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Archived questions from: April, 2017 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How do I leave this abusive relationship? He always finds me when I do leave.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - How do I even begin to leave an abusive realationship?? My partner has became very abusive in the last 9 months ( I know what your going to think .. why am I still with him after that amount of time) the answer is I'm sacred!!) what can I do?! ...

Does this man care?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - I recently returned back from Australia to Ireland to look after a sick relative. My WHV was almost up and I have plans to go back in the near future to some touring that I didn't get to do this time round. 3 months before returning I started a "no ...

What will restore my faith in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - Dear Aunts, I got out of a relationship with my ex narcissist. I didnt know he was a narcissist until we broke up and he called me all kinds of names "fat, stupid, not sexy or attractive enough, sperm dish, boring etc" you name it. He humiliat...

Does my friend have a fetish for trans guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

28 April 2017 (M) - Dear Cupid(s), I have a cis-male friend who identifies as gay. I don't know if this is something I have noticed being transgender myself, but the only guys he has outwardly said he's attracted to when we are out, or together have all been transge...

My boyfriend has a fetish for my work clothes, is that weird?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

27 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend has a fetish for my work clothes, is that weird? I work in an office and wear skirts and blouses on a daily basis. When I first started dating him he said he loved what I was wearing but recently it seems to have got even more intens...

Is it too late to change careers?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

27 April 2017 (M) - Not sure if this is the usual question on here but I would love advice. I work in finance, managing retirement funds. I have been in the industry for over 10 years and have been good at it. Lately I have felt incapable of making decisions follow...

My girlfriend is promised in an arranged marriage.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

26 April 2017 (M) - Hey guys, I desperately need some help. There is an issue in my relationship with my girlfriend. My Gf is 2 years elder than me and damn we love each other a lot. We intend to get married, but due to her family pressure (as we belong from an I...

How can I stop being intimidating and build lasting relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - I have always had difficulties with relationship with men and I genuinely want some advice and help. It would really mean a lot! I have grown up to be a perfectionist since I was young. Mastering four languages, national level in art, three instr...

Should I be mad because my friend helped get me fired?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

25 April 2017 (M) - I was working with this girl K and my friend L and her friend C. Our boss LO, was always ingrained in L's life calling and texting her, and L asked me to make him stop with the text messages. After a while I discovered that LO was spreading rumors ...

His feelings for me changed so quickly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2043 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Can someone's feeling for you change in two months? My ex and I broke up in September 2015. We didn't speak for 4 months then out of the blue one day he texted me. We started talking, and hanging out as just friends. We talked about stuff like...

How do you learn to love yourself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2552 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - I need relationship advice... Not your normal relationship advice though... I've really been struggling to get into a relationship since I started dating which was 8 years ago (i'm 25 now). Only ever had flings *rolls eyes x infinity*. A...

He's going to prison for 10 years and I don't want to wait for him. Is that wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - This is a really unique situation, I'm sure. So my fiance is going to be in prison for the next ten years. I've been with him 3 years. Is it bad for me to not want to wait for him?..I'm only in my mid 20s, and I don't want to put the rest of my ...

I want to help my boyfriend but I know I'll leave him eventually because my relationship is dead but I'm terribly attracted to his brother

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Hello there, So I have been in a relationship for 9 years. We started out as friends with benefits and then when I got into trouble financially I moved in with him. He's nice and we get along...we would be great friends. I have occasionally tri...

I'm attractive but never approached by men. Do other women have this problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

19 April 2017 (F) - I am 22 and I am never approached by men. I live in America where men are notorious for approaching women. Yet, strangers tell me that I am beautiful/pretty. I talked to a guy and he assumed I had a bf, when I said no, he was in shock. He said I was ...

I had to cancel my wedding because of my boyfriend's attitude, I'm still trying to make it work but he has nothing to offer to the relationship and wants me to justify why I want to get married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my partner for six, almost seven years. We got together in our early 30's and are now in our late 30's. I've always been very vocal about what I want from our relationship - a long term commitment with marriage an...

