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Archived questions from: February, 2020 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I feel disrespected because we make plans and his son changes them

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

29 February 2020 (F) - Hello everyone I’m reaching out for help as I’m very frustrated. I’m 40 my boyfriend is 42 both divorced and has a kid, same age 12 years old. We have been in a relationship for a year and kids get along well and once in a while we plan for them to ...

After 10 years my partner has become my room mate and I'm feeling bored.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

29 February 2020 (F) - Hi, I'm not sure what to do in this situation. I am 30 years of age and I've feel like I've had so much going on in my life for ages, I've not been able to have a clear head about what i want romantically. I've had a partner for 10 years, but ...

He says he will never marry me, which makes me think I am not good enough.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1509 days ago

29 February 2020 (F) - Hey all been with my partner for a year I've moved in with him and it's going great he has 2 young children who he sees alot and we have a great time together. Hes been married twice and engaged once. I've been engaged twice and married once. We ...

I can't forgive somebody who betrayed my trust.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1517 days ago

29 February 2020 (F) - What to do if you can't let go of your grudge from that person. My ex-best friend asks for forgiveness and all my friends forgive her. Well, I stayed silent and didn't give any information. I know, I'm a bad person but how can I forgive someone who ...

Men say they cant understand why I am single, yet go on using dating sites!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1518 days ago

29 February 2020 (F) - Over the years I have had some male friends/admirers who are interested in me romantically but either come across as introvert or lacking in confidence I'm not sure. I am an introvert but am confident. We will get on well and flirt but something ...

She left because I didn't propose after 2 years of dating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1518 days ago

28 February 2020 (M) - Hi, I will quickly describe the situation, though I ask you to please not to condemn me harshly. I am in my upper 40s, never married. Met a woman two years younger, also never been married. We dated for two years. It has been my first long-term ...

How do I deal with discrimination from a co worker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1518 days ago

28 February 2020 (M) - So I’ve been at this job for almost 6 months now my coworker has been here for 8 and I’ve recently noticed that when I ask him a question directly he does not address me. Example: I was sending him a message on our IM system asking him a question ...

My boyfriend appears to lack empathy for others.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1516 days ago

26 February 2020 (F) - Hi all I’d really like some input as to weather I’m being over sensitive . My partner and I don’t see eye to eye on certain matters and I am having a problem distinguishing if I am being too sensitive or if he is missing empathy and human compassion ...

My friend was like a sister to me but then suddenly cut me off - why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1522 days ago

24 February 2020 (M) - I'm 27 and in a relationship, but this is a question about a friend. Before any of you jump in saying that it's weird for straight taken guys to have female friends, let me just say that I've had female friends since I was about 3 and that just ...

I went home for the weekend and returned to find my rented room trashed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1522 days ago

24 February 2020 (F) - Hi Agony people. Just wondering can someone tell me whether I’m right or wrong. Rent a room off a lady for college term. Stay Sunday night to Friday and go home every weekend. She is away but at the weekend her son had a party and some people ...

Is anyone else 'Asexual'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1520 days ago

24 February 2020 (M) - I'm a 26 year old man and have never had a relationship or any kind of sexual experience, ever. In truth I haven't even tried to because to be blunt; I'm just not interested in it. Going through puberty I did feel like I wasn't like my peers. Whilst ...

I need tips on how to overcome nerves.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1525 days ago

20 February 2020 (F) - In the past year Ive started to become interested in comedy and without sounding too big headed lots of people say im funny and witty etc . one of the things I like about myself is my humour , I enjoy knowing I am making people laugh and happy ...

I'm broken from a cycle of cheating and being cheated on.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1526 days ago

20 February 2020 (F) - My long term bf cheated on me few yrs ago so I had a revenge affair. it only brought misery and guilt to me when I found out my ‘affair partner’ is a serial womanizer. I broke up the affair 8 months ago but I’m not able to let go. Also I want to ...

