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She knew about the event before it took place, could she now get in to trouble even though she wasnt involved ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi everyone i need help i know this girl and she is going around telling everyone about a murder that happend a couple of days ago that she knew about it befor it happend and i was wondering if anyone knows if she will get into trouble if she was ...

My kids are gone and I'md depressed and alone. Who do I turn to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - I feel as if life is just over. I've spent the past 10 year just raising my children alone, its wrecked my career and now I'm unemployed. My eldest daughters just gone to university the youngest is on her way. Both are happy loads of friends...

My confidence was crushed in the past but I have gained it back. So is it wrong for me to not think I'm 'not' ugly/bad-looking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 539 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi I just want to know is it wrong for me to not think I'm ugly/bad-looking? I know I'm not exactly the sexiest, best looking 19 year old girl there is, but I don't think I'm ugly/bad-looking either. But I get girls that (in my opninion) don'...

He's catholic, I am not. My opinion on a religious topic struck a nerve with him. Will I always have to watch what I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - My partner is Catholic and I am non-religious, although I would not say an atheist... I feel spiritual, but just havn't figured out my beliefs yet and see alot of hypocracy in the human side of religion! I made a comment the other day about ...

Any side effects to using 'penis pills'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - what would the side effects be of a 15 year old using penis pills?...

Why are some of the male agony aunts so abusive,when sending private mail

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (?) - Why are some of the male agony aunts so abusive,when sending private mail ...

Guys, do you find it really unattractive when girls have a gap between the front teeth?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm a teenager with a gap between my teeth. I was wondering if guys find it really unattractive when girls have a gap between the front teeth. Does it make even pretty girls look ugly in a guy's opinion??...

He deletes the history on his computer so he must still be looking at porn, but hiding it! I hate it and its ruining us!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I have a huge problem with my boyfriend looking at porn (which I know he does). I looked on his computer once and saw in the history all the sites he had been looking through. It hurt so badly and I still can't stop thinking about it everyday, and ...

Does a number really matter if both people are equally interested in one another ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - hi, im a 17 year old nearly 18 year old seeing a just turned 27 year old, we've been dating for a month now, ive told my parents about this and they seem to think that he is using me and repeatedly say "why would a 27 year old be interested in a ...

I like my drumming instructor but he has a gf! Do I keep my feelings quiet or should I tell him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - hey im a teenager who does drumming lessons,my relatives friend is my teacher,he is older than me and has a girlfriend.he is not happy in his relationship.and i really like him,inside i know i shouldnt...when we together i have a feeling he likes me ...

My life is a series of heartache and problems---is everyone's life like this or is it just mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - hey. i dont really need advice but i its something else i need?? my life has been a complete wreck!! :: when i was 5 i found out my dad was actually not my dad. then when i was six i saw my biological dad in morrisons. then when i was 8 he hung his ...

He doesnt seem as interested about me moving closer to him... Do you think I should now forget the move!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Dear agony aunts/uncles, I have this friend for whom I´ve had a big crush, and so he had for me. Last november we met and told each other feelings, and finally were togheter (without sex). He came back to his country and we kept in touch since t...

I want to get married and have a family, but not sure it's what my current bf wants also!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I have a dilemma at the moment. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years. I do love him VERY much. He was my dream guy before I got with him. But I have a problem, I'm 24 and am wanting to start a family soon and get married. ...

I know he wants to chat with me, but how can we make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - hello i have a question i met this man on marriage site he said that he would love to chat with me so we got along very well we exchanged e-mails and chatted we live on different continents and he also has too much work therefore we dont chat oft...

Does she want me or not, I'm confused!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - i have been in a relationship with this lass for 8 months i meet her through a friend she was once going with, he was sent to prison but they had split up before he went so we started to go out together!i am a lesbian and it is her first time. he ...

I think im love with my boyfriends brother! Is this just a phase ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 538 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years now.I think I am in love with his brother!Is this just a phase or what?...

Why does it take so long to find out someones cheating, and does it happen more in LD relationships ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - When a man cheats (or the other way round) why does it take ages, sometimes, for the other personn to find out that they are having an affair. And when they do find out why may they give them another chance, possibly for them to cheat all over ...

Is it wrong to be wanted and desired ? Married 14 yrs tomorrow and I want him to be crazy over me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi all, I really need your help.Is it wrong to have the need to be wanted by someone ? I like attention, but from only someone who loves me. I feel the need to be wanted and desired all the time. Is there sometehing wrong with me ??? I am marr...

Why does my Fiancee blame me for everything when we row, infact even when we dont things are my fault!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Why is it easier to blame things on someone else when things don't go as one has planned? When there is an arguement betweem my fiancee and myself, no matter who has started he blames always it on me. He brings up the past of me and tells me how it ...

I have a crush on a guy at work, I'm 21 hes 40! I cant read the signs, but could he like me too!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Please Please Help Me!! I have a major crush on a 40 year old bloke at my work place! I dont know if hes married,divorced or single. I know he has a daughter the same age as me (21) but i dont want to say anything incase he says im too young or...

