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Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Has anyone here had breast enlargements? I'm considering it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have been wanting to get a breast enlargement for years and really want to go up 2 cup sizes but still look very natural as if they were my own. I was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on who is the best or own personal stories. do your ...

Hair is getting me down. Why is it so frizzy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My hair is getting me down. Ok - so my hair has never been my best asset - it is long, uncontrollable - never goes properly straight etc etc. But just recently - I have noticed it is REALLY frizzy and to me is very annoying as it just looks awful! ...

Did I have a miscarriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I think I had a miscarriage back in january. I was in a relationship back then and we had unpretected sex once or twice..I was 2 weeks late with my period, and then my stomach started to really hurt. It was an unbearable sort of pain, that was so ...

Want to get rid of these stretch marks! What are the best creams to use?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - i'm going on 16 and i'm pretty skinny but now that i'm actually growing lol i'm starting to get stretch marks on my butt and hips, wat's the best coco butter to use for this? i want to either minimize their appearence or just get rid of them, my ...

Please help with Hong Kong and Uk exchange rates

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have recently moved to Hong Kong and would like to transfer money back to my existing bank accounts in the UK. Can anyone suggest what is the best and most efficient way to do this without losing money in the exchange or due to bank charges? ...

Do you prefer guys with six packs or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Just A Quick Question To The Girls. Do you prefer guys with or without a six pack? i ask becuae my mates girlfrieds's dont understand wat the point of us workin out so much is.. so ummm yeah, Do you prefer guys with or without? ...

Guys make me feel worthless, cheap and degraded. Why do I feel this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Normal girls would just say that they like getting attention from the opposite sex but I don't know why I feel cheap and degraded when I'm looked at in such a way by boys. And when I'm whistled at I don't feel appreciated I feel like a slut or a who...

How do we go about handling this and will it affect us in the future if we do decide to tie the knot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 144 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Well here is the Breakdown... I have a girlfriend now who i care about deeply. We are both starting college and are saving up for a house. We both have good parents who love us and spoil us, along with that we both go to church and love the one who ...

Working as a support worker with people with learning difficulties...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I was wondering if anyone here has ever worked as a support worker for people with learning difficulties, and if you know what kind of questions are asked at an interview for this kind of work ? i'm trying to prepare for an assessment day i should ...

Help! Should I quit my job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I am a fairly young teacher and I teach special ed with a lot of really high needs students. Feeding tubes, diapering... the works. I took this job when a very experienced teacher retired. I work with five other colleagues and plenty of assistants ...

Does it bother you if your partner finds celebrities sexy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - My friend and I were talkin one night and he said he gets annoyed when his girlfriend looks at celebrity guys and says how hot they are. I personally don't mind if my girlfriend checks out other celebrity guys cuz I check out other famous women. I ...

Should I tell this new girl I'm dating I was engaged?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Im going on a date with this girl i really like, and all signs point to her liking me as well, but there is a minor problem, my last realtionship that ended 2months ago i was engaged to marry her. Even though im completely over my ex and want to ...

How to give a good lap dance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I want to give my boyfriend a lap dance, I'm just not sure how to. I don't want to screw it up or anything. Any help?...

Aaargh, I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have been single for about 6 months. I really like a male friend, and have done for ages. We get on really well and share loads of interests and I really fancy him - however he's got a girlfriend so I'll never let him know I feel like this and ...

I'm having trouble managing my income with 4 kids! Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have 4 kids and no help!!! I was praying one day that the father of my two little ones would just leave me alone, he has had a drug problem for the entire 7 years and has ruined my life we have been together, finally I came home one day and he w...

Please help support 1st Lt. Dan Choi.

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29 June 2009 (M) - Tomorrow (June 30 2009) at 8:30am Lt. Dan Choi, an Iraq combat veteran, a graduate of West Point with a degree in Arabic, is going to face a panel of colonels who will decide whether or not to fire him -- to discharge him from the military for ...

