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writes:Hi all. I've been dating my boyfriend for years and it never bothers me about his height and the looks. Yesterday we both we were watching the mirror so he said' now I see that you are taller than me' we are both 6.2 an I'm maybe 3 inch taller. This thing now bothers me as it wasn't before I've started to compare him as we really don't match he is shorter than me and very dark with a small ugly small face. Is this normal for me to be like all of a sudden as we about to start a future together? Reply to this Question
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reader, mpumie +, writes (10 September 2012):
mpumie is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you spunky monkey, you really understood my point. I love my boyfriend and I really needed an advice as he never looked at himself and say that he is really shorter than an I've never looked at him and saw a short guy who is ugly. I was just hurt for hearing him saying 'now I see you are really taller than me' thanks a million cause now I know that its normal for feeling like this an now I'm over it because of you!!!!
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reader, mpumie +, writes (9 September 2012):
mpumie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you cerberus. I was attracted to him cause I was in love. When a person is in love we normally don't see the person's real appearance cause at that time we blinded by love. When he said ''now I see you are taller than me that's when I really looked at him deeply and saw that I'm really taller than him and I'm very beautiful so I told myself that we don't match at all.
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (9 September 2012):
 Lmao Well if it didn't bother you then why does it now. If you want a beautiful man there out there if you want talk there available. Many fish in the sea. If he isn't pleasant on the eyes find what you want. Find what you like. Maybe you been wanting to not talk to dark skin. Im black it doesn't limit my choices in dating as much ad it does in society even with my own black people. Lmao always keep in the front or back of mind. The darker the berry the sweeter the juice. I do cause Im attracted to light and they are attracted to me. But I prefer the dark sweet berry any day period.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2012): It's normal to question whether you have a future with a guy you're not really attracted to but it's very strange that it took you two years to figure that out.
You said it never bothered you before, does that mean you were attracted to him before? Or were you never really attracted him but thought he was great in other ways?
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