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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Sickness Phobia

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I am 17 years old and I have a fear of other people being sick, I've had it as long as I can remember. When I was younger I was scared of being sick too but I've kind of grown out of that, I don't like being sick but I am not terrified of it half as ...

Is it bad to fall in love with your own aunt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Please HELP, I am a young guy and I fell in love with my mom's sister and we both are in love for 2 years, we did everything (kissing, licking, pressing) but not sexual intercourse, is this bad to fall in love or to marry own aunt? This is not a ...

Do actions really speak louder than words when first dating someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Do you think its a bad sign if the person you are dating never commits to plans? OK, so I'm not a kid anymore, I'm in the later part of my 20's ... dating should be easier, more straight forward right? Well, I met this girl about a month ag...

How do I let my sick Dad know I've forgiven him for cheating on my Mom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - um...hello i need your help my dad and mom divorced because of my dad's cheating, but now he is suffering because he has poor health, he thinks i'm angry at him, but the truth is i can't find the courage to tell him i've forgiven him a long time...

Feeling sick with diarrhea, after anal sex! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had anal sex unprotected, and i then gave him a blow job. That was yesterday and today i am feeling sick with slight diarrhea, could this be because I sucked him after anal? :(...

She doesn't care about me but I still do her...how can I move on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - I love her so much, It hurts alot when i'm trying to forget her. She said to me she likes me and i told her i love her too, we are together about 3 mouthes for a serious relation, and one day she told me that her x-boyfriend want to return to her a...

Should I snitch on my pot smoking friend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Okay, so I'm on the bus and my friend Dylan and my enemy Joe were talkin. So, my friend David something and he's like wow dude why'd you take that to school and I'm like you guys have weed or something sarcasticly and they just looked guilty I...

How do I explain to my friend's nieces that she killed herself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My best friend of 5 years committed suicide 2 weeks ago. I understand why she did it, she had alot of trouble in her life, and was in every sense of the word an orphan. The only family she had left was her nieces, who were put into foster care ...

Is 32 years... old???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Is 32 old? In people's eyes and in comparison to some still in their 20's?...

Would it be sensible to hold off on the military until I'm divorced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - okay, so im leaving for basic within the next two months, I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile now...and when i say awhile, im not talkin about more than a year. I love him to death, i would take a bullet for this man. Here is the probl...

Does sleeping with 4 guys in one year make me a slut?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I have a question... At the age of 16 I lost my virginity to someone who I dated for only 2 weeks but we went on to be together for 4 and 1/2 years. I dated and slept with 3 other guys. 3 of the 4 guys I ended up being in love with but I am now 21 ...

Will it really take 7 years to get over my abusive relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I have been having these emotional outbursts from anger to sobbing but mostly sobbing for the last couple of days feeling so bad for my man how much I am going to miss him, the pain he must be going through to why did he do this to me, goodness you ...

Am I protecting myself by not getting too emotional with my ex or is this how it is when two people split and get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - My girlfreind split with me last year out of the blue. We were so in love with each other that when she left, both of us were heartbroke. We carried on texting each other for comfort. Then after a few months we started going out at nights just a...

Should I wait and see what his intentions are or should I get out before I really fall in love with him and lose him and his kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Ok so I've been seeing this guy for a few months now and everything is going great but, he says he does not want a girlfriend. He treats me like his girlfriend we go out on the weekends and stay at each others houses overnight and sometimes for the ...

Feeling down about my past. Am I alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - This might not be a very interesting question but it would help me a lot to read some answers and see if I still have to work with things from my childhood or not. You see, I have a lot of good memories about my childhood and teenage years. S...

Coping with age and accepting getting old and being single...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Is being 32 old to some who are 30 years old? I am turning 30 next year, I feel old in comparison to someone who is 28 years old. I am scared of turing 30 because I never had a boyfriend and never had my first off a guy a really like. I am depr...

Do men upper 50s and older still think about sex often?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Would men in their upper 50s and older still be into sex (think about sex often, masturbate, visualize having sex, etc.)? Let me explain - this guy and I have known each other for about four or five years; he'll turn 60 next month and I'm 25. We g...

Would most men accept sex if it is offered to them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Would most men accept sex if it is offered to them? We hear that men are always thinking about or watching sex at some point or other but even some unattractive average woman offered herself to a man for the night would he take it??...

Could an 18 year old girl and a 31 year old man have a successful relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I have recently started seeing a 31 year old man, i am 18. We get on well, and are both very attracted to each other but I know he thinks the age gap is an issue. We both look exactly our ages, which means we do get strange looks when we are out. I ...

What do women 'really' want?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I've come to the realisation that when women talk about they want in men, the words cannot be trusted 100% - sure they may be some truth in what they say but not entirely or either not at all. Actions and behaviour prove the opposite. Women ten...

I want him to be happy but am I wrong to ask for a little bit more attention than him simply sitting next to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - My fiance came to the UK a year ago and has been unhappy in his job for a longtime with the commute and the stress etc and I have been there to support him and try and cheer him up. Recently he has started a new project in his spare time which he is ...

Ex-girlfriend problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 years recently broke up with me. To give some background on the situation...We both are from and went to school in NYC (and both plan on staying there). She is still a senior and I graduated from college last year. For this year, ...

I hate having an "All-American" name, what should I do about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I am 29 and for as long as I can remember, I've been very unhappy because I hate my name. I don't even identify with it. I feel like I was supposed to be named something else. I want to legally change it, but I don't want to hurt my family. ...

Everytime I masturbate I have bad luck, bad karma or something bad happens!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

25 February 2009 (M) - HI! This might seem silly, dumb or mentally not normal to some but i have a weird problem, so please don't judge too soon. I also don't have any mental issues, been checked by the docs so Please don't say that you have issues. It seems like...