Girls want what other girls want, or they want what they can't have, true?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - In my dealings with women I've noticed they want men who are desired by other females. I've noticed girls flirt more with guys they know already have a partner and they shun the single guy. Is there something in their DNA that makes them go after ...

Ladies, would it put you off if you found out a guy was a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - hi everyone this question is mainly for the ladies but anyone can answer realy. i just wondered what you people thought about male virginity, and girls would it put you off a guy if you found out he was a virgin? im not realy to bothered about be...

What is it that turns on a woman the most about a man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - This question is mainly for women. Please be as honest as you can. Does a man's penis size really matter to you? What is it that turns on a woman the most about a man and is their penis size on of those things? So basically, is bigger really better? ...

During sex, he says the names of my friends who he'd like to have watch us! Normal or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - hi , i 've been married for 6 months, last night my husband told me about his dream , he was making sex with me and one of my friend.. and everytime we do love he keeps repeating my friends names that he would like if they will watch us making ...

I'm shy but really turned on by them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Im a straight woman (I'm pretty sure, anyways). I have these two co-workers who openly declare themselves as bisexual. They are both into the punk/goth thing. I think they think I'm a really square Hmong girl but I've had a lot of sexual fantasies ...

Was it cheating or just acting? And should I tell my husband, or let him think that Jim was wearing underwear?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I need some advice, both to make myself feel OK, and what to tell my husband. My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years, we have 3 kids together. I have some college, but never finished (kids). My husband has an extremely good job, and...

We got naked for a few minutes, was this an invitation to sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - My friend Adam and I have both had heterosexual histories...however, I have been having sexual fantasies about him since I was about 13. Nothing ever happened but the last time we got drunk together, we were walking on a trail. He suggested we get ...

I'm afraid my boyfriend won't want to try again after miscarriage in unexpected pregnancy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Had an unexpected pregnancy with partner when our relationship was quite rocky. A shock to us both, he especially had a really hard time coming to terms with it, and was really unhappy and unaccepting for the first several days. He said he was ...

How do I let her know I'd like to sleep with her without offending her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Hi, I think the wife of my brother-in-law is attracted by me. I get this idea by the way she looks at me, specially when I walk by her when nobody else is around. But I am still not 100% sure. Does someone have any suggestions on how I can let ...

Why hasn't he added me on Facebook? I thought he liked me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - hi everyone! i recently came back from vacation and during my stay at one of the places,where I stayed at my aunt's place,i met this guy.we were neighbours and at the get together my aunt kept for my welcome,he came and throughout the party,he...

What can I do? I can't seem to find happiness within me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I hate myself. I don't know, I can't think of anything good about me. I'm ugly, boring, bitter... I just can't think of anything good... it particularly upsets me that I was born ugly and boring. I feel like everyone else is better than me. I don't ...

Is it possible for a man to totally lose his sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - is it posible for a man to toally lose sexdrive? Never think about it,or wish for it? Or is it just connected to a bad realtionship? ...

I know things could be a LOT worse, but seriously?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - December of last year was not my best month. The first of December, my mother passed away from breast cancer. The seventh of December, I got into a car accident that left me with a broken leg (currently in the cast) and $1600 in debt. The twentieth ...

Is this betrayal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - My sister and husband are separated, I think I've fallen for him and in the past he has told me he feels the same is this wrong? Is it betrayal?...

Did I do the right thing giving him an ultimatum? How do you think he will react?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I dated this man two years ago for 5 months and was utterly in love with him. We had an amazing connection, unlike anything I've felt before or since. We ended it because he had just come out of a serious relationship (he was engaged), which had ...

Am I getting the feelings too soon or am I getting feelings mixed up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - I need a bit of help the girl I am with at the moment I dont know how long we have been together but i know when i told her i still liked her on the 3rd of april 2009 (I have been attracted to her since college, she started in september 2004 an...

Should I change my name? I'm worried about other people's reactions!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I really dislike my name, it is Cagla pronounced Charla, i am thinking of changing it this year before i apply for university to Charla, but i am worried about how people will react to this and am not sure if i should do so! please help...

