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Archived questions from: March, 2016 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Happily married but feeling terrified out of my wits as my pregnancy has been confirmed. Need advice, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2941 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - Thank you all for taking the time to read my question. I know I'm going to be severely judged for posting this but please bear with me. I got married about 8 months ago to a wonderful man. I'm 33 and he's almost 40. He is the best husband and frie...

Did I make a mistake when I decided to let him go? Broke up last night

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - i really don't know how to express myself still i will try. Its been 2 years since i am dating my boyfriend. Both of us are in our late twenties and this is the 2nd relationship for both of us. We started dating in 2014 before that we were ...

Can someone who cheated on their partner ever gain self-respect again as a person, whether they decide to stay or end the relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - My morals are the one thing I always prided myself in having. I rarely lied (even then I can't flat out lie, more like white lies or divert the answer), obedient to parents (never sneaked out etc.), I don't curse, and I have a strong faith in God, I ...

I don't want to be fired but feel uncomfortable with what my boss is requesting me to do

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - I started my job yesterday as an administrative assistant, at a private accounting firm. My boss told me today she wants me to call tomorrow a credit card company and be her and ask them to waive a fee for her. I feel kind of uncomfor...

Do all women like to be watched while they are bathing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

29 March 2016 (M) - When I ask my wife how she will feel if some one peek in her bathroom and watch her bath, she got extremely horny. Is that normal... how do I know she got extremely horny?, I was doing an intercource with her when I asked. So she basically went ...

If I stop smoking weed will I stop having gay thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2938 days ago

29 March 2016 (M) - Okay. So I'm a 20 year old male. I have always been straight. I masturbated a lot in the last 2 years, excessively to straight/lesbiano porn. I smoked lots of weed in my day and realized I can't really get hard while high or drunk. About 8 months ...

Husband is complacent, and I am fliriting with a co worker.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I have been married for 3 years now and I love my husband very much. There is a problem and I do not know how to overcome it. I have been gaining feelings for a coworker and I know that my coworker feels the same, we are always flirting and I cannot ...

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

Are there men who want to build relationships and not just have casual sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid It's a rhetorical question may be, but is there men who wants to build a relationship not just have casual sex. I have been dating for sometime and lost trust in male population as it is, everywhere I see people just want to have a c...

How do you deal with loneliness and low self-esteem in a world where everyone around you seems to be busy doing things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - How do you recover from being an achiever and surrounded by peers who admire you and inspired by you to becoming the one that has fallen off the tracks careerwise, money wise, and even relationshipwise? Yes, there's family and friends but how can ...

How much does dating actually cost?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

26 March 2016 (M) - So, I was telling my roommate about my plans to build a new computer and media center for the living room, and he told me I should get a girlfriend (instead of appreciating my contributions to the house). While he might or might not be right, I ...

We had a one night stand and now she is pregnant1

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2946 days ago

26 March 2016 (M) - We had a one night stand, and now a month later she's saying she's pregnant. I checked the condom after for holes and it seemed find as no water was dripping through. I wanted her to get an abortion as I'm sure she doesn't want kids with me an...

How can I deal with this rejection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - For the past 3 months me and this guy have been getting really close, he told me he started falling for me in the first month and I've never had a relationship before so I said to him I don't know what I want because I've never done this , I just ...

How do I pursue friends and a relationship with an intimidating face?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

25 March 2016 (M) - Hi, I have too much problems to list out here today, but my main concern is a lack of a relationship and friends. It seems I have intimidating face based on how people respond to me and these days i have a hard time smiling so it makes it even...

Now that I've started dating again I find myself having dreams about my ex! Does this mean I'm not over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I dated for one year and broke up three months ago. He was an amazing partner and a wonderful person. He was always attentive towards me and I treasured him. We were in love, however later realized that our opposite personalities ...

Depression and isolation has made me unable to make new friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - I'm in my early 20's. I've suffered from depression for over 4 years now and I also have generalized anxiety. Due to my mental illnesses it has caused me to isolate away from people and caused me to live in a bubble. For the last few years I hid ...

I accepted his proposal, but I'm having doubts about marrying him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - Ive been with my fiance for 6 years and last year he proposed to me. Our relationship has its ups and downs. Ive known his positive and negative traits more than anyone he knows. Probably more than his family do. He is quite loving and carin...

Questions to ask before getting married!

