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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Why do nice girls fancy jerks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - why do nice girls fancy jerks? why do jerks types guys keeping getting girlfreinds.girls never see thsese guys as freind material,thses guys can have girl as girlfreind whenever they choose girls never say no when asking them out either.then they...

WHAT am I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I think I'm sick. I like guys, as in I will check out cute, good looking guys and think of how is it like if I have a boyfriend but I get aroused when I see nude girls, or girls making out. Even when I touch my self. And in the past when a guy ...

Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...

Is it just bad luck? A bad cycle I'm in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I cant help but feel like my life is a cycle. Allow me to go further last year ended with me miserable as a girl I had feelings for ends up not just rejecting me and deciding staying friends was no longer acceptable but does so in a rude and ...

Girls!! Why do you like the "landing strip" so much?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Soooooooooooooooo question to all girl, i wasnt wearing a shirt and my girlfriend saw the hair going from my belly button to i guess the lower part of my stomach i guess some people call it a landing strip or many other names. My girlfriend like ...

How can I tell if an off-limits woman is in denial, or blatantly does not fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Good afternoon! I was just wondering how to tell the difference between a woman trying hard not to show that she fancies a chap (since she may already be in a relationship/bequeathed to someone else for example), and a woman who blatantly just does ...

My husband is having an affair with MY MOTHER!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 34 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I found out earlier this week off a good friend (female) of mine that my husband was having an affair with my mother. She said that she'd seen my husband passionately kissing my mother outside a well-known pub and whispering into her ear how sexy ...

Two guys who want to date me! I'm really confused...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 443 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have two really great guys that both want me to date them. Guy number one is my ex. I broke up with him because my mother hates him, he was really jealous from time to time, and I was worried I couldn't stop myself from having sex with him. I ...

Could I get into trouble for not calling after my procedure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 447 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I know this is totally irresponsible of me, but here it goes. I had an abortion at the beginning of 2008, i had to get emergency medi-cal and they told me that i had to call them and cancel the emergency medical after the procedure. So i totally ...

Can anyone explain "the career guy' please???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Can anyone explain "the career guy' please. I grew up in the burbs, dated and married my high school boyfriend who was anything but a career guy. I now find myself divorced and living alone downtown in a big city full of career guys. I don't ...

Male Thong

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I have been wearing a thong for the past 5 years and I find them very comfortable. I have many different colours. I am straight and have a girlfriend but she says only gays wear throngs and makes fun of me. Is it unnattural for a male to wear a ...

How long do you have to pray to find God?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - What's the longest time somebody has prayed to find God? What if someone gave up 3 seconds before God was to answer his prayers? Would he be a fool?...

I'm having such a difficult dating..need some advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - This is a long post and I don't have a specific question really - I am just unsure of what to do. I have never had a boyfriend or dated; I rarely am approached by guys. I'm a great person but I just don't have the "it" that attracts men. ...

Can anyone shed light on the Jekyll and Hyde syndrome that some men suffer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 447 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Can anyone shed light on the Jekyll and Hyde syndrome that some men (as I am a woman, otherwise I am sure women do this too) suffer? It has been destroying my relationship. I am ready to walk out the door when he's verbally abusive (worst I have ...

Why do I have to be the man in the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hello, this is my first question here. I've been in a relationship for almost 4 months now. Before this guy became my boyfriend, he was a very close friend for years. I liked him for over a year, and thought he was giving me signals that he li...

Arranged marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Cut a long story short, i had arranged marriage, i agreed to it, i'm happy, etc..... n i've gotten to know my partner betta he'z great i've fallen 4 him etc.. etc.... Love him 2 bits but i'm not ready for sex yet, yes i havent done it yet, and just ...

We love each other but she wants a break! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I have been seen this girl (I am white she is nigerian), for a year now and we grew to love each other, I gave her everything and we joked together and the sex was amazing. I live with my parent at 29 (i know it sux but property in ireland is ve...

