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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Are all sexual relationships a roller coaster ride?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

4 January 2012 (M) - I have been warned by a lot of people that sexual relationships are not all their cracked up to be. That there are a lot of ups and downs. Is this true? Or is it possible to have a relationship where there are plenty of ups and few downs?...

I think about my ex even when I am with my new girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

4 January 2012 (M) - i have been dating my new girlfriend for a few months now and i recently started thinking about my ex a lot and she called me the other night to talk. it was a light conversation between old friends more than anything else and she mentioned how she ...

Girlfriend is going to a drunk sleepover where her ex will be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

4 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months now. She loves me very much from everything I can see. We've made plans do take trips together far into the future. She gets excited every-time she comes over and seems to miss me a lot when we're ...

We are so much alike but I think she's going for my roommate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

4 January 2012 (M) - Hi everybody I am having a lot of stuff in my mine about this situation. I just get to know a girl 2 years older than i am thru one of mine roommate. she is the most beautiful girl i've ever seen and also really smart too. we have a lot in common l...

I have a boyfriend, but am still ridiculously in love with a guy from my past.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

4 January 2012 (?) - hey guys, little war between my brain and my heart at the moment, so would appreciate outside opinions. I'm in a relationship right now and he's amazing to me. The thing is, I'm still in love with one of my best guy friends that I had a thing wi...

Now I have the chance to make my mothr proud

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - Ive been talking to this guy for 3 months. He likes me a lot. I like him too.We have known eachother since the 5th grade. Hes 39 and single.hes been married once. Im 40 never been married but been in a relationship for the past 7years. He knows ...

Has he really got time for a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend (Julian) for three years on and off. when he finished with me in summer 2010 I started seeing someone else (steve) he'd give me money and lifts and generally looked after me, we only had sex three times. I then went to ...

Is she looking for 'fun' with me? If I allowed this to happen, would I be a bad person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

4 January 2012 (M) - Hello everyone. I am a reader and occasional writer of dearcupid and I just love this blog. I am here with an issue today. I apologize in advance for the length of it. I came to USA in Feb 2011. When I came here, my ex of 4 years from my home cou...

How can I get over these feelings of frustration without cutting her out as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

4 January 2012 (M) - alright, long question here: ok so about a year or so ago i had told this girl whom i had been really good friends with for about 2 years that i liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she told me that she liked someone ...

One minute she is avoiding me, the next it seems like she still cares....what is going on with her? Is this behaviour because her father passed away? Or has she simply moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4501 days ago

4 January 2012 (M) - I'm sure this question has been asked before, but I think everyone/every situation is different, so I'd like to ask it again. Last June, this girl (24) became very interested in me and, a month later, we were together. Not too many 1-on-1 dates at...

Should I cry until I can't cry anymore and eventually will just forget about him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - I've been in this ldr for almost 2 years. We met on a chatline and instantly connected! Every time me tried to meet up,something would always happen on both of our ends, so although we had never seen each other we did skype and video chat and send...

He's shy. Should I ask him what is going on with us, find out once and for all how he feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone thanks in advance for your help and for listening. I really like this guy, but I'm not sure if he likes me. We text each other from morning to night and also talk on the phone. We have been for lunch etc and bought each other Chris...

To men dating? What puts you off pursuing a women who has children from her past relationship/s? How many pre-existing children represent "too many" for you to consider pursuing her?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - This is aimed at all the men. When you reach your mid 30's and you are looking for a long term partner, we know most women will have at least one child. Do men have a maximum number of step children they will take on board? What number of children ...