Is it true that if you are not sure if you want to be with someone it means you don't?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Is it true that if you are not sure if you want to be with someone it means you dont? I am with my current boyfriend and although we get on very well, I am not sure he is the one that I want to settle with. Could these doubts mean that he is not ...

Lack of confidence....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - The problem with me is that I have absolutely no confidence in me! I'm short and lean (5'11 and 58kg), ugly, talks tech 24 hours, jobless (thanks 2 the sharemarkets!) I just cant think I'm good! And those^^ feelings comes in my way when I t...

I don't think he's quite a first class jerk, but I don't know how to respond!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Hoping some of the great aunts can help here. This is not a huge problem but some second opinions would help. I enjoy my job immensely and have good relationships with my colleagues. I work hard to make sure I do. There is a guy in the office that I ...

Is the reason I'm getting all confused because I'm in love???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 273 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, I've had a lot of posts on this site such as 'am i weird?' 'how do you know if you love your girlfriend?' etc... Well I just read a newspaper and it said for someone who is in love and hasen't realised it yet, they go through mental ...

Can a woman do as good as a male in a male job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Can a female be as good as male in a male job, can women be as tough as men in male jobs?...

Whats it like being an adult nurse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 273 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Going to university in September to study Adult nursing. I want to know briefly what its like working in a high-stress, constant high/low working environment...such as nursing?...

What do we do? Choose the holiday or try our best to get this house?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - i need advice on what i should do. myself and my boyfriend have planned to go away in the summer with family for a family members big birthday. it will be so much fun i no as we havent been away in a few years. i have the money here to book it ...

What exactly IS flirting and is it okay to flirt when you're in a relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - What exactly is flirting? How would you define it? And do you believe it is ok to flirt with anyone when you are in a relationship? Why/why not? Yes, a very broad, general question I know, I'm just looking for peoples opinions, so I can see h...

What would you do if your partner and his relatives did something against your own values?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - If a few of your partner's close relatives were casual pot smokers, who held down jobs and were otherwise responsible, loving people, would you feel comfortable letting your kids visit these relatives, if you are morally opposed to any casual drug ...

How do I make him feel comfortable enough to say how he feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I like this guy and my gut tells me he feels the same, but he's really shy .. how do I make him feel comfortable enough to say how he feels?...

Me first or him first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Should I make the first move or should my bf?...

What are the tests that can be done to check for all STD's?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I was wondering what you would have to do in case of an STD to check a guy for all possible diseases. Is the urethral swab (I think that's what it's called) or a blood test the only way of thoroughly checking, or will a urine test or a less ...

I'm still in love after 5 years but I'm starting to think we want different things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 274 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - i dont know what to do. Ive been with my fella for 5 yrs and yes i do love him but recently im beginning to think we want different things. im really wanting to get a house but because we said last year we would go on 1 last holiday this year in ...

Do you risk it all for love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - What do you do when you love someone? Do you give them your all? do you give them all of your heart and soul, and then risk them breaking your heart? How do you know it's worth trying for? how do you know when it's worth risking everything that ...

Moving out for a healthy love life or staying at home for healthy finances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 274 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I'm 24 and living at home with my parents. This has obviously affected the relationship side of my life. I will be graduating from what was a very expensive professional degree this summer with some daunting debt. I'd like to move out but my ...

How do you deal with a two-faced manager?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, Just wondering any advice on how to deal with a manager who is really (really really) nasty to you one minute, and then really really really nice to you the next? Thanks ...

How do you know when love is meant to be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - how do you know when a love is meant to be?...

I just want to escape North Carolina, but I'm so scared that dream is dying.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My family and I are "immigrants" from Florida who came to North Carolina for "a better life in North Carolina." I did NOT have a better life in North Carolina. Instead, I became VERY depressed and had a really rough time adjusting to the culture. I ...

Depressed in love and scared.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - So I am currently going through depression and anxiety. I have grown up with a crappy view on relationships and men (sorry guys). I have this amazing boyfriend. He is so great but I have all these fears of love fading and pretty much any fear a ...

I'm growing up and find some things not as interesting anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hi there I really think I have changed within a period of weeks/days and want to know what I should prepare myself for. Well our school has broken up from half term and we go back tomorrow. Over the holidays I have really changed. The week before I...

Crush on someone you've never even met?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Is it stupid to have a crush on someone you've never even met? I have spoken to him on msn and on the phone and stuff but I've never seen him in real life. I feel really stupid but I REALLY enjoy speaking to this guy. Shall I suggest that we meet ...

How should I kiss my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hey, ok so my friend and i are crushing, umm friday were gonna go out, with a couple of friends, the thing is that, what if i want to kiss him or he approaches? I haven't had my first kiss. I wouldn't know what to do. people talk about all these ...

Shall I go looking for love? Or will love find me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hey, This is just a general relationships question and I would like to hear people opinions..The question is... Shall I go looking for love? or let love find me?.......

I feel so ugly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hi, lately I've been feeling down. I am embarrassed with the way I look. I can't even wear a bathing suit without feeling humiliated. For one thing no one knows about it but I gotta talk to someone about it. I have hair on my belly and I'm so ...

Pregnant, in undesirable relationship, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I had a one night stand got knocked up and moved in with him he doesnt love me or care he tells me he does but no sex no kissing has got physical I pay half bills and buy all food he gots out wiyh ex sleeps with her and others yet wants us to raise ...

Could anyone please tell me, what stage of puberty I am in?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - okay i really wnat to know what stage of puberty im in right now..i dont kow i'v got got armpit hair, hair around my anus, alot of pubic hair, some hair starting to grow on my chest/stomach, i've got a bit of a mustach and is starting to grow ...