I'm a loyal, helping, trustworthy person but my girlfriends don't appreciate this, why does this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 447 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I would really appreciate your HONEST opinion about something that's been plagueing me for many years now. I really would like to know why this continues happening to me time and time again. A shy, quiet girl at school who was s...

Was this attempted rape?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend knows I want to stay a virgin till im married....but last night we did a lot...and normally we do that dry humping thing..well this time I had no clothes on and he had his boxers on...well I felt his hands down there and I didnt kn...

Can father's drug use have effect on unborn baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I am 3 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend and i have been trying for months, but when i told him the news, he confessed that he had been using angel dust, cocaine, and marijuana on and off four months ago.... he is clean now- i had him take an at home tes...

Where can I get a guy to respect me and not just want sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 448 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm 17, and have a 3 1/2 month old baby girl. her father isnt around and hasnt been since the day i found out i was pregnant... i really wnat to get into a relationship, because it has been so long since i had someone to care about me, and someone ...

They say I'm hot but I still feel insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I am 19 years old, about 5'6", I weigh (roughly) around 110 pounds, and I have a size 32D bust. I went from being that "ugly girl" to a "hot girl" (I was teased A LOT as a kid because of my teeth and how long it took me to develop). Here's my prob...

I'm still in love with first love from 1967

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 448 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hi, my question is that I am 50 plus years old woman. I am married by husband had a stoke recently, which was kinda of severe. I reasonly reconnected to the first love of my life. I want to know how can someone still have feelings for someone over ...

I don't get what I want!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Im feeling down about the way I am. I'm an attractive 22 yr old female, I get hit on by guys all the time, I like the attention, but I don't take any of these guys seriously. Im so picky! At the rate I'm going, I dont think I'll ever find a good ...

Gemini Female and Libra Male, Marriage Potential?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Does anyone have input on a Gemini Female and Libra Male relationship? I feel like it is a match made in heaven-it is a long distance one but wow. Would love to hear +++ or --- personal stories. Also Marriage potential between a Gemini Female an...

Finding inner peace without God..advise please!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - It is a spiritual question, and I hope I can get some opinion. I'm not a religious person on this point, but I wish to reach out for some spiritual answers and help. It is difficult ,as I can't pray to a God I don;t believe in on this point. I ...

Does he love me for real?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Question to all of my cyber cupid angels. The guy I have been seeing for the last eight months called me in the middle of the night-after a night of drinking- and told me he had to tell me something he never has before. "I am falling for you and I ...

When I was younger my brother forced me into having sexual activities...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - Hi there, when I was younger my brother 4 years older than me forced me into sexual activities. I hated it, I use to beat him to stop! He was so much stronger, I couldn't do anything! I have never told anyone before! Shall I? or shall I keep it ...

My husband has beaten me up.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 443 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Can you help. My husband has beaten me up. What happened was I had affair with his brother and got pregnant. We tried to work through it but my husband had a mental breakdown and was admitted to hospital. When he came out he was a changed person. ...

My wife left with our 5 kids in December and I'm cracking up without her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - I've been married 8 years and my wife left me in December saying she can't cope any more. I want her back with our 5 children, she's only 27 years old and I love her and our children very much. It's been a very lonely xmas, she has put herself and ...

Can anyone help me understand my reactions?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - Ok here is my question. I realise it may offend some people but I am seeking advice for a problem like anyone else. I have feelings too and hope they count as much as the next person. My problem is with gay men, a few years ago my problem was not ...

Should I feel bad for being happy that I didn't end up marrying her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - About 8 years ago, I dated a girl who I had known for a couple of years after her divorce. We started out as friends and dated on and off for 3 years. We broke up because I wanted to get married and have children and so on, but she was unable to ...

What do the guys look for in girls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - What kind of Looks does a guy look for in a girl? Blonde hair? Pretty nose? Big Mouth? Big B00bs? big booty? being thin? being tall? being stupid(not really a look but still common in many girls with boyfriends)...

Can a warm, kind feminine heart survive in the harsh environment we live in.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - Can a warm, kind feminine heart survive in the harsh environment we live in? Have they been hardened to survive. I know what I'm looking for but where is it? Should I look towards another country/culture? Become religious? Join some hippy commune?...