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24 March 2016 (F) - I just read a great article in the New York Times online. "13 Questions to Ask Before Getting Married” It was written by Eleanor Stanford and posted March 24, 2016. http://www.nytimes.com...

How do I deal with these quite vicious older colleagues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

24 March 2016 (F) - Hi all, some advice on dealing with older colleagues that can be quite vicious. So I'm a newly qualified nurse who has recently got a job on a large ward with a lot of staff. I'm young at only 23 and I think a lot of people have sly digs at me b...

I think all my experience in improving myself should be there for all to see, otherwise why even try. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

23 March 2016 (M) - 26 years of working for the same company and i am suddenly unemployed. Basically i dont know what to do, they paid redundancy but offered no help in regards to securing another job. While i may have work experience my job advisor keeps going on ...

How can I make this work? I want to get back with her. My family think I'm crazy to try.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

22 March 2016 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I had a pretty intense relationship. We met when she was pregnant with her son, we became friends first but started dating shortly after her son was born. I hadn't had much contact with my family for a few years but once we ...

What should I do if my fiance’s parents kick him out of the house after he confesses to them about his gambling problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles.. i posted a question some times ago about my dilemma regarding my fiance was gambling and want me to help him with the problem by asking me to lend him money. From all the opinion and advices given from you, i choose to reject...

Why is gestures of affection so scary for me even though I want them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

19 March 2016 (F) - I apologize in advance im typing this on my phone.Anyways I am not a touchy feely person.I am offered hugs by ny friends but theyre cold and I dont hug back.I dont enjoy having to worry about them hugging ne whenever they want.I try and wear long ...

My ex has filed for bankruptcy and the house I was awarded in the divorce is being included! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - I got divorced a few years ago. In my divorce I was awarded the house with my ex husband paying the outstanding debt. My property stood good for the mortgage but my name isn't on the mortgage A few months ago my ex decided that he was filing b...

Are we banned from this theatre?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were in the movie theater and i sat on his lap and we made out. However, an employee walked by and he said its okay to do that. But he had told the manager and so when the manager got us, he said we were having sex. We were ...

Who should pay more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - My bf and I are living together, and I just got a job. MY Mother was helping with the expenses until now. I will be making 25,000 a year which is 2,083 a month. And my bf makes 40,000 a year. He wants to split all the expenses in half, but I ...

Which of these sexual issues should I tackle first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - Hi I'd like some advice on how to go about tackling a few issues in relation to my sex drive. My partner and I have been together 2 years and I do love him very much, there's a 10 year age gap (he's 36 and I'm 26). We are very similar people a...

We can have a family - but only if he gets his dreams first. What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2957 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - I've been with my partner for almost seven years. We got engaged a year ago but no plans on a wedding yet. Over the years we have talked about children - we discussed it very early on that it was something we both wanted. Over the last year or so ...

My Boyfriend's ex just will not let go. Shall I attend the wedding we're both invited to, or stay away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is taking me to a wedding and his ex, who is Very much clearly still in love with him, will be there. Should I go to this wedding? I don't want to end up causing a scene. FYI, my boyfriend has told her to move on and that they won...

What are some tips on how to get on better with work colleages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - I have no problems but I am older than 90% of my work colleagues. I have NO issue with younger colleagues, my boss is 9 yrs younger and shes fine. but i'd like tips on getting on better with them. My workplace is super cliquey, I have no wish t...

I am in a lifeless relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - I feel as though I'm in a lifeless, passionless, boring relationship with my long term boyfriend. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. At first it was exciting and very passionate. But time took its toll and that passion has been lost. Ou...

If I am to do so, how do I tell someone they have been creatively inspirational?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

14 March 2016 (M) - I am a singer/songwriter, who like many artists, is at times inspired by a member of the fairer sex, as the old phrase goes. There is someone I get to work with every so often, and to say she has piqued my interest is an understatement of the ...

Why ask? What does it mean when a guy asks me 'what does love mean for you? How to reply to that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2960 days ago

13 March 2016 (F) - What does it mean when a guy asks me 'what does love mean for you?'. He asked me was in the middle of our conversation, and i was pretty much surprised and thought, why would he ask me about a thing like this?...

