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Archived questions from: July, 2015 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I don't like the way he treated me. Does he not have a conscience? Or did he just never care? Or is he trying to get over me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - 1997- 1998: Was in David's school. He was my school mate. Wasn’t really his friend but just a classmate. Sept 2014: Started working at a local Retail store Pharmacy. Saw David there. We chatted and exchanged numbers but he was getting over a break ...

Is there such a thing as commitment phobia?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm just out of a 4 years relationship that really broke my heart. My boyfriend left me saying he was mixed up, and needed to do soul searching. It has been a week since we are separated and with no contact. I am just beginning ...

We have a 6month old baby together. How can I tell him I don't think I love him now, without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - I am currently engaged and have a six month baby with my partner but I don't think I am in love with him anymore. I love him like a brother, we are buying a house together and I still want to live with him and raise our child, but i don't want a r...

Does anyone else feel like the black sheep in their family? If so how do you deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3195 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - Hello, Does anyone else feel like the black sheep in their family? If so how do you deal with it? My family has always been close, we were all raised well and are good people. But as I have got older I am starting to feel more and more l...

I worry my girlfriend will lose interest in me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

25 July 2015 (M) - Me and this amazing girl have been dating for about 8 months now. We do Love each other very much. But to be honest I feel very inferior to her, and I haven't told her. She's a musician and going to college for commercial music...Which actually I ...

Is my mother an alcoholic and if so what can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

25 July 2015 (F) - For at least the past ten years now my mom has been drinking every night. I grew up thinking it was normal (and maybe it is) to have three or sometimes more drinks a night. However, now i'm worried about it. Even when she is sick with the flu she ...

I should have listened to my mum's warning about this man

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - I have let my Mum down by my actions the past while. I met a older man at work, he was always helping me and being friendly. The man has a wife so I always thought he seen me as just work-mate. After working there a while I had saved up enough ...

I don't feel I owe him an "official" break up. My friend says I left my bf for minor reasons. Did I?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Is it immature to leave a long term boyfriend for minor reasons? My bf has never spent any of his birthdays with me for the almost six years we've been together. It too four years for me to meet his mum and I've never been invited to family ...

Fears about having children. I am not sure I want to bring children into this awful world.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

24 July 2015 (M) - Dear cupid, My wife and I originally got married with having kids as a possibility but 100% sure. We have since changed our minds back and fourth several times throughout the years. She went for years thinking that we would and then just a fe...

Thinking about making him go through courts to see his child, but is that fair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

23 July 2015 (F) - My family and a lot of my friends say I should tell my ex boyfriend that he can't have anything to do with our unborn child when he arrives since he has made hardly any effort to be there for me when I have needed him since he started a new ...

I don't want to feel guilty about the money I was awarded as compensation

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

23 July 2015 (F) - Two years ago I was raped by my best friend's boyfriend, it had a terrible affect on my life, I gave up work because I worked in a shop and I just couldn't face talking to people, I lost my home because I couldn't afford the rent and had to move in ...

Why are so many men so shallow and judgmental?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - I have many female friends who are happy with their boyfriends of all shapes and sizes and seem to be totally disinterested in looking at men on the street let alone naked in porn. It is very rare I hear a female friend make a negative remark about ...

I am 14 and am feeling a lot of stress with school expectations, family upheaval and boyfriend issues. Can you help me get through all this, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - okay so in my family, my twin brother and I live with our cousins and they have guardianship over my twin brother and I. Just recently they have decided to relinquish that custodianship of my twin brother, but not me. It's because my brother is a li...

My relationship is making me feel unconscious, mentally foggy, and extremely unhappy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - I think my relationship is making me feel unconscious, mentally foggy, and unhappy and just out right not myself anymore. I have been with my partner for 2.5 years and things were great in the beginning. I thought we had the same vision in l...

Do I have any future with this man? Can he be helped? A relationship without sexual love and intimacy is not something I could live with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - Hello there! I am a 25 year old woman dating, for 3 months, a 36 year old man who I absolutely adore. We're very much into each other. He is kind, charming, chivalrous, gentle, strong-minded....everything one could want in a man. The only iss...

How can I stop worrying about the future?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - How can I stop worrying about the future? I graduated with a 2:1 degree last November but in a subject that I don’t want to do anymore and won’t help me get a well paid job (Film). I have goals I want to achieve in the future, me and my boyfriend...

Yes, it's a tad early but what should I get my boyfriend for Christmas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - hello i was just wondering what i should get my boyfriend for Christmas we are both 14 and he is really into hunting and fishing and sports but i am so clueless on what to get him.. we have only been together for about 6 months by the time Christmas ...

