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Big Questions: Help and advice

Can low self esteem ruin your life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - Whats the best way to build self confidence n have high self esteem ??? can low self esteem ruin ur life??...

Any tips to pleasure my man with boobs!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - what is the best way to..ahem..pleasure my boyfriend with my breasts. i'm a 30DD,,,want to know positions, tips etc. thanks (dont give me any weird links, dont trust these random sites)...

Am I being sensitive over this remark he made to me, I feel as though hes referring to my class?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - i was in the car with my b/f and truck was by us delivering this beer and i did not know the name..i said it to him that i never heard of it. He looked at me and laughed at little--it didnt look like in a mean way or anything..almost like i was ...

Im dating my mums bf's son, Is this allowed ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - Hi i am dating my mum's bf's son. Everyone knows about it, I would just like to know if this is ok to do? please reply thankyou...

Married 6 years, together 11, he announced he no longer loves me and wants out of the marriage!?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - I am married for 6 years now but been with my husband for 11 years, including the steady years, this past 2 months when i confronted my husband about his being always out of the house and has no time for me anymore... he suddenly burst out and told ...

I really like him, but Im not comfortable taking him to my neck of the woods as we are different races!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - Hi I met a boy in london one day and since then i have grown to really like him alot. But recently things have really bothered me since i live 50mins away from him and i come from a totally different background to him. Although im mixed race and...

Im just naturally thin, and no matter what I do I cant gain weight! Is there anything I can do ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - hey all. i am a 16yr old 5'4 girl who wears a UK size 6 or 4 (i have been thin all my life) and am finding it extremly hard to find clothes to fit me. i eat everything so i dont understand why i am so thin. when i was younger it wasn't such a big ...

Can anyone help with this depression and this sinking feeling, its taking over!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - i still need advice,i used to be the most cheerful person youd ever meet but ive been battling depression for quite a while now,almost 5 months,it started out severe, i couldnt eat i couldt sleep couldnt concentrate i was just very negative. Its not ...

After getting back together I dont want sex with him, I fear that this may lead to him being unfaithful!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - my bf and i have been together for 1 year and 5 months. we've been through a lot of ups and downs, but we're still holding on. i wasnt a virgin when we got together, but he was. we had sex 6 months into the relationship and at first it was goo...

Together 19 months and he said hes not in love with me! Is there a way to make this relationship stronger ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together 19 months now and just the other day he said that he wasnt in love with me and wasnt sure about us although he still loved me we are currently still together but he is worried it will hap[pen again and it will ...

I'm 15 and still a virgin, but feel as though I'm the only one!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 538 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - hey im just after alittle advice, im 15 i have always been quite popular at school and i have had many boyfriends(not to be big headed) but all my friends have rushed into bed with guys and many of them have slept with 4,5,and 6 boys. they call me ...

Im totally at a loss here, Am I part of his future or what ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - this is long story, but i'll try to cut it down as much as possible. i met this guy while on a placment for 2weeks, we got on straight away, i think i fell for him straight away. im now totally in love with him. we always asked how i was and if...

Is it normal to be this obsessed with masturbating ? I do it at home, at work.. anywhere when I get the urge!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - I know that satisfying ones self is completely natural, but I have the urge to do it almost all the time. Is that normall? The urge wil just come on suddenly for no appearant reason. I get this constant tingeling feeling in my vagina and it won't ...

Im married with a child and one on the way! I have an attraction to another man what should I do ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - What should I do, feelings for another man I am a married woman with one child and another one on the way. Last year at a party a ex colleague got drunk and told me of his affection for me. I admitted that I had feelings for him as well. We are ...

I had an affair, I really regret it, Im so riddled with guilt and so scared my family will found out!!!!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - i need help! i am a married woman and i had an affair with a married man, i just hate myself, and i dont want my husband to find out, it would ruin him, and our kids also the guy i had an affair with has two kids, i would do anything if i could take ...

I dont trust that he has pictures of all my friends on his phone and none of me, just so he can show off to his mates!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - I dont trust my boyfriend. I have caught my boyfriend doing strange things such as transfering pictures of my friends off my phone on to his. his mobile is full of pictures of all the beautiful girls he knows and none of me. after a long talk he ...