My girlfriend has attitude, How can make her be nice!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - my girl friend has a serious attitude problem and well, i asked her to try and stop but she keeps doing it what do i do IGNORE IT or try to speak to her about it? what do i do? plz write back with ur thoughts bi She's a big pain...

She never told me that she liked my ex, shes now having a fling with him, I'm hurt she never told me before!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi not sure how to handle this situation. I have a really good friend and we are very close lately she has been going through a bad patch with her man and has been messing around with a few different men. But something she told me yesterday has ...

Im 14, but around the time of the month I get very broody!! Why is this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi there, I am 14 years old, and my boyfriend of over a year now is 17. (we havnt had sex.) I love my boy alot and i have alot of trust for him i truely believe hes my soul mate. The question thats on my mind, its kind of been bothering me...Som...

Worried that hes already done the get married have kids thing, It wont happen for us, scared its not me anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I think I am just feeling sorry for myself, but I dont know what to do. I live with my partner, have done for just under 4 years. I love him immensely and that isnt in any doubt on either count of us. He adores me and does do alot for me. We ...

I'm obsessed with sex because hes not putting out! How can we get it back ? I'm scared Im gonna stray!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi, We have been together 4 years and are still very much in love, we are a young couple in their 30's. I feel as though the relationship is going slowly downhill. We do equally do things for one another, I mean we both share the cooking cleaning...

Im in contact with an old flame, I still really like her, but shes seeing someone else, Do I stay in contact incase one day she's available again ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - i have a problem. i went out with this girl about 6 years ago for a few months and got on really well, just she was pretty young then.i am 4 years older than her we both moved on and i never really forgot her. i got married but my marriage ...

She wasnt happy and enjoyed the outside attention, would it work if we got back together, or is she just playing me for a fool!?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - Where do I start? My g/f and I of four years ago split up yesterday, and I'm absouletely heart broken. She is 29 and I 30. The problems started 6mths ago when I questioned our relationship not knowing what I wanted at the time. It didn't he...

Im sick to death of my husband, Sometimes I love him, others I dont, I want to make it work, maybe I dont, Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hello everyone.. I'm really in trouble here.. I have been married for 4 years with my hubbie for 8 have one child and its just gone down down down hill. I really love my husband but i hate him to. I hate the fact that he promises things and...

What does the term "Dirty sex" mean ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I heard the term 'dirty sex' and i was wondering what it meant exactly. What exactly is dirty sex and what does it include??? Thanks. ...

Did my ex really take my little boy out with the girl hes just finished with ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - My ex has recently finished with his live in girlfriend and is doing the right thing by allowing her to stay until she can find a place of her own. She thinks it all my fault and has been threatening and violent towards me and because of this ...

Is this all my fault because I wouldnt have sex with him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi plse help, ive wrote before im in my 30s and a virgin, been with my now ex bf for over 1 yr. He said he needed time to think 3 weeks ago and kicked me out then on saturday just gone i got a phonecall from his mum... his 8 y/o daughter passed on ...

Did he act in this way because he is innocent, or because he is guilty of something!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been very honest to my boyfriend from the beginning I got with him. But I have a feeling ( a gut one) that he is not. He is not attentive to me as much as he was earlier in the relationship. He mentioned about a female friend of...

He suddenly stopped calling, dont know what happend, should I call him ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Dear Sir/Madam, i have been dating a man for a few months and now he suddenly stopped calling me and meeting me, but i really love him and once i sms him but he never give me reply..i dont what happened to him, do you think i should call him....

Should my partner also play the part of my best friend ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I have a serious bf, but recently, I was thinking to myself, should my life-long partner also plays the role of my best friend? I mean, I trust him and love him dearly, but I sometimes can tell my girlfriend stuff that I would not tell him. Am I ...

How important are looks to a man ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - How important are looks to a man? Long hair, short hair? Short, tall? Brown eyes, blue eyes? How big is too big? How small is too small? What about chest size... does size really matter? Let's get really honest here. We're not all supermodels... ...

I've just started using tampons and I'm 18, how do I know if my Hymen is still intact ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I'm 18, and have only just started using tampons, I'm not active in sports and stuff and i want to know how do i know if my hymen is still intact? I have fingered myself and have been fingered by my boyfriend and have not felt like anything has ...

I feel like he does all the work when it comes to sex, any tips how I can make it better for both of us ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I need help please... Alright I feel like my sexual relationship with me and my boyfriend is one way. He always fingers me, gives me head etc. but I don't give him head because I don't like to, I also hate hand jobs (I'm not good at them and don'...

Do you think she slept with this other guy before me when she was 14 ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 494 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - I found a picture of my girlfriend and her boyfriend when she was 14. He was acting like he was going to grab her breast, and she didnt look like she minded too much. She was put on birth control at about this age because of her devastat...