Why do people take advantage of "soft" people?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

11 March 2016 (F) - I find people take the mick out of me for "soft" I have always been like this, people have said I need to toughen up but I like who I am so why do people need to take advantage? I hate the fact that basically I'm going to have to turn into a twat to ...

My boyfriend's obsession with his friend's girlfriend is creepy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

11 March 2016 (F) - My on/off bf of two years has known this girl for a year because she is on and off with his best friend. Ever since he met her, he’s hidden the fact that he’s socialised with her, he’s liked all of her profile pictures on facebook, all of her ...

We need to plan for our future but talking about it makes partner anxious.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2963 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - Dear cupid, I have a multifaceted question about relationships and midlife crisis and men and women maturing at different rates. I have been married for 8 years together for 18. We are reaching a point in our relationship where I want to take our...

Ex partner is a born again Christian now and I am scared of our daughters upbringing

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2791 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - Hello everyone, Can anyone please give me some advice on how to deal with bringing up my 2 year old daughter with my ex partner who is now an evangelist born again Christian. Before we split up I was with him for years and he hated all forms...

I wonder what I have missed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - I met my boyfriend when I was quite young. We started dating and have now been together nine years. He was the first person I slept with and therefore the only person (fyi I was not his first but this is not my issue). I find it really unsettling ...

Is it possible to live happily ever after knowing that my husband occasionally sleeps with other women on side?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

7 March 2016 (F) - Is it possible to live happily ever after knowing that husband sleeps with other women on side occasionally(paid sex with high end escort/companions)? He always use protection and is very hygienic. I've got him n myself tested few yrs ago when I i...

I've decided to give my ex another chance. Do I cancel the date I had scheduled with another guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

6 March 2016 (F) - Tonight Me and my (ex) boyfriend have decided to give it another go, we broke up a few weeks ago but stayed friends. he was scared about moving forward . my friend is on a dating site and knows hes on there too ( he hasnt deleted his profile ). ( he ...

Can I find a loving man who will accept my low sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

6 March 2016 (F) - I have a low sex drive it's been suggested it's my age but I know I always have had this as sex itself has never been 'that' important to me ever so wonder whether it's just the way I am. I like men and would like a close relationship with someone ...

Is flirting cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

5 March 2016 (M) - Where do I begin? Basically I am a flirty person by nature, and I never really had a problem with that, I have my fun, mess around, and never really have anything that lasts. However, just over a year ago now I met a girl who I really fell for. We ...

A young pretty woman gets special attention whenever she has a maintenance problem. Do I tell his wife about this? How do I address it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

5 March 2016 (F) - I work as an maintenance assistant for a local housing association. In the office we deal with tenants on daily basis for repairs. Most of them get turned away unless it is serious or have to wait a few days for the repair. However there is a female ...

I'm pregnant homeless lost and boyfriend ended things. How are things going to get better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

5 March 2016 (F) - I need some advice if that's possible. I met my partner abroad and moved from a northern little town to a big city to be with him. I hate city life I have a job as a manager and he works for his family business. After being together a year he's lost ...

How do I get past my fears that he might not be ready to settle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

4 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. We met on our first day moving into our university's campus accommodation, and fell for each other quickly. We decided to be "officially" a couple after 6 weeks and we've been quite inseparable ...

Is 4 months of dating too soon to ask her to marry me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

3 March 2016 (M) - I am in love with my girlfriend.. I can't imagine life without her. She is everything I could have ever asked for and more. We have only been dating 4 months but it seems like longer. We have known each other for 4 years. I know she is the girl for ...

Breaking up is hard to do, how do I know if I made the right decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

3 March 2016 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago. We had been together for nearly 2 years, everything up until a few months ago was great, I'm not really sure what happened but recently we've been having communication problems and i wasn't sure things could ...

Did he propose to me because of his family? Or because he's been with me so long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2971 days ago

2 March 2016 (F) - What are some qualities to consider as a woman in choosing life partner? Ive been in long term relationship with my fiance. He is sweet and caring partner when we meet in person. He is quite supportive when im having and dealing with my problems...

I'd been seeing a co-worker who does have a girlfriend and now he's blocked me, is blanking me and has told everyone at work everything! How do I approach this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2971 days ago

1 March 2016 (F) - I have been seeing this guy from work since Mid December (I know it's risky and a 'no go' with colleagues from work, but there's something about him I like, and he admitted he likes me too, and when we were out on our Christmas Night Out we ended up ...