Is he just using me or is he genuinely confused!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - Is he just confused or using me?? I was seeing this guy for a short time not long ago, he initiated the relationship, all our dates, and he was really into me, and our relationship was pretty intense quite quickly but in an emotional way we...

Im 14, still no period and Ive got pregnancy symptoms, do you think I am pregnant ?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - As I said before I'm 14 years old and I think that I may be pregnant! I knew that I would be getting my period soon but, not sure exactly what day. I lost my virginity on February 16th without a condom for the first time, that same night I ...

I take critisism to heart and have anger related issues, any idea how to manage this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - If someone finds faults with my work or does not find my approach or efforts to be proper, i takes it very personally and to the heart and get angry on the person who criticized. As i don't know how to express this anger, i suppress it for a long ...

I would really like to get closer to my teacher in order to impress him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - I'm 15 and in my last year of high school, I really like my English teacher but I'm not very good at english and we're not really especially close. I am taking English next year at college and I might get him for it, I was wondering if anyone had ...

Is this because I really what to or is it just the old 'forbidden fruit' thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - I can't stop fanatsising about having sex without a condom! Me and my boyfriend can't do because he has an STD but it's always been the thing that turns me on the most and it's killing me! We've been together for over a year now. I'd never cheat on ...

Shes says I'm too big for sex!! How can we get over this!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - hi im 18 and have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. evrythign is great but she doesnt like having sex because she says im to big wich at 12 inches im kinda going along with, is there anything i can do to help and wot can we try to make it more ...

I was going out with my friend for 4 yrs, now I fancy my other friend, but hes male! What should I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 515 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - Right, hi, i am a guy who is going out with a girl who was his best friend for 4 years. now i, like, fancy my only other best friend of 5 years (who is a guy) aswell. what should i do? should i tell him, her or what?...

Whats the most subtle way to clean up semen after we have engaged in intercourse ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - Hi, just a quick question...i was wondering if say you sleep with a girl on the 1st night of meeting her or after a couple of dates and we don't use a condom, what is the most suttlest way of after having sex and ejaculated in her to like clean it ...

I cant date until im 16 and Im 14 now, there is a guy I like but hes never asked me out, could he be a little interested ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - I'm almost 14 and theres this guy i like a lot ive liked him for almost two years and I'm not allowed to date until I'm 16 but i cant stop thinking about him he used to ask the girls he liked out all the time but he hasn't asked me is there even a ...

Should I ask my new GF what she likes in bed, or just experiment and see what happens ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - Is it ok to 'ask' my new g/f what she likes in bed, where she likes to be touched, get her to show where to be touched and how ? IE clitoris etc etc or should I just experiment and see what happens and how she reacts? any help welcome...

My cousin makes me forget about my ex, I like the way he makes me feel, but I know its not right, anyone else been in this position ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - i was invovled with a guy older than me for about 2 and a half years, but recently i have started to get over him, and i thought i was falling in love with him...but everytime i meet my cousin i forget abt him ...i feel attracted to my cousin at ...

Im living with my cousin and Im falling for her, I want to make it happen how do I proceed ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - Hello, I'm a 25 year old male living with my 30 year old female cousin. I'm falling in love with her. It started as a mild attraction but she began flirting with me and one night we cuddled in bed together. I don't know how to proceed. Neither ...

Only together a year and the sex has gone downhill! I make the effort why cant he!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - I am having sex problems with my boyfriend of 1 year. The first month we were together, sex was good, but soon after that it went downhill. Now, we have sex about once a week, and he acts like he is in a rush to get the task done. I also discovered ...

We broke up, and I still love him, neither of us has had sex in a while, he wants to meet for that, could it make him realise he wants me ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - Need desperate help. My ex broke up with me early last year said he was bi, and that he was confused and couldn't be in a relationship if he doesn't know what he wants or who he is. He hasn't been with anyone else, and that I know for a fact....

We are thinking of trying again, but what if hes said its on hold and will get back to me if he doesnt pull ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - Why won't he call or answer my texts we have a couple of bads things going on right now and am trying so hard to make everything right but the only way for me to get in contact with him is to ring him he won't reply to my texts or anything and am to ...

