works out.
From Canada. :)
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