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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Is there a way to apologize for my stupidity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - I asked a guy friend to ask this girl for her number specifically telling him to tell her that it was for me. I didn't ask her myself because I had recently moved to a different part of the city and his was the only number I had. I called her and ...

What gift should I give a girl on her birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - I am clueless as to what gift i should give a girl i really like in school[university] on her birthday without letting her think i'm trying to hook up with her. Can you please help me out?...

What is female masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I was just wondering what female masterbation is??...

How can I cheer up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - i feel so stressed out its un believable, i just feel so annoyed and under pressure with school and stuff. I also feel so useless, and like nothings ever going right it feels like if im not here it will be better :/ please help on how i can cheer up...

If he doesn't kiss you passionately, is he not interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - If a guy doesn't really kiss you passionately does it mean he is not interested? I have been out on a couple of dates with a guy who doesn't really show his emotions! - We talk a lot and get on well but not about how we feel for each other! ...

If anyone out there has any ideas or knows how to let go I would appreciate you sharing it with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have been married for 40 years and my husband passed away. Now I find myself in this relationship that is verbally abusive, I have no trust, he consistently lies to me, I let him walk all over me, I know this is wrong, it is not me to come across ...

Why would he not call me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Can anyone offer me any explanation for this please? I met a friend of a very good friend of mine a couple of weeks ago. This guy told my friend (also a guy) that he really liked me, asked him loads of questions about me such as am I single, wha...

Who should I be with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - M1's pluses are that he is gentlemanly, accommodating, accepting of my appearance, is an enjoyable company to be with, is loving and is patient. His minuses are that he has not-so-nice family members, lives faraway from me and speaks nonsensical ...

How do I talk to my child about the birds and the bees?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I caught my 8year old masterbate.How do i talk to her about this?...

Where do I start in getting my life together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Okay guys well here's my question. I have a range of medical problems - ADHD ect and like I went through life and people supported me and I got to secondary school and I was severely bullied and in some cases I faced abuse. What upsets me the ...

Is there anyone who has a fetish for tights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - all my life i have had this fetish for tights. about 0ne or tw0 months ago i bought a pair and whenever i can i where them.im not gay but i love the feeling of them. is there anyoneelse like me?...

Could this cramping mean I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I am new at this so bare with me? I have been cramping for 5 days now and my period isn't due til the 13th! I can't figure out what is going. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant even if I do take every precaution condom, im on the pill!!! ...

What would be my best option?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Hoping someone or a number of people can help a bit here. I am on an important committee and am respected for my contributions. I briefly dated one of the guys in the group. He broke it off as he met someone else. I took it pretty maturely but at ...

Tell me what you think!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

30 November 2008 (?) - Everyone watches the news yea? So tell me what you think about the missing 3 year old child Caylee? The people in my house think that Caylee was sold for money... But no one really knows what happend. Where did the mother get the money and how is ...

I feel like life is too short and too precious to just "put up with." I want fulfillment!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I just have to get this off my chest, and if you can help me, I will be so grateful. I can take an honest answer, whether or not it is the one I want to hear, as long as you genuinely want to help. When I was in college, I struggled to fig...

He was seeing his ex the whole time we were together!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Please help, I don't know what I should do!! It's quite long I'm sorry! I've been with my partner for over a year now but broke up for 2 months half way through the year after finding out he was cheating with who I thought to be his ex but turned ...

Troubled and dysfunctional family...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need help, at least advice from anybody who can have a little attention to this. I have a very disfunctional family and it's really killing me, parents never been good to me specially mother who seems hated me frome the very start of ...

Should I wait to go to the hospital or do I go now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have searched the web trying to find an answer to my question. 7 days ago I was almost at the end of my period. Went to work as usual, but when I came home there was no string??!! I tried to find it, then I was questioning if I used one or not. So ...