I thought my fiance didn't love his ex wife but his old Facebook post seemed to imply otherwise

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - I am so disappointed please tell me if I'm over reacting. I found an old post from 6 years ago on my Fiancé face book on his marriage anniversary stating how lucky he was to have her and he hit a jackpot and hope this happiness never ends! I know ...

Should work always come first for my boyfriend, even in case of a minor medical emergency like mine?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of one year works from home. We live together. He's the project manager of a small but successful company. He works at least 10 hours a day. I had severe stomach pains yesterday which came back this morning, so my boyfriend took m...

Boyfriend travels constantly and has friends and family he refuses to let me meet

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - I'm 44 years old, my boyfriend is 53. We have been dating for 4 years now. He has 2 jobs. One job has fee flying perks. So far in 4 years he has gone to Costa Rica, Dominican Republic, Mexico, Philippines, Thailand, Japan, he went to Las Vegas and ...

My housemate has invited her new Bf to stay in my home over Easter. I feel intimidated and think he's a criminal. What can I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2567 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - My housemate (lodger) has recently starting dating someone from a foreign organised crime background and they are staying over this weekend in my home. My housemate met this person on holiday 5 weeks ago and has been seeing this person every week...

What do women look for in a man for a boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2567 days ago

10 April 2017 (M) - What do women really look for in a man for a boyfriend?...

I'd like to make teacher appreciation cards but I don't know if it's a good idea

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2572 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - This is a question for all teachers seeing this: are teacher appreciation day cards a good idea? I go to an international school in Europe and have excellent teachers who work really hard to teach us students beyond what is required by the ...

When is it ok to have "the talk" or expect to be exclusive ?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

8 April 2017 (F) - Hi all .. How soon is too soon to expect a guy to commit when it's a long distance relationship? You know us women are always being told not to "scare" me away by putting too much pressure on them. I've been dating a man long distance since N...

Married man gave me his phone number!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - I'm a blogger and I'm trying to get an interview with this married guy I'm semi-acquainted with on social media (I'm married too). We follow each other and we have never spoken until a few days ago when I asked him if he would be interested in ...

I caught my partner in a lie. Now he's verbally abusive and constantly puts me down

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

6 April 2017 (F) - My partner is so different since I caught him out with a lie. We aren't young (both in our 40's) and there should be no grey areas within our relationship. He has lied to me several times about minor things, lied to at least 5 times about bigger ...

My friend is controlling and copies everything I do. Is it kinder to end the friendship than to feel resentful of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

6 April 2017 (F) - I have a female friend who is very controlling and the more I try to gain space and step back the worse it gets. I have tried really hard not to end the friendship as I know she is lonely but I am beginning to feel actually frightened by her ...

Coping strategies would be appreciated for bad office situation!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2573 days ago

6 April 2017 (F) - Not a relationship problem but hoped you guys could give me a bit of advice. I work in a small company of just over 20 staff, most of us working in a large open plan office. One of the women, who is in her 30s, has taken to wearing short SH...

I prefer staying home to attending his family gatherings! Is this going to be a problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2574 days ago

6 April 2017 (F) - Dear all, I am married to a wonderful guy and yet I've always been a bit of a loner. We always joke that we love being loners together. He comes from a large happy family and they meet every now and then for a huge meal. I have no issues with his ...

Worried my husband doesn't think I'm attractive

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2574 days ago

5 April 2017 (F) - Am I wrong to be upset that I don't think my husband finds me physically attractive? I think he married me for reasons other than appearance like that we get on and that we have similar values, wanting a family and same financial goals etc. He often ...

How do I get over someone I have never been in a relationship with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2578 days ago

2 April 2017 (F) - I really need advice on how to get over someone. It's really complicated because we have never been in a relationship , but I feel like I have fallen harder than ever before, and also have been kept dangling by him because he knows I really lik him. ...