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We are so much alike but I think she's going for my roommate!

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Question - (4 January 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, *uperkar writes:

Hi everybody

I am having a lot of stuff in my mine about this situation. I just get to know a girl 2 years older than i am thru one of mine roommate. she is the most beautiful girl i've ever seen and also really smart too. we have a lot in common like taste in movie, foods and down to the same level of lactose intolerant. the thing is she displaying somewhat interest in my roommate (the one that know her first). what should i do to get her out of my head. i dont know what to do because i really like her but i think she likes my roommate and also my roommate and that girl are displaying some what of intimacy

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (6 January 2012):

TasteofIndia agony auntI think that is probably the best thing you could do. A good choice!

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A male reader, superkar United States +, writes (6 January 2012):

superkar is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for all the answers

i talked to her yesterday just get to know her more. She said that she does like my roommate but she wasn't ready for a serious relationship yet and want to start as fwb with mine roommate. But mine roommate only wanted a serious relationship so the cycle go on and on. I think i will step out and give support for both of them as i dont want us to become more awkward later on.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (5 January 2012):

TasteofIndia agony auntHi there,

I say talk to your roommate. Ask him if there's anything going on between them. Careful how you tread, you don't want him getting defensive or worried that you'll step in on his girl, but he'll probably be able to clear up any questions about their relationship. If he says there's nothing going on, then you can tell him that you're interested...

Good luck!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (4 January 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntIf they are displaying intimacy then maybe they have already started something. If you like her tell her how you feel and see how she responds, if she says no well at least then you know you tried and you can move on.

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