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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

My story of how karma really can bite you. And why empathy is important in relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Well basically I am 14 years old and i would like to share a story which really really changed my way that I view the world and why you shouldn't take people for granted. All names included in this stroy are made up ones. I had a friend n...

I want to keep my sexual orientation private, but feel guilty if I don't say anything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hey. Basically i for the last year have been wondering about my sexuality. About 3 months into the year i started to have feelings for women and become rather attracted to them. This was complet...

I am interested in a 17 year old girl and her mother is encouraging us to have sex! Why??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - I am interested in a 17 year old girl who seems to like me but is a little reserved.She is an only child. Her mother is encouraging the relationship actively. She even told me that sex was okay if I loved her. What is mother up to? I find it a ...

Why did he do a disappearing trick on me. How would you have handled this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I met a guy a month back in a business meeting and we exchanged numbers then added eaach other on blackberry. we hit it off instantly given the strong chemistry between us! He lives an hour drive away from me, so we were in touch on a...

My boyfriend is abusive. Help, what do I do? Because I'm falling hard for my boyfriend's brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Ok. I am in a situation that I really badly need help with. I have been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years now off and on. The first year was terrible. I always caught him talking to his ex girlfriend. He was telling her he loved her and that...

How do people cope with multiple family pressures and still cope? Where does one go to for helpd?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - After rewriting this 5 times I've just decided to be blunt. I'm feeling really down. It's been gradually progressing for a while now, starting off when I lost my nan 4 years ago. I was really close to her and I was devastated but I've never been...

I only lied to avoid a fight. She's aggressive and doesn't trust me. Should I break if off with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I'm an insurance agent by trade and I sat down with one of my girlfriends friends. I sold her a policy. But recently my girlfriend called her up, and asked her if anything is going on between us. I think it's inappropriate, along with her constan...

Why would a girl ask a guy why he doesn't flirt with her when she knows that he is in a serious relationship with a live-in girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Why would a girl ask a guy why he doesn't flirt with her when she knows that he is in a serious relationship with a live-in girlfriend? I find it strange and rather disrespectful. Is this something that people generally do? Because I don't think I ...

What's more important; being loved unconditionally by a good man, or being single but popular earning a good salary?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I would consider myself to be a social outcast. I have a very few select number of friends, people reject me and I'm just not all that popular. I'm not part of the clique at work, and recently missed out on a promotion because of this. The girl that ...

My insecure girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Help please I want to save our relationship from ending Me and my girlfriend have been together for over 2 years and 4 months and are considering marriage Right now we want a court wedding because of financial issues But recently today she th...

What's going on between my B/f and this other girl? Do they have a history? Does he want her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I noticed that my bf has been exchanging messages on fb with a girl he's not friends with on fb. She lives in our area according to her profile. I secretly viewed their messages and it seems that they are not flirting or anything. I'm jealous bc ...

I'm currently stressed out and confused about what I'm doing in life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - I'm currently stressed out and confused about what I'm doing in life. I'm 8 or so weeks into my Masters in a biological science, and I don't know if this is where I should be. To cut a long story short, I've always been much more passionate about...

Is he going to come around and realize he can find a way better looking woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - This may be a little long,but hopefully people will still take the time to read it. A couple of months ago I had decided to start online dating. I was tired of being single,and being a single parent didn't allow me to go out and meet people in the ...

He doesn't like my breasts, other girls are prettier than me, he treat his ex better than me....all these things are making me so insecure!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hello, I feel like this question is stupid :( but please help me out. So me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1yr and 3 months or so. At the start of our relstionship, it wasnt the best, i felt so upset with him at times with the things...

My mum is very controlling and makes my boyfriend feel like she approve of our relationship, how do we overcome this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year, the relationship occurred after a strong friendship and we are very much in love. We are both in our 20s, graduated, stable jobs, good career prospects and my boyfriend has recently moved out of his own ...

When I do choose one man over the other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - So I'm dating two men. One for six weeks and one for 3 weeks. I've seen both about 5 times. At what point do I stop dating one or the other? When a conversation arises? I like both and I want a boyfriend that will lead to marriage. Neither has ment...

Feeling used, yet culpable in becoming intimate with a 'taken' man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do, I did something very stupid with this guy a week ago. I am so disappointed in myself, that I don't know what to do in this type of situation?! Basically, this guy I really liked him and I wasn't sure whether he did to, but ...

