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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Not sure what to do! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - i dont know what to do. okay see theres this boy ans hes really kewl. he knows how to make me laugh even when i feel like crying. so hes basically like my best friend. hes in my class and seeing him everyday and flirting with him all the time i ...

He is so nice to me and I'm afraid the only reason why I want him is because he won't hurt me... unlike the others...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 541 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - im stuck i was seening someone for a while and he knew that i had been abused very violently by this last person then a couple of weeks ago he assulted me and i got in touch with an old friend who is male and he has told me that he wants me to be ...

Do married men ever leave their wives for the younger girls they are cheating with?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

31 May 2008 (?) - Do married men ever leave their wives for the younger girls they are sleeping with? in what circumstances. why? ...

Does he like me or was that a one day thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - it was 2 days before the last day of school.we were in 4th period about to take our exams.everybody was out in the hall.he came over near me and smiled.i didn't know what was going on so i turned around.i dropped my paper by accident and leaned o...

I'm just wondering if boyfriends still remain boyfriends after boot camp?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 540 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Ok so my on and off boyfriend for two years just left for basic training for the national guard. Our relationship has been quite rocky these past years. We broke up a few months before he left, but got back together a month before he had to leave. ...

I wouldn't move on, but I want him to know I can stand on my own

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 541 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I recently wrote about how my boyfriend and I broke up and I needed my things back. Actually he was the one that told me I should keep in mind he has to do other things but never mentioned break up. It's been quite long since we spoke and i texted ...

I can't forget my ex. Help me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - hey... i am with this great guy... so happy ... but i can't forget my ex...i don't love my ex but i can't get him out of my mind...verywhere i look... everything i do.... what should i do????? can anyone help me????...

If he has a crush, would he just stand and stare?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - one simple question if a guy has a crush on u..he would definitely make an effort to talk to u..what if he doesnt but just stares and looks at u..what is it???...

My secret love is going away. I need to make my first move.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - Someone who I love a lot is moving away, she doesn't know that I like her though. The thing is she is my old school teacher I want to make a move and would be following the law becuase I am 17 and by the time I say to her I will be 18. We are ...

Help me with cross-dressing.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 46 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - I really like the idea of cross dressing but I refuse to go into a shop and buy things, what do I do? Also what do I need to cross dress?? I don't have a clue....

The ultimate revenge. Should I go for it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - Today i was told by a friend about a girl at my old school who now works an escort. This girl was the worst type of girl and once she made a complete fool of me and embrassed me in front of a lot of people and it took a while to get some ...

Does a rape victim want friends/parents to freak out in their defense, or be quietly understanding? How can we help these people?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I am finding out that almost everyone I know has been raped, guys and girls. My daughter just told me she was raped over 3 years ago, in high school. My husband was raped as a teen, but we established early in our relationship that he was OK, and ...

How do I deal with the fact that everyone I know loves my abusive ex bf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - How do i deal with the fact that everyone i know loves my abusive ex bf? They all think he is this great guy, caring, chamring, respectful and a good catholic guy. But hes not...it just really frustrats me. People would always say when we were ...

I'm not happy but we have a child do I stay or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 542 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - ok im going to make this as short as possible...me and my boyfriend have been arguing a whole lot lately and its getting to the point where im not sure if i want to be with him and dont get me wrong i know people argue and no ones perfect but i mean ...

How do you feel when you fall in love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

31 May 2008 (?) - How do you feel when you fall in love? Do you feel sweaty, nervous, excited, overwhelmed? When someone says to you that they romantically love you, do you think they truly mean it? Romantic love is quite complex. It is the feeling in your brain that ...

How can I go about living my life without romance and yet, not feel lonely?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Before I bore you with my story, I just want to throw the question out there - How can I go about living my life without romance and yet, not feel lonely?! It all started a year ago when I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. I felt we weren't ...

Are us women suppose to put up with men unfaithfullness & childish behavior because they refuse to grow up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I need everyones advice. Ladies and guys too. I have a bf that is a typical guy. He has cheated before. I've seen other girls phone numbers on his phone and he denies it. But us girls have this instinct that never fails. I know for a fact ...