My boyfriend keeps cancelling plans for me to visit him while deployed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1526 days ago

20 February 2020 (F) - My boyfriend is currently deployed. On 3 separate occasions we have made plans for me to travel to see him and he has canceled for one reason or another. Initially I bought into his excuses, but at this point I am skeptical. We have only been ...

Working with an ex, how do I keep things professional?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1527 days ago

19 February 2020 (F) - Dear cupids, 3 months ago a young calleague and I started getting closer at work and we started seeing each other. He's from the uk and has an ex gf with a 3 yr old daughter. Naturally i wouldn't go for a man with that sort of baggage, but we ...

I feel like I'm treading on eggshells at work and don't know where to go from here

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1527 days ago

18 February 2020 (F) - I started a new job nine months ago. I come from a very different background (many aspects) from my employers. I’m female and relatively young (mid 30s) versus my employers (group of men aged mid 50s-60s). They hired me for my experience which...

I just moved in and everyone wants me to share my things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1527 days ago

17 February 2020 (F) - I just moved in to an apartment complex for low-income people. Before that, I was (1) ten days in a detox facility (2) 90 days in a rehab (3) one year in a Sober Living home and (4) six months in an (shared) apartment for ex-felons who are trying to ...

Should I try again with the woman I dumped?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1525 days ago

17 February 2020 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend because she had a degree and gets paid more than me. She has her own place. I moved back in with my parents because I’m going through a divorce. I have a crappy job she tried to help me find a better one. I kind of ...

Arranged marriage, should I tell my fiance about my past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1528 days ago

17 February 2020 (F) - HI , I am 25 from India. So i was in abusive relationship with a guy from school for 5 years approximately. Through those times he cheated multiple times and dumped me badly. So i was heartbroken went into depression. It was very bad phase in lif...

Is casual sex that much better than relationship sex? If so, how can a woman in a long term relationship ever compete?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1530 days ago

16 February 2020 (F) - What's so good about casual sex? How does it differ from sex in relationships? And why would people risk a long term relationship for casual sex? Is a stranger or someone who doesn't care that much better in bed? How can a woman in a long term ...

My husband's actions have made me feel I'm not worth much anymore.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1526 days ago

15 February 2020 (F) - We've been married for two years now, but all these wounds that I've gotten during our relationship haven't healed. I want to move on so badly from everything but I don't know how. I want to say my anxiety is what is keeping me from thinking about ...

I need answers and support.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1532 days ago

12 February 2020 (F) - My last post here I got super judged on here and went into a depression. More then I already am. So please be kind. I m a 30 year old single mom of an amazing 4 year old. My child’s father and I were together (we never’ married) for 5 years and ...

How Do I Get My First Date Before I Turn 30?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1532 days ago

12 February 2020 (M) - I am a overweight, not very handsome, not particularly smart or interesting, bald, geeky, awkward male virgin. I am very introverted to say the least. I've never even kissed a girl and I've never been on a date. When I get nervous, I stutter and my ...

When my partner gets mad I get the silent treatment

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1533 days ago

10 February 2020 (F) - I have this ongoing issue with my bf of 5 years. Whenever he gets mad at me, he gives me the silent treatment. Sometimes it's a few hours; sometimes it's days. He's even gone a few weeks, which was absolute torture, but I'm getting better at ...

My boyfriend needs help to move on from the past.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1536 days ago

10 February 2020 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I've been with my boyfriend for a year, and a few days ago he felt very vulnerable and opened up to me about his past. I knew that he suffered but he didn't open up until now. He told me that his mom and dad got a divorce wh...

I want to separate from my wife but I can't afford to

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1537 days ago

10 February 2020 (M) - Hi Aunts! My wife and I have been together for 27 years (no kids) but things haven't been good for most of them. I am at the point where I don't necessarily want a divorce, but I want to get away from her think things through. She would proba...

I feel guilty for wanting out of this toxic relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1537 days ago

10 February 2020 (F) - Why do I feel so guilty about wanting out of this toxic relationship? It's killing me inside, almost daily to think that it's finally coming to an end. Backstory 7 years, 4 kids. My daughter from a previous relationship (8) his 2 from a previous ...