Is he attracted to me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Does this man like me ?. I'll call this man J. I was talking to one of his friends today and his friend said " J loves you " and i said " how do you know ? " and he said " he told me ".Now , by saying he loves me, do you think he means it ...

Was low self esteem a factor in the demise of these relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hello guys :) I would really appreciate some insight on an issue! In the past 3 years (basically since I started dating), I've been badly hurt by 2 men. I was involved with each of them for around a year, so they wasn't exactly short-term r...

Should I tell my boyfriend about the obscene comments I've been getting online?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - There are guys, mostly online, that have been making perverted comments towards me, and it's kinda hurting my pride, because it makes me think "Do I look like a slut?", and it's just bothering me, because I find it disgusting when some random guy ...

Why am I the bad guy for leaving? She lies and cshe heated on me 5 times.How do I get her to leave me alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - I have ended my 4 year relationship after catching her cheating for the 5th time. She still tries to contact me, bitterly and never mentions or changes the subject, when i try to tell her why we have broke up. She used to blame me for driving her ...

How soon is too soon for the "L" word?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - I met a really great girl about 6 weeks ago. We get along great and we have been spending a lot of time together. She lives about 30 miles away from me and yet we still spend about 4 days per week together - Friday one of us goes to visit the othe...

Boyfriend may be cheating on me. What is the best way to confront him and how do I deal when he's denying it or pretending that I made it all up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I recently discovered that my boyfriend may be caring a relationship with another girl long distance. He is texting a girl in another state and from the looks of the texts, they have some sort of relationship. They call each other baby and tell ...

Please help me summon the courage to leave her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - Dear Experts, Ive finaly hit rock bottom in what is supposed to be called a relationship and i require some support to find the courage to leave, after 4 hard years with my soon to be ex partner i cant take anymore of her crap, november 2010 our...

My abusive husband threatens to label me a bad mother if I leave him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Our daughter is four. the other night I was so ashamed when my little girl tried to stop my husband hitting me. She physically tried to push him away. He is always kind to her and he waits until she is asleep before he starts to be nastier to me. I...

Family keep pushing us together. Yet I suspect he's Gay. Why does he say he'll ask me out when I'm "Free"? I am single.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - So there's this guy right. He's such a great guy, we met actually a year ago yesterday, but I've only seen him a couple of times.. I get really nervous around him.. Why I don't know but I do.. His mom and my sister are friends. Since the first ti...

Will I be single forever? Or are some men ok with a girl being good looking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Hi this is a question for the men. All my friends amd family tell me how good looking I am, but I don't think I am. Men always seem to have a problem with my supposed good looks. Every man I've been out with has broken it off with me. What is it...

How can I get a good paying job in the US or Canada?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Can anyone help me to get a job in the US or CANADA. i didnt study much so i can do any job as long as it pays well. please help me? thanx...

Question on genetic testing...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I was wondering ,if anybody familiar with genetic testing? Does it really work? There is serious mental problems in my family, and I want to see , if there is anything shows up, as a genetic explanation. Does genetic testing shows any predisposition ...

Colourblind test

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Hi guys need help-not romantic stuff but please help me as your advice is really cool and appreciated. Hey guys sorry to disturb but i need help-very worried got an opportunity to apply for a highly paid job but need to do a colourblind test. I...

My boyfriend keeps hinting for money.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

26 November 2011 (?) - My boyfriend keeps asking for money indirectly. He would say my mom is not giving me money we can't date. Or he would go directly like 'can i ask you something? No leave it'. If I say tell me he would ask me. I mean I am not so rich. I don't have a ...

What is wrong? I feel I'm closing myself off from others. I can not understand why this is happening.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I just don't know what's wrong with me.For a while now,I've felt so down,tired and so very,very sad.There's no reason for it,nothing's happened to me.I'm just so sad. I feel like closing myself off to everyone and just disappearing into my own worl...

How can I get him to keep things on a professional level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - A tradesman has completed several renovating jobs for me for over the last two years. He sometimes has his teenage son with him to assist him. He is trustworthy and reliable. The very few times I have spoken to him have been just before I have gon...

Does he like me or not? If anyone could give any suggestions please feel free, as I'm stumped

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I havent used this site in a while now but here goes, i started a new job in september and everything is going good. I have made some new friends which is always a bonus :) but there is this one guy we'll call R, he's really shy but he's good loo...

