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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I feel like my boyfriend is dragging me down!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - Hey agony aunts! Well im in this dilemma that has left me confused,stressed,worried at the same time i'm gonna try my best to make this simple. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now his my first love weve been through a lot and have made it ...

A new guy is pursuing me. A Player? Why am I so reluctant? Is it because I still feel vulnerable from the break up with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - So i have been out of this dating game for a while my bf and i were together for 3 years and we broke up about 3 months ago. He completely shattered my heart when he cheated and left me for her. its been tough to overcome this but im getting thro...

What happens after the honeymoon phase?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - I'm confused-when the honeymoon phase of a relationship ends, and the passion and sex dies down a little, what happens to those lustful feelings? Do they get directed towards other people? It worries me! Because I'd want to keep those feelings ...

Is this love or lust? and how can I get over this? My parents don't approve!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

21 January 2012 (M) - Sorry for the long story, but I think it is important to say it all. About an year ago, my friend introduced me to a Filipino girl for dating. However, I was reluctant to date since I knew my parents won't approve a non-Indian for marriage (I am f...

What is this older man thinking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts. What conclusions can be made from this? I'd been seeing a 27 year old for a while. I had only just recently turned 18. I decided to take things veryy slowly with this man as I wasn't too happy with the age gap, but sadly began to f...

He's out having a good time after the breakup, and I'm all alone with a bunch of busy friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4484 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - Are there any early forties females out there who can advise me on how to structure my life to move on from an 18 year old relationship? Without going into too much detail, I was in a very bad relationship that has left me with low confidence in ...

Did I overreact to my boyfriend touching another woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - Last night, my boyfriend and I went to a function at a bar where I didn't know anyone, but he knew a lot of the people. At one point, I came back from the bathroom and some girl he knows was sitting in my stool at the bar and they were talking. ...

Why do people think it's wrong of me to not date within my own race?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - I've had people telling me that I cant "like" other people from different cultural/racial background. I don't understand why because as far as I'm concerned getting to know the individual is far more important. E.g The guy I like is mixed race (ha...

He acts like he likes me in person, but just a friend via texts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - So there's this guy in my class. Since my school is so small, everyone is sort of aware of and at least to some degree friends with everyone else. Recently, though, this guy who I hadn't really been close to suddenly showed up on my radar. I ...

I want to encourage him, but I don't want to be called a tease if this doesn't work out. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

21 January 2012 (?) - I went on a date with a guy recently. We have another date next week. I just want some advice on how to handle this as I try to feel him out. I'm new to the city I live in and met him through a new acquaintance. I enjoyed chatting with him the ...

He calls me a lot but never wants to do anything, together! Should I drop him or hang in there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4484 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - So here's the problem, I really, really like this guy. He says he likes me too, he calls me beautiful and says he cares about me. We text each other 24\7 and talk on the phone 3 or 4 times every day. We hang out sometimes but nothing has actually ...

Am I wierd? I hate to see my boyfriend performing oral on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - i feel i am degrading/diminishing him, i can`t see him doing that ,i always stop him and just want to hug him and make love . the feeling isn't bad ,but that`s not how i wanna feel with him , i would rather have sex i had my ex performing or...

She never accepts that she is wrong and she doesn't apologize

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

21 January 2012 (M) - I have a girlfriend who is older than me by 3 years, we have been together for 3 years, but she is too full of ego and pride, when she offends me she hardly accepts she is wrong and find it hard to be sorry. Please what do i do?...

Before we dated she revealed that she used to meet up with strangers for sex. I'm disgusted. Am I being too judgemental?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 January 2012 (M) - I have been dating a girl for the last 6 months. Last week she told me that she has used internet sites to meet guys for sex. This was before we dated and has not done it since. I am having a problem accepting it. It was not my business, I ...

How can I get him to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - This is a bit of a strange question, basically I have a light coloured ginger hair that people say looks really gold and my eyes are an unusual silver blue, everyone says they are my prettiest feature but I don't know what sort of eyeshadow to put ...

I am in love with my ex. Ex who broke my heart now wants to be friends. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - I'm in love with my ex. We broke up 5 Months ago after 8 months together and he did it by text after I caught him online cheating and told him to get out of my apartment. He answered that with a "have a good life. Move on" text and would t answ...

She laughs hysterically with her friends. So why does she seem distant with me? And claims nothing is wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4484 days ago

21 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been really happy. This past month some activities have started up at school again and we haven't talked or seen much of each other even though were in the same activities. When we do see each other she doesnt really t...

Suggestions on what we could do together as a couple...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend always stay at his. All he does is play on the Xbox and watch TV. I want to do more interesting things together but I can't think of anything we can do because he doesn't really like going out. Could you please give me some ...