Would you forgive a boy who cheated on you and lied to you for your entire relationship ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - would you forgive a boy who cheated on you and lied to you for your entire relationship? he told me he had never done anything further than fingering a girl. 2 years later i have found out he had oral a before our relationship started a couple...

Just had my first break up... How do I cope ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I just had my first break up...how do I cope. He was like my life for five months. Everything I see reminds me of him. I cant get him out of my mind. Any suggestions?...

How do I make this sharp pain go away when having sex whilst on top ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - When me and my boyfriend are having sex he encourages me to do cowgirl, or girl on top, I try performing this but around my hip I have a sharp pain that makes me want stop. He feels bad and blames himself for pushing me, but I know that it's me. ...

If shes not physically attractive to me anymore, I loose interest, this prevents a relationship, any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - I am a single guy and have strong belief that i could not be happy with a women unless she is physically attractive to me. In other words, the moment i find her not of much of an attraction physically, i loose interest in her and there is nothing ...

Together for 6 years and on a break, he needs time to figure it out and I'm hurting, why cant he just tell me it will all be okay!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I (of 6 yrs) have been on a break for the past 2 months. It started after a huge fight which was all because of a misunderstanding. Now that things are cleared up, he is still in the "grey." He says he needs time to figure things ...

I like being on top, but how should I move so the guy likes it ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - im 22 and i really got one simple problem , i like being on top but i dont kno really how shall i move foward backward or up down??i mean for a man to be satisfied with it??up and down is good but it slips.oops plus wat speed is best...

I'm so sexaully frustrated and my partner isnt meeting my needs!! Its driving me insane what do I do!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - I no longer know how to deal with feeling sexually frustrated all the time. I have talked to my partner a few times about the lack of action in the bedroom but he doesn't seem to think it is that big a deal. He tells me he doesn't feel like it as ...

His mum really doesnt like me, I want to prove to her that Im not bad and want her to like me, but how ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend mother doesnt like me for many reasons and i know one would be that me and my boyfriend have gotten into situations that had to stress out our parents and i know that can be resonable cuz if i were her i probably would think im a ...

When he said he would quit smoking, did he really mean, I'd like to but dont think I will ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - After being together for almost a year I found out my bf smoked. He had hid it well and told a few lies to cover it up. When I found out he smoked he said he'd quit when he was ready. When we moved in together he was worried the smoking would be...

Am I just to selfish to ever have a serious relationship, or am I right to wait for "the one"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - I'm 23 and single. I think I'm always going to be alone, and I feel like a jerk because my standards for women are so specific. The longest relationship I have had is 4 months and it was back in high school. I have never considered any to be "seri...

I feel like our relationship has gone downhill and he doesnt care, should I leave or give him another chance ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and i do love him we moved in together after only being together for 8 months we bought a car together and we have a cat and a guinea pig since we moved in together i feel as though our relationship has ...

He cheats and lies all the time! But tells the kids its my fault daddy wont be at home anymore, how can I leave him in the least damaging way to the children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Wow, I am either a hopeless optimist, or just truly pathetic. There is a chance it is a combination of both! I have been with my significant other for nearly 9 years. We have three children together. Through out the years, we have had several ...

Shes so happy with me, but I cant carry on and want out, How do I do it!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 548 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - Ugh I am not happy with my girlfriend anymore. We've been dating for 2 incredible years but I can't do it anymore. I really need out of this relationship but she is so happy with me. What should I do? How can I do this peacefully?...

What do people think of a white boy dating a bengali girl...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Sorry if this seems lik a very specific question for a specific group. Are there any bengali's using this site? If so what do you guys think of a bengali girl dating a white boy? And vise versa... what do people think of a white boy dating a bengali ...

With all this going on I'm depressed and feel as though my BF doesnt care, any ideas how I can be a little happier and get my BF to care more ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Ok, so i guess even the helper sometimes needs some help. Anyway, a while ago i posted on here with a question about how far i should go with my boyfriend and stuff. Well all of that is going fine and we are really happy in that area. Recently ...

He has left me 3 times in 6 months, this last break up is all too confusing, I Dont think hes coming back, not sure where to go from here!? (long)

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - We broke up last night. I didn't see it coming. I did, but I didn't. He came home from work around 7:30 (this being Saturday evening) and said to me with no notice, "You're not going to like what i have to say, but I really HAVE to paint the cond...

I've been seeing the guy from work, trouble is how do we be together when there's an object in the way.... The Boss!! ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 546 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hello, My problem is that I've met a guy, ive been working with him now for about 3months and he's so lovely... Just recently i got his number and we've texted and spoke to eachother on the phone everyday... We've met up a few times and i spent th...

Is it unusual for a couple to not be holding hands or kissing or anything after our first 2 dates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - Hi, i'm 14 years old and recently asked a girl if she'd go out with me via msn, she said yes. I'd known this girl from my last street i lived in and we were good friends but hadnt seen her in about a year and a half. We went out to the cinema at the ...