He says if I totally quit drinking, he would totally quite watching porn.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 449 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I have been married just about 3 months. We have been together about 2.5 years, during this time we had many mini (few days to couple of months) breakups. Some of the reasons for those breakups were financial, him being nagative toward life(I am ...

I want to move to glamour city!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 447 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - hey i am 19 years old n hail from a small city in india..i want to move to mumbai..its a city where the dreams come true,a centre for the glamour world..but i have no experience and knowlegde but yeah i am determined to be a part of this glamour ...

It seems to me that women don't really like men that much and they could be better off by themselves.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I'd say I'm fairly young at my age, and I've had very little contact with the opposite sex as I'm quite shy. My question has more to do with curiosity and confusion. It seems to me that women don't seem to like men all that as much, and that t...

Please help me take this weight off my shoulders.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 449 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - A little issue that is bringing me a lot of personal grief. I am not a clingy girlfriend, i dont believe in hounding my boyfriend while he is out or following him in the car when he is out but i am insecure on some occasions...simp...

Why do people sleep with each other after they have split up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - why do people sleep with eachother after they have split up,? Thats what me and my ex have been doing for the past 3 months, and i dont think there is any chance of getting back together as hes in a long distance relationship and has never meet her...

View on having mistress/kept man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - I love my uncle. He has been a terrific role model all my life but there is one aspect of this life which differs notably from mine. He often talks to me about his mistresses. When I'm amongst his circle of friends they talk about their diff...

What do these terms actually mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Just, can someone give me the definitions to these terms. been felt up/ been fingered: given handjob, blowjob, eaten out. oral sex, cybersex, any other types of sex besides the "regular" Im pretttyy sure i know what the first one is...

Sometimes I want to be single even though the relationship is good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Help!! I feel like i am in a perfect relationship, yet kicking and screaming inside!! I feel that everything is great, he treats me well, respects me, we have a good time together, and we are living together. Yet despite all this, i am constantly ...

Titanic mentality?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - As the efforts to tell us how the universe was formed and the machinery to discover the Higgs boson breaks down. A blind man sucessfully navigates an obsticle course with no aids, sensing by some means where the obsticles lie. Could it be we do...

What does the word mean

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 450 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - hello I have a quick question and I hope someone can help me with this, english is not my first language, and I live in USA, so if someone can tell me what the bulbish word means, and in what context can be used, I would really appretiate it...

What is the normal age for the following sexual activities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - I'm curious as to at what age certain sexual activites start to happen. If some one could tell me the average age for the following: Seeing a girl naked (in person obviously and not a baby or something) Fingering Oral (to a girl) Oral (recivi...

How do I tell my hubby that his dad is a pervert?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - Ever since my in-laws took a winter home in Florida my husband's dad "Marty" looks for opportunities to grab me(or "hug me" as he puts it)when his son and wife aren't around. If I enter their home last, "Marty" blocks my entry, grabs me and won't ...

Really what's going on, does it sound like there is still a conection between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - Please,please help me Its driving me mad me and my ex ahs been split for 3 months now, but still talk on the phone every day, anyway i gave him an xmas present on christmas eve, and he had bought me one, which he gave me last nite, anyway, last nit...

What makes someone popular? Where am I going wrong then?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - Hi I consider myself to be a caring and sincere person. Being a counsellor was always a dream. I have a good sense of humour I think, a couple of kids, a home, a job, a car, animals. I like being on my own for now. My kids are early teens and I th...

I should leave him but feel bad about it? Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 424 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - I am 21 years old, and i am currently dealing with this situation. I have been in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for two almost three years. I have dealt with all the usual problems most women have dealt with when you are with an abusive man. ...

What time shall I put the turkey in the oven?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

25 December 2008 (M) - What time shall I put the turkey in the oven. My husband say's 10.00 but I say it don't need to go in till 11.00. The turkey is 10lbs and needs to be ready for 12.00. Please help. He says this is the final straw if the Christmas dinner is spoilt. ...