I'm worried the chase is over now this guy has had sex with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1533 days ago

9 February 2020 (F) - I’m a 27-year-old female and I’ve been dating a 32-year old male for the past four or five weeks. Here’s some background info… We originally matched on Tinder back in October 2019 and began speaking but at that time I didn’t feel like it was the ...

How do I get over the lazy, lying man I dumped?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1537 days ago

9 February 2020 (F) - I have failed to get over my ex.. We dated for 2 years.. We were amazing together... The challenge was always two things.. He was a liar and not financially dependable.. I am a working woman of 34 years with a daughter.. I can support myself.....

I hounded the man I love while drunk, now he wont respond to me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1536 days ago

8 February 2020 (F) - I have a friend who told me years ago he liked me then i got really drunk one night and kept messaging him, his best friend told my best friend that he really liked me. This got me really excited as more feelings for him came out of me ,he had also ...

Is my daughter's three way relationship doomed to fail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1535 days ago

7 February 2020 (F) - My daughter is in a ridiculous ‘relationship’ with a man and another girl. How can I get her to see sense and realise that it will never work in a million years? It’s been going on for about 7 months now, although up until last week I thought she ...

A girl he has never met sent my boyfriend a video of her boobs.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1539 days ago

7 February 2020 (F) - My partner of 2 years has been amazing but in December I sadly found a girl had sent him a video of her showing her boobs and it really hurt me Cos he saved it and he promised me him and this girl were just mates they never met up but still it hurt ...

I asked out a girl I'm crazy about but she said she is already in another relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1539 days ago

6 February 2020 (M) - I dont know what to do here! please help, sorry ahead of time this is kind of long. I work at a book store that this girl is a customer of. ( we have a strict rule about not asking out customers, reasonable rule, i have no arguments about ...

I've ended my 8 year relationship but cant get him to move out with his dog.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1541 days ago

6 February 2020 (F) - Hi I’ve just ended my relationship of 8 years last week the problems was for the last 3 years he has slept i the spare room I was stupid for letting it go on that long looking back he stopped trying to have we’d with me so I’m the end I gave up ...

I'm having a hard time expressing my needs within the relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1541 days ago

5 February 2020 (F) - Hi guys! Background: I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now. I’m 27 he’s 28. We’ve talked about potentially moving in together when my lease is up in May. This is the first relationship I’ve been in that is relatively healthy, and I’ve ...

I have a boyfriend. Is it inappropriate to have my male best friend meal prep for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1542 days ago

5 February 2020 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. Last week, one of my close friends who is male, asked if I could go accompany him to the wholesale supermarket since I had a membership and he wanted to get purchase a bunch of cleaning ...

What can I talk about with a former classmate if my past is off limits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1544 days ago

2 February 2020 (F) - I wrote in before about whether or not to meet an old classmate who wasn't nice to me and wants to make amends. I've decided to meet him (whenever that will be) but now I don't know what to talk about. Since HS I've had a string of very controll...

I have a partner but I'm in love with another man who doesn't love me back, and feel like my whole world is falling apart. I feel lost and heartbroken, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1544 days ago

2 February 2020 (F) - Hi there. This is going to be a big one, I'd appreciate if people don't go too hard on me as I've never spoken to anyone about this before and I feel really depressed about the situation. I'm 27 and I've been with my partner for 9 years, living ...

My partner and I are arguing a lot more since our baby was born.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1544 days ago

1 February 2020 (F) - So I had a baby boy 7 months ago and myself and my partner have argued more since having a baby than we have in the 6 and a half years we’ve been together! I’m really struggling with becoming a mother as I am not very maternal, I also lost my mother ...

My girlfriend is addicted to prescription drugs.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1545 days ago

1 February 2020 (M) - I met a girl a few months ago and generally hit it off. We have lots in common, we’re looking for similar things in life and from each other, and she’s beautiful. She is a lovely caring person. Very smart. Adventurous. I could go on... Obviously ...