Can two people of the same sex get married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Can two people of the same sex get married? My mum says yes but dad says no, and they are falling out about it. What's worse mum turned down dads marriage proposal and now he's thinking of leaving. Mum says it's just a piece of paper. What can i do...

Guys: would a bj feel better with a warm or cold mouth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I'm thinking about giving my BF a surprise BJ when he comes home from class tomorrow, soon after he comes inside. My question is, do you think it would feel especially good if I gargled/drank hot or cold water right beforehand? Does one fee...

As the years pass I feel as if I've lost "the one". Does anyone else feel like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - We had known each other since childhood, it was almost inevitable that years later, as adults, we would get together. We both came from unhappy homes and in the past had problems with drink and drugs. Together we straightened ourselves out and ...

We have had a sexual relationship for 4 years now, what in the world could be his problem? Why don't we advance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - i have had a sexual relationship with a man for over 4 yrs now and in a recent conversation i made a coment to him stating that i feel i "scare him". not to say i am a scary type of woman but because of the type of person that i am. he kind sorta ...

My boyfriend insulted my colored hair!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I am very angry and upset with my boyfriend. We were out with some friends of his at a bar. They commented on my colored hair. I dyed it black. My original hair is dark brown almost black. My boyfriend said I reminded him of Rosie O'Donnel...

Why don't guys complain about women watching porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (?) - I have read many of these questions in the past 5-6 months and i have noticed some things that i don't understand... Women cant stand that their husband/boyfriend view or watch pornos when they have a wonderful girl right there for them.Yet som...

Miscarriage???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I am 15 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for over 10 months. we haven't been having sex long but I think I'm pregnant even though we used a condom but it broke. I truly do love my boyfriend with all that I have and I really want to marry...

What does it mean when a lady plays with her ear lobe?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - What does it mean when a lady plays with her earlobe when talking/flirting with a man?...

Does it sound like I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Hiya everyone, Im really worried for the past 3 days ive been off college sick with the stomach bug, but ive also having doubts that im pregnent since i saw somone else post about a stomach bug yesterday, Anyway ive been sleeping with my guy for ...

Are doctors used to silly questions like this? Should I ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I am looking for some female advice, I am thinking about going to the doctors just to ask if everything is ok "down below", I have always felt a little unsure if I am "normal" and I was just wondering if doctors are used to "silly" questions like ...

I can't ask her to quit her job here - but I don't know if I can live in this city forever either. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Ive been with a woman for 8 months. We're very much in love. She's Spanish and I'm American, and we live here in Spain. The problem is I don't much care for the city we're living in, and have a better job opportunity with a lot more money, in ...

Married man having sex with son's best friend!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I am Joe, I have been married to my wife Hannah for 17 years and we have 2 great kids, I am also gay or bi. I had a few times had sex with men in high school and college, but when I met Hannah who is so beautiful we got married and the feelings for ...

Why can't he work harder to get my parents' approval?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I am a very ambitious 21 year old girl from India. My parents are both doctors and have always been high achievers. My relationship with my boyfriend started when I was just 16 and this is our 5th year now, he was my class fellow. My family is one ...

My birthday is close to Christmas.. My boyfriend wants to give me a combined two-fer gift....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - What if your boyfriend knew your birthday was coming for a couple of months, he knows how poorly you have been treated in the past on your birthday and because your birthday is close to Christmas he says he is going to give you a twofer, meaning ...

How can I make myself more thankful for the things I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - How can I learn gratitude? I try really hard, when things go real bad in my life to count my blessings, but I have such a hard time to do so. Am I a selfish bad person? I know, it would be greatly improving my life, yet I'm just always looking at ...

My husband bought a clunker.. it broke down, I fixed it.. now he is mad at me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

27 November 2008 (?) - My husband brought this really crappy car (which I have to fixed almost everyday) without asking me first (im not mad at him anymore) that keeps breaking down. We were on the way home the piece of junk died on us (what a surprise). I fixed in like ...