I can see the rest of my life with him... but I can dread it at the same time!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together 2 and a half years, we've been through a lot together and done a lot together but I can't decide where I stand with him; if I love him enough to stay or if he cares at all about me. I'm really not sure whether ...

I long for this other guy, but he has a Gf now. How do I accept this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3197 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I was seeing this guy whilst I was on a break with my boyfriend, I had a real bad relationship with my boyfriend so things ended! I started seeing this other guy and I have never felt so happy we liked the same things he made me smile and happ...

What happens after we die?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

19 July 2015 (M) - I wonder if anybody cares about this issue , but I think about it all the time. I'm not religious, but I feel sort of not really strong in any theoeies about after life. I wish if there would be nothing after we die, but I just have this s...

My fantasy of a three-some with my wife is on my mind. And it will not go away. Any advice from those who have tried to have a threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

17 July 2015 (?) - I have a long time fantasy that wants me to see my wife having sex with another guy. I have been reading Q and A's on this forum for a long time. I have read everything that very nice folks here have to say about threesomes not being a good ide...

Virgin, 19, Anxious, and worried about how, when and where I'm ever going to meet someone and have a relationship. What can I do to resolve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

17 July 2015 (M) - This is my first time trying something like this but I feel like I need to get it off my chest. Okay, so I'm a 19 year old male who is still a virgin which is one of the things bothering me. I broke up with my ex nearly 2 years ago and since th...

Anyone who's ever reconnected with an ex? Is it possible to fall back in love with an old flame?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

16 July 2015 (F) - Is it possible to fall back in love with an old flame? We first started dating years ago. He wanted to concentrate on his career. I wanted more commitment. We split as we wanted different things. I have met up with him once or twice over the...

Why am I still so angry about his relationship? It feels like he won. What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - Several years ago I fell for a good friend I'd had my whole life, but who was living in another country. We began an LDR that lasted 8 months. It ended when he struggled to support me emotionally, as I had some mental health problems at the time...

My fiancée has outstanding mental health problems, and we are constantly arguing. How do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - Alright before i proceed with my question, i ask please do not answer or respond with "then why are you with him" or "just leave him" or such. I would really like to know your advice on how.to fix things and strengthen my relationship rather then ...

I do not want to marry or have children. My mother thinks this is an unhealthy attitide

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3209 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - I am someone who does not want to get married or have children and would like to get some input on others who have made this decision. I am not anti social or anything, but I enjoy being and living alone. I work and have friends and go out occas...

I'm pregnant. How do I tell the father of my child? We work together, but are not in a relationship together.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3210 days ago

11 July 2015 (F) - I'm expecting my first child and I'm really excited about it. I have always wanted a child since I can remember, and when I found out I was pregnant I was over the moon. My problem is I'm not in a relationship with the father, and apart from a f...

Girl I've been seeing for 9 months is on a holiday with girlfriends. What can I do to keep my mind off her ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3212 days ago

10 July 2015 (M) - Hi everyone, I have a quick question. The girl I've been seeing for about 9 months has gone on holiday today with 3 other single friends (a few of them are meeting people too) but what I want to know is how I can not be wondering what she's ...

Life decisions and at the crossroads: Should I just stay here a bit longer? Or move to the bigger place? Any other possibilities?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3210 days ago

10 July 2015 (F) - I guess mainly people from the UK will relate to this issue as it involves freehold and leasehold property and the situation I've been left in when my alcoholic ex let me down. Sorry if this is long, I don't know how to explain my situatio...

Do we all have a soul mate or soul mates? What signalled for you that a particular person was the ''one''?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

10 July 2015 (F) - Questions for the men and women on this site. 1 ) how old were you when you found the " one "? 2) did u ever give up waiting? 3) were u ever jealous if someone find their special someone before you? 4) do you believe in waiting for that spec...

Married just over a year and since then we argue a lot. What has to happen to resolve this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

8 July 2015 (F) - I've been married for just over a year now and whilst most of the time things are happy, when my other half and I fight it gets really bad...much worse than it did before we were married. I find when we argue he antagonises me a lot and as a res...

Is my Bf facing a troubled future due to his work ethic? Am I being naive about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

8 July 2015 (F) - My bf and I have been together for almost two years. He is almost 30 years old. His view on working is that it is bondage and he hates the idea of working years and years. He's been laid off twice since we've been together. The first time it was ...

Am I terrible for thinking about other men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

7 July 2015 (F) - Hi guys I am a happily married 31 year old woman, i have been with my husband for 10 years and feel like our relationship couldnt get any stronger. However, i spend more and more time fantastizing about other men, about the romance, about t...