How can I avoid an Arranged Marriage? I do not wish it to go ahead. What should be my actions and behaviour in this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I am getting married as per my parents wish to a guy who is a liar, unattractive, no mannerisms, hypocrite, etc. Worst I get shivering spine when I think I will have to go to bed with him, for which he is eagerly waiting. He thinks himself very ove...

Is it just sex to him? Or does my ex really want us back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - my exbf broke up with me 3 months ago. Tuseday morning he sent me a message said he wanted to talk and apologize, and he insisted he's not drunk. so we went out and grab some coffee that night. and he apologized to me about what he did before a...

Inside, I identify myself as a woman-I'm confused! How can I find someone who understands me as I really am?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

26 November 2011 (M) - Ok so new at this. Not sure if this question qualifies for this site but here goes anyways. Basically I'm 34 years old and on the inside I Identify as female. So transgender I guess. When I was younger I ad lots of accepting friends. Long blond hair ...

I see myself as a good guy-but is it possible that I'm a "ladies's man"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

26 November 2011 (M) - Do I sound like a "Ladies Man" to you? I'm very attracted to girls, I know how to treat a girl, are my best friends. I'm a sweetheart and get along with everyone. I never had a girlfriend before and I believe I can make a girl feel comforta...

I'm not good at showing my feelings. I thought we had a connection Did I give him the impression I didn’t want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I met this man out in a bar in the city (5 hours from where I live) one night 5 months ago and we exchanged numbers after really hitting it off. He had to leave at one stage to go to a works party for a few hours but we agreed to meet up again an...

He moves on to new woman so easily! Am I being unfair to feel he led me on only to drop me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - To all those people out in the world, that gift their time to answer our problems.... I thank you! I would be so grateful for opinions on my situation. My partner of 4 years and I split up six months ago, because I found he had been lying and I co...

I've been a supportive husband to my EXTREMELY accident-prone wife-what are my options in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - In 15 years of marriage,( second marriage for both of us ), my wife has been sick or injured more times than I can count. Car wrecks, falling down stairs, back injuries, broken legs, hips, collar bones, arms, wrists, and even a concusion that res...

I love my boyfriend and yet, I find myself longing to be with a woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I am in very happy relationship with a man thats been going on for a year and 4 months and yet I'm longing for a girl! I really need help because i am having feelings against Everything i have previously said about being bisexual! I previously wrote ...

Afternoon to evening outfit....what should I wear?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. This isnt much of a problem, i just need advice. I'm going out on Sunday to some bars, but i am meeting up with my friend in the afternoon, and we may be out until the evening, and i'm not sure what to wear. I don't want to look too ...

Can my ex take me to court and get custody of our son?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I need some advice. When I was four months pregnant I left my son's biological father because he forced himself on me sexually and used to hit me. After we split I tried to be civil with him for our son's sake. Well sometime later we got into a big ...

Should I wait like a lady for my boyfriend to pick me up like my mum says?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 November 2011 (?) - My bf of 2 years has night shifts and at the end of the week, I usually drive over to his house and wake him up because he is capable of sleeping till night time (cause of his night shifts)... Well I never saw anything wrong with that cause if we go ...

Is sex outside the marriage infidelity when it's a 5 year plus sexless marriage?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - I have a very long term friendship with a woman. Her marriage has been dead for many years but stays because of her high school children and financial reasons. My marriage has been over for 10 years. During coffee last week , sex became a topic. She ...

How can I put all my troubles aside so I can be more level headed and happy again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Im no longer the girl he fell in love with. Ive known my boyfriend for years, we became very good friends at uni then we became a couple about 9 months ago. I have always been a happy sunshine positive person and that is what he knew me as. Howe...

Is it ok to date a friend's daughter?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - I was having a conversation the other day about morals, and the person asked me if I thought it was ok to date a friend's daughter. We didn't go into depth in terms of which friend, how long you'd known them, etc. personally, I couldn't see a p...

Health problems and being teased about it. Please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - This is not a question about love or anything but I could use the help. Sorry for the length of it in advance but please!! When I was little my bestfriend’s brother had this friend who was horrible, he always picked on me because I have red hair ...

Whats the best way to over come lust and temptation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - Whats the best way to over come lust and temptation? Even though I have chosen the single life, it seems that temptation is always around the corner and I get the urge to want sex. Iam a virgin so it makes things 100 times worse and im not religious ...