What is the emigration procedure? Anyone any idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - Hi there, when I am about 19 I have been thinking about emigrating to America and I was just wondering if there is any documentation type of stuff that I would have to fill in? ...

Lost love... how to get it back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 132 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - Hello everyone this is my first time seeking help over the net. Lately I have been running out of answers and solutions. This is my love story. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 years and 11 months. At the beginning of our relationship ...

My partner is stalking me and I'm really scared for my safety.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I really dont know what to do. About 3 years ago my partner started popping up in places he shouldnt have been like my cousins house - I'd never taken him there. Soon after this I noticed a group of people -mainly men in their 40's and 50's ...

Budgeted birthday gift ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I need some ideas as to what to get my boyfriend for his birthday. He will be 36 years old. I asked him what he wanted and he said that he has everything he wants which I think is great but doesn't help me! What do you get the man who says he has ...

Does anybody know what it's like to not have any light at the end of the tunnel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I'm so not a computer person, and I've probably only been on one other chat room in my life, I'm so lost - everthing is just such a mess. I've been tech married for 18 yrs. my husb is bipolar depressive and well maintained on meds - but has also ...

A few questions for the ladies out there...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - I have two questions for you girls! 1. When you say about yourself you were complicated. What do you really think about yourself? 2. You say to your partner after 4 months: 'I am open for a serious relation ship now.' or '...

Penis size: Small, big, or average?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - im 13 and im worried if my penis is average for my age or under average it 3-4 inches flop and on eceration its 5-6 inches is this average or below average or over average...

Should I get my nipples pierced?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to get my nipples pierced. I think it might be kind of sexy and am interested in getting it done. I'm a 34 DD (natural--no surgery). Does anyone know if it hurts a lot? Will my bra cover the nipple rings or will it be ...

What do I do about his drinking problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Am i worrying 2 much? Me and my bf been together almost 2 yrs got a gorgeous daughter but the prob is he has a drink problem! He has gotten loads better, but i cant help but feel that horrible knot in my stomach that he might go back again. His ...

What was your favorite age and why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - hey guys and girls can you answer this plz , tell me which period of age was your favorite and why !!!!!...

Confused about my sexuality. Could it be hormonal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I'm sixteen and I live in Cardiff, I've had boyfriends but it's never felt right and therefore the relationships have never lasted long. I'm not sure of my sexuality but not just because of the boyfriend thing, I think, well I have been attracted to ...

Is life going to get any better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - aw my life is crap at the moment. 6 years ago i had just bought a house with my first ex-we were on the verge of marrying etc, but in the back of my mind i knew something was not right-he didnt seem all that caring about me and i would normally ...

Should I choose racing or professional football?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - hello there i have left school and i am wanting a job in a shop but when i have enough money i would like to fly over to america and live there so that i can start a racing career i really enjoy racing but i like football(soccer) just as much and i ...

Why would a man be prepared to risk his marriage and family for this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I’m looking for general views and comments on my situation please. I recently had a one night stand with a married man. He has contacted me again and asked if I would consider a threesome. I assumed that he meant with him and his wife but he said ...

Why should he expect someone to be faithful to him when he is still living with her and still hasn't gotten a divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I know this guy that says he has a hard time finding someone to be faithful to him. As a matter of fact I dated him. He said his wife cheated on him. He was still living with her when I met him. This is my question, why should he expect someone t...

What way do MEN act when they're in love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Hi guys, this question is for you men. I was wondering the way you act when you are in love, like do your hearts beat so fast when she calls, do you feel bad if she didn't call, do you keep remember her voice, her laugh, what she had said when she ...

I fancy both men and women and it's distressing me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I fancy both men and women (men more at the moment). When I masturbate, it takes me longer to ejaculate when im fantasizing about women than it does men, about 5 minutes. Its really upseting and distressing me, I hate myself so much because of it. ...