After finding my boyfriend's porn stash, I'm worried he wasn't being honest when he said he likes my body!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

7 July 2015 (F) - I'm sorry if there are more questions like this, but I used the search feature and it didn't seem to work. This may seem like a petty issue, but it's making me feel self conscious. I've always felt my body is inferior, considering you always get t...

What do you think of men secretly taking nude photos and videos of their wives?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3213 days ago

7 July 2015 (F) - I've visited some forums about men secretly taking pictures of their wives while they are nude, either during sexual contact and without them being aware in other areas, such as disrobing. According to the forums some of the men do this because ...

What is more person in relating to people, and why does it get awkward or at times distant when face to face?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

7 July 2015 (F) - Example: you send a tweet or a social media message or a text to someone and when yu meet in person it may be: hard to make conversation a little awkward maybe they may be cold or seem uninterested why cant written communication t...

Meeting people you admire and being disapointed, it is ok to feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

7 July 2015 (F) - Recently a friend met a theatre actress after a stage show she admired, and though the actress took a photo with her ( and even sent a tweet the next day,)she seemed rushed when she her and others and not interested in chatting There wer...

Mentality to have to Make everything go right

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6 July 2015 (M) - Everything all at once has just gone right! And im not going to gloat about what it is. Im just going to tell you why I think it has. And this is not science, I dont believe in luck.. I believe Every thing that happens is a consequence or reaction ...

Childless by choice: please stop judging us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1689 days ago

6 July 2015 (M) - This morning, as usual, I was perusing the questions on Dearcupid, when I stumbled across a question from a woman regarding her feelings about not wanting a child. Although I gave a comprehensive answer to the question, it touched a nerve with me, ...

I'm single and have made a decision that I'll not become a mother. Is this a decision I might regret later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

5 July 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 30 year old woman who is single with no children. My family (more so my parents and 2 sisters) have been getting on my case for lack of a better word, for not having started a family by now and for have been single for so lo...

What is love? Can anyone help me define true lasting love? How do I recognise true love?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

5 July 2015 (M) - What is love? Do you have to first experience it to know how to recognise it, to understand how it feels? It seems to me as if most couples just go through the motions, they don't actually have love nor really understand it. They get together...

I'm concerned over my father's "friendship" with a younger women.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3213 days ago

5 July 2015 (F) - I'm concerned over my father's "friendship" with a younger women. Threw his work he met a girl in her late 20s. I couldn't help myself look her up on FB she's very pretty and has a toddler. My Father looks after the property's for a landlord h...

Is it a bad idea dating someone who looks the same as someone I was involved in a toxic friendship with not so long ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3217 days ago

5 July 2015 (F) - Met this guy recently around my age and he seems really into me. I like him too. The thing is, though, he looks like the spitting image of a guy I knew up till very recently (a few months ago) and had a lot of trouble with. They could literally be ...

He's saved 25GB of porn on his computer and his desire for sex with me is declining. Are my concerns an over-reaction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3218 days ago

4 July 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half now. I knew he watched porn in the beginning, which was fine because we weren't sexually active until about 8 months ago. He has a normal sex drive, and I have a relatively high one. ...

How can I let go and get over all the things she said to try to make me think she cared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

4 July 2015 (M) - So I am a 19 Year old US Marine, and i made the mistake of joining the Military while in a relationship, (i know im still young, dont remind me..) things were great. Until i told her we should take a break, since my for my job (MOS School) i had to ...

After talking to my first BF I've wondered how can I get over my self worth issues and prepare for the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3217 days ago

4 July 2015 (F) - My first boyfriend and I were together from 14-18 and it was a serious case of puppy love but honestly, he did improve my life immensely. We never consummated our relationship with sex though...he moved away and we only spoke a few times a year on ...

How can I have the life I want if I must also take care of my mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

3 July 2015 (F) - This is a slightly long post but I appreciate your advise and support. I am a 40 year old woman who's separated from an alcoholic man. I have no children. I am on the verge of filing for divorce though he wants to be with me. But I don't think I ...

I fell in love with another man while my husband was in jail

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3217 days ago

3 July 2015 (F) - Hi Aunts! I have been a member here since 2011 and you always help me everytime I need, and now here I am again please I need a real advice, please don't judge as I really need help for openminded people I am 24 years old asian married to a 60 ...

Is it natural for men to openly stare at every attractive woman they see?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3210 days ago

3 July 2015 (F) - hi hope someone can help me with this question I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years we have a 7 month old son together. my problem is he is always staring at other women for example if we are sat on the sofa at home the blinds are open a w...