Who do I end up having sex with the guy who hurt me, do you think I let myself be used for sex? Could this be because I never got over my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Ok, this might be a little long sorry. When I was a freshmen in highschool I met this amazing guy, and i was pretty innocent when it came to physical stuff. Even though I was not a virgin i believed you needed to be dating someone almost a year ...

I like this guy, what are some cute text messages that I can send him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - i like this guy an i want to text him something cute an sweet what should i text him?...

I want to remain friends, even though we have had sex, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - So I moved 1800 miles away from home to play a sport at a top college. At the begining I was quite lonely, only having my team mates for support, when I met some football players at our athlete-orientation. I found out they lived in the same dorm ...

We are not dating, we have had sex, he sees other girls, am I being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Ok, so i am in love with this guy.. but we are not dating. I mean it seems like we are, and he tells me he loves me and everything! He just hasn't asked me out, and i dont want to say anything about it because i dont want to seem "pushy"....

No dating in over 4 years, and I run out of things to talk about on a date now, any suggestions, don't want to be boring?

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27 November 2008 (F) - I'm 42 yrs (young) and about a 1 month ago just started dating a man I met on myspace. That is something I thought I would never do, but I did and it's so far been real nice. The problem is, I haven't dated in over 4 yrs. (Mind you I said dating) My ...

How can I have a close relationship with people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I need help! I always tend to expect too much from people i love and who might not even love me. I expect them to love me back the way i want to and it kills me when i get the feeling that they dont love me(not romantic relationship). It feels like ...

I have so many problems. What should I think? Is this happening for a reason?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - What are the most serious problems you got? I feel I have way too many problems, and I wonder if it s normal, to have so many problems, and pain. I wonder what are your, most painful events, in your life? My problems are , lost my house, my paren...

Why does he avoid me?

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26 November 2008 (F) - Ok so the same guy who obviously likes me is avoiding me!I seen him sitting with his friends and we spoke.but later when I saw him he purposely went in the opposite direction of me.the thing is I no he likes me but keeps avoiding.like one day he'll ...

Why do SOME people assume things about people, that may not even be true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I have just learnt that apparently some guys think that all girls are slags, this got me so annoyed, I am so angry that people actually think like that, why do people think like that, it's just gross, disgusting and demoralising/degrading towards ...

Having children - is it a deal breaker in love? Please help.

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25 November 2008 (F) - I am suffering from a recent painful break up. After 4 years with a man, who is divorced with 2 children, we have ended our relationship because we decided that he cannot have more children (due to finances and instability) and I very much want to ...

Can you sue for emotional and financal abuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I was in a relationship with a man who is a narcissist. Abused me and my mother financially. Very emotionally abusive. My question is, Can you sue for emotional and financial abuse? We have proof. Thanks...

How can I get over for having to settle for second best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Ever since I was little I've wanted to be in the military. When I turned 18 I applied for an ROTC scholarship and was about to get one. Then they looked at my lungs and said "oopsie! you can't sign up." I don't remember another time when I was so ...

I'm worried I will grow old and never meet anyone and it's making me sleepless! What to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Im 25 years old and Im just a normal hapy-go-lucky girl with a good job, good friends and family. Im currently single, but I would say it was rather through choice. I know Im very attractive, and I hate writing it as it makes me seem arrogant but I ...

Break up money trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hiya, I've recently had a relationship break up which has been very difficult. It was me that did the breaking up and obviously the feeling wasn't mutual so my ex seems to have been rather bitter about it, this of course I understand. However w...

What can I do for my boyfriend who was molested as a child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I have been together with my boyfriend going on 3 years now. We're both in college and have been together since high school. He admitted to me about a year ago that he was molested by his babysitter's son while in elementary school. This ...

Should I leave him because he doesn't love me after 6 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I'd be really grateful for any advice you could give me as I'm not sure if I am overreacting. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months. He is 39, I am 34. I told him I was falling in love with him recently and he replied that he was not ...