Will guys see me as a slut now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 539 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I was wondering if i was a slut. Its been on my mind for a while now. I am 15 and I am not in a relationship but lost my virginity recently. He wasn't my bf, but i really like him and don't regret it. Well anyway I did most things with him (bj, ...

What should I do? Tell her about my true age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - i met my girlfriend when i was 13 she was 18,i told her i was 16,im now 23 and she's 28 what should i do/how should i tell her? (p.s we never had sex before i turned 18) i would also like to know if iwas ilegal for me to like make out with her a h...

Is this rape or sexual assault?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 539 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i have a problem with my boyfriend - he wants sex and every time he tries to put his penis inside of me it really hurts. Last time we tried to do this he would not stop trying and I ended up crying - he then became violent and covered my mouth up ...

Why can't I stay away from this woman that keeps making up then breaking up? Why am I in this childish relationship?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - What a mess I have made of my life. I met the woman of my dreams 10 months ago. Tall, beautiful, funny, sexy, great career, an absolute dream. Things were amazing immediately. The chemistry was out of this world. After a few months of dating we ...

I want to find my birth father - but I have none of his details... Any ideas?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi I have a problem in that I know nothing about my birth father - except his first name. I desperately want to find him and I have tried everything from my birth certificate (which doesn't have his name on it) to friends reunited and fac...

If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies as early as 2 months, will it only get worse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies, as early within the first 2 months, does that mean it will only get worst??? is it best to end the relationship now before it gets to bad? ...

What makes a guy try to pressure a girl into sex and think it's fine to not respect her boundaries??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - What makes a guy try to pressure a girl into sex? What makes a guy not listen to a girl when she says 'no'? What makes him think its ok to not respect her boundaires? And what makes a guy so controlling? I know those are all general questions, but ...

What is wrong with my so called friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi i would appreciate any advice you all can give me. I have this friend, she had been going through a hard time in that she separated and i was there for her when she needed me we worked in the same company and go on very well (or so i though)...

We are going to soon discuss our differences face to face, how can I tell him I am ready for more in spite of my young age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 539 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - my bf and i have hit a really rough patch he is talkin about breakin up as i think the age diff between us is gettin to him (am 16 and he is turnin 22) i really dont want it to be the end but he keeps talkin about how he doesnt want to rush things ...

Can a boy really change for a girl? Stop smoking, drinking, doing drugs etc?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Can a boy really change for a girl? not look wise, but habbit wise, such as stop smoking, drinking and doing drugs and start trying to get a good education? i met a boy who i have known for 3 weeks, we are both 15 and he has told me he loves me a...

My ex has restraining order but is ignoring it and still comes round to threaten me!

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30 May 2008 (F) - i recently had a child, who is a really wonderful baby and very good, and i love her dearly. the only problem is the babys father, who i recently split up with due to your advicein a previous question. first of all let me say i am very happy that i ...

Why do women believe married men's lies? So many seem to fall for them

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - I have been reading through posts about affairs and cheating, and there is constant theme that I keep encountering that boggles my mind. I am hoping readers out there could help answer this for me.... In most of the posts, where a woman is having ...

He's 25 and I am 16... should I stay with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i'm in love with this guy. we're in love with eachother. i'm 16, he's 25, almost 26. we're like, almost 10 years age difference. we wanta get married n 2 years, right after i finish highschool, i wanta take a year off after that anyway, and move ...

Is a blow job for a groom a tradition?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Hey sisters and brothers Just a funny one Just spoke to some friends ... bullshitting .. question was DO you think its a tradition for a GROOM to get blown at a bachelore party??? 95%guys said YES! So, how do you guys feel over here? J...

He's going to Peru for a year, should I wait for him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 May 2008 (?) - well my boyfriend is going to peru for a year becuase he needs to learn better spanish (he's hispanic) and his grandmother is sick or something. im 13 and weve been together for 4 months now. i dont know if i can wait for him like that. cuz im going ...

My sister cashed a check in my name, what may happen as a result?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - ok, my sister wrote a check in my name and she close her account but cash the check at a bank that i have a acount at. i don't want her to get in trouble but thats so wrong to sign my name and CASH it. please tell me what is going to happen...