How do I deal with petty behaviour from others ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - I have noted a typical dominating and insulting behavior from some male members of my society like they ask me a question or advice considering me to be knowing better about things than they do. Later when i do give them my advice, they sort of ...

He doesnt want anything serious as I'm a single parent, but doesnt mind friends with benefits! but then he said maybe I will like him enough to stay around!? Im confused ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - hi i am a single mom who has been talkin with this guy for a week now and it seems like we are connecting to me. When he found out i had a kid he doesnt want to date me cause of what his ex had done to him. He says he will be my friend with benifits ...

Im 12, but I think im gay, I like girls but not to date, am I normal ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 537 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - I'm 12 and my problem is that I think I'm gay but i also like girls... When all the other boys at my school talk about girls, I'm not interested. I am also attracted to other boys. Is what I'm feeling normal? Is there any way I can change? I know ...

We havent had sex in 4 weeks, I live with him and feel so alone! What should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - My bf and I havent had sex in 4 weeks.I dont know why we havent,does he not want to have sex with me? We have been dating for about 7 months now. It also seems like a lot of other problems have come up. Like him flirting with other girls big time, i ...

Im married, but I cant get this guy out of my head! Im suffering, arent crushes suppoes to feel good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - I have an interest in a person and can't get my mind off of him. I can't see him very often, we're both married, it's a difficult situation, but it's driving me crazy. I don't want to say anything to him...but I do think it's reciprocated. I am ...

We still hang out even though we broke up and he has a BF, could he still like me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - I'm 16. My ex (18) (only went out for 4 days, but knew each other for over 1 1/2 years) is bi and now has a bf, but even tho we broke up 10 months ago I havnt moved on yet. His bf lives out of state, and everytime me and him hang out we act like ...

Chatting on line for a while, How do I go about asking her if she wants to meet ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - ive been talking to this girl on the internet for a few weeks now. i would really like to meet her but i dont know on how about asking her, or if she wants to meet or not. how should i ask?...

She thinks were dating, were not, how do I tell her I just want to be friends!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - i just went out with a friend on a date. i wasnt sure if i liked her or not and as the date went on i didnt. i thought i made it pretty clear that i just wanted to be friends, but now she thinks we are dating. i want to let her down easy because she ...

Is this relationship really too destructive to be in ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - I have recently left my wife for the 4th time. We have been a fighting couple since we met 2 1/2 years ago. Every time we fight, she always kicks me out and as a result of that have lost 3 jobs. Everytime I have gone back. She is older than me by 10 ...

I'm used to circumcised men, so what do I do with a guy that has a foreskin!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - Hello I am an American woman who has become involved with a British guy, and he is uncircumcised. Since I'm from the US, it's common for a guy to be circumcised. I don't have any sort of problem with it, but I'm nervous that when it comes to or...

Need help to boost my confidence level to let the guy know I like him!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - Hi, yep its me again. Looking for more advice. There is this guy, and well he doesn't know I like him and I really don't know how to tell him, I need help to boost my confidence level and say something to him, what do I do?...

His comment made me think that he's less experienced than I thought and this bothered me! How can I stop thinking this way ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - This is probably going to sound stupid but here goes... I'm an 18 year old virgin and I have been seeing an older guy for a few months now. The other night he fingered me for the first time and it was very good, but afterwards he said "Wow,...

Did he only say I was good at it to be nice, or did he really mean it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - Hiya The other day I made out with this guy for the first time. It wasn't my first time making out, but it was my first time with him. Anyway when it was done he said stuff like "You've definitely done that before" and "You know how to kiss prop...

I've lined up two dates, Fri and Sat, I'm not a dishonest person, so what should I do if I like both of them!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - Hi I've met two lovely ladies on a dating site at the same time and have a date with both one friday the other saturday, the problem is i'm very honest and don't like cheating as that is what my wife did to me. What do I do if I like both and they ...

How do you get over regret in life and be positve and not think about the past??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - how do you get over regret in life n be positve n not think about the past??...

Shes got way more experience than me and its making me obsess about her with other guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - Hey I just got my first girlfriend im inexperienced compared to her she is a virgin tho, but i keep thinking of her with the other guys why is that? Other girls that i speak to there past doesnt bother me even if they've done worse then mine? is it ...