Should I not want to date other people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - I met and started to date a guy 7 months ago. When we started dating I made it very clear that I did not want a boyfriend and was not interested in a relationship at that time, as I was just out of a bad relationship. I also was very clear with ...

I deleted nude pictures of his ex. Was I right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I turn to the Agony Aunts for everything! Today I'm writing about the following issue: My boyfriend brought up the topic of marriage a few months ago and we are already making plans. I work for him so I am at his house every day. We already act like ...

22 years later: is it the love or the pain?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - i am haunted by a ex i had 22 years ago. i still feel hurt when i think about her and how it went down. she was the 2nd girl i ever slept with (i was 18 at the time, she was 16) and the first real regular sexual relationship i ever had. i was in a ...

Can anyone tell me why he wants me to move in with him? What ever happened to marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 480 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I am 43 yrs old and my boyfriend 42. I have been going with him for over 2 yrs. We get along well and have share the same interests. We both have been married and divorced under good terms with the ex'es and both own our own homes. We have no ...

Please help me, I'm still mourning my dog's death, I have exams and I'm not eating! I just feel that I don't care about anything.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Please help me. I feel like I have changed so much, and I dont expect anyone to put up with it, or even care. I dont understand it but recently I just have been feelin that I dont care about anything and I just cant be bothered. And thats not like ...

Should I tell him about this weird sex dream I had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Should I tell him about this weird sex dream I had? It was bizarre. My first lesbian dream. I dreamt I was in my bed, and his ex came in. We started talking as if we were best friends, and suddenly she put herself in top of me and started kissing ...

"Yipee my son is going to be a womaniser". Why do they talk like that?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - Why is it i constantly hear women with young male children, speaking to another woman. OOOH he's a proper lad he's going to be a bit of a one with the women, then a beaming smile. Like whats this all about? Yipee my son is going to be a womaniser?...

Can anyone help after my first night sex experience?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I met a guy in 3 months ago went on a first date who was the perfect gentlemen went home and ended up having sex. We contacted each other the next week, then left it for a couple weeks and then he asked me out again. I just said it was a drunken...

I have a working, open marriage. Could I have scared off a guy I met?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Hello, I need some help. Here's the deal my husband and i have an open marriage. We love eachother, and this WORKS for us. I met a guy at the bar one night as i hung with my sister. He was an amazing looking man nothing happened that night. I...

How many couples out there break up because of some silly quarrel? I've never let him down, why isn't that enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - i wonder how many couples out there break up cuz of some silly quarrel, or just one party got too tired of trying, or is it due to personality clashes, or a misalignment in core beliefs.....Let's not talk about obvious deal-breakers like cheating, ...

How can I get my self-confidence back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - CoNFIDANCE 1 thing i really dont ave and i ned help fast i feel drained i give up on everything because it dont work out the first time for me.. My heart wants 2 stand out and be different than every body and i really want to acheive the thin...

Commitment? What is it really?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - We are often advised to commit ourselves 100% to any activity or relationship we undertake so that we can get as much out of it as possible and have no regrets. Some people also say commitment doesn't necessarily mean forever. So what does this ...

Advice on shaving please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Heya I was wondering how to shave down there..as in which way because I do but it leaves black dots where the hairs are and you can still see them. Also if I shave upwards I cut myself slightly where the hairs are having little red dots of bloo...

How do I politely turn him down and still maintain a good working environment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Help!! I just started a new job and my coworker is clearly interested in dating me. I hung out with him and had a drink on the weekend thinking it was totally casual but it is clear now that he is interested and I am not. He keeps calling and of ...

My body is hungry for sex! It's been a year!! Please help me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - Hi. I haven't had sex for a year now, as of this week. It's quite a depressing anniversary, and one that I have tried to keep off my mind, but haven't been able to. I really feel like I need sex again now, for the good of my manhood. I have made out ...

What's the difference between making love, and just having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - whats the difference between making love, having sex, and fucking? do you think guys know the difference or they just ask for one or the other?...

Can you 'make love' to someone if you don't love them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - can you make love to someone if you don't love them? if you don't love the person why would you say,"i want to make love to you" ...