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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Do you believe in those love stories like Carrie and Mr. Big?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - so... do you guys believe on those love stories like Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big, when they were in a relationship, break up then they both mess around, to then been in different relationships, even a marriage, all for this to end on them together? ...

Is there any man out there who is satisfied with just one good woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Can someone please tell me what is wrong with men? They say they love you, it feels right together, you have so much in common..... you are both having fun and things are great......Then why oh why, do they seem to think they need more than 1 ...

Could my crush be gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I have been friends with a guy for about four years now, I have been very close to him, reasons being I felt we are very similar in many ways, he reminded me of myself a male version of me, he knew I liked him, but he said he just wanted to be ...

My mom treats me like crap and I just want to leave home but I have nowhere to go.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Hi. So this is my story, i'm 18 years old. I live with my parents and my older brother but it hasn't always been like this. When i was a baby my mom couldn't take care of me because she worked and she didn't want to leave it so her sister took ...

Am I being slutty? How do I regain my self respect?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - all my friends (in a jokey way) always call me slutty and its always just been a bit of a laughy joke, but i really think i am, i seriously cant help it but its not like i have sex with loads of boys just i flirt with different boys at the same ...

Body language signs of the guy I'm interested in...am I over-reading into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I had dinner with 3 of my guy friends (more like acquaintance though), one of whom im interested in. i accidently gazed at him a little longer and when he realized, his eyes darted and he gave a slight frown, followed by some serious fidgeting of ...

I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. What is the best way to confront her without losing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. I do not believe it is physical yet based on the evidence I found, but I do know that she is very attracted to this guy. Should I lay all my cards on the table and ask her to...

Do girls dislike men who have bald/shaven heads?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I am 29 years old bald man. I lost my hair 8 years ago due to pimples on my head. Though the pimples have gone but the damage has been done. So to cover my baldness, I have been shaving my head for the last 6 years which gives me decent look. I had ...

Is it wrong to not be career driven and financially motivated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 May 2011 (?) - Hi there. I have a bit of a problem. I'm 38 and my bf is 37. We are currently trying for a baby and also buying a house together. My problem is that my bf is quite career driven and I feel he expects me to be. But I'm not. I currently earn about £1...

Am I just an arrogant american?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Is it wrong for thinking my home country (U.S.A.) is the greatest country in the world? I come from a military family, and have such a deep respect for our armed forces. I am not the most patriotic person in the world, of course I do not trust the ...

My boyfriend can't support himself, doesn't seek out jobs, is a druggie, can't drive, wont educate himself, is overweight, and wants to marry me! Do I stick to it and try to find him a job, again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hello, are u ready to read?? I don't know what to do anymore, we've been going out for more than 3 years now and he has never got a job. We are 25 years old, i'm a university student and i work and live with my parents, so i do have a little i...

What does it mean when someone says 'I need to work on myself first'??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - What does it mean when someone says 'I need to work on myself first'? I can't think of what this means at all and how they do that..........

Do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I want you opinions men and women! I want to know do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls? i used to be rake thin and prided my self on that but now im older i have got bigger and im worried men wont fancy me as me! Given a choice what sort ...

The guy I dated briefly said that I scared him with my questions!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I dated this great guy for a month. He said on the third date that he like me very much, we also had such a great time togheter, lots of laugh,and a great chemistry. We were also very attracted to eachoter, even though we didnt have sex (he said it ...

Is her telling me something like this her way of trying to make me think of her in a sexual context?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - A girl at work told me she had an embarrassing accident recently- her dress came apart and her breasts were exposed at a party. She told me this whilst we were alone. As the story finished, someone else walked in and she got embarrassed. Is the ...

How long should I wait to start a new relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of 18 months about 3 weeks ago, and last week I met someone I really really like. People say you should wait a while to try and get over your ex but I feel like I am done with her - I dont think about her(excluding ...

Fat Admirers - Where are they? Do they exist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - The idea of being in a relationship with a FA, or fat admirer, has always... intrigued me. I've met one in the past and ever since I've been incredibly interested in trying such a relationship out. I can't seem to find many more, which I'm assuming ...

I can convince myself of anything, just by saying it out loud

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I don’t know how I manage to do this but I can trick my brain into thinking something completely different to how I’m really feeling. It sounds odd, but If I speak out loud what I want to hear or feel like, I can change my brain way of thinking and ...

I am at a point in my life where I can't stop hating men and it is poisoning me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I need some help. I am at a point in my life where I can't stop hating men and it is poisoning me. Six years ago I was kidnapped and raped by a very sick individual. Since then I have honestly tried to not look for evil in men, I r...

Here I am, on a bad economical market with no plan B. How can I get back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Okay, this is not a relationship question, but I need your help anyway. To cut to the chase: I'm a 24 year old woman and I'm not sure about what to do with my life. I'm going to give some backstory. Sorry if it's boring, but I need someone to ...

I'm an awkward duck, and not comfortable with myself. Therefore, love isn't in the cards for me. Right??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - The only time when I feel comfortable and I can truly be myself (whoever that is) is when I am with my family or 2 of my friends whom I have known for years. Other than that, I find it so hard to interact with people. I always get the impression ...

What do boys like for birthdays?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - What exactly do boys like for birthdays? Well, I have this really cool boy friend, as in a friend who is a boy,are there any presents I can get him without him getting the wrong idea. Alright, I once had this friend(whos a boy), I actually gave him ...

How should I handle living with my arty boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hi I am wondering if 'arty' people are difficult to live with in general? Is it hard to live with someone who likes to shut themselves away for a couple of days at a time while they fulfil this need to create? I'm asking this question because...

His mother treats him badly. How can I help my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (?) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost over 2 years not and he has a lot of problems with his mother. at the age of 12 she sent him to military school for no reason.. it ruined him. he still cries when he's alone. He is now forced to sleep ...

Could my environment make me gay??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - i am 16 years old, when i was 13, i liked girls very much, i imagined sexual fantasy with girls. but now, after i entrance to high school, high school for men, just men, in this school there are no girls.. i start imagine sexual fantasy with boy. i ...

How do I leave the man I love and start over at my age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Ummm....I am confused because I am in love with someone that is not willing to love me the way I had hoped to be loved. We have been in a relationship for over 8 years and I know that both of us have been faithful to each other. He is a workaholic ...

Guys: How experienced do you like your girl to be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - So here's a question to the guys out here. Do you like the girl to just lay there during the first times you have sex with her so that you can feel more confident, do you like that she takes some initiative (like?) or do you just want t...

I need some tips. What is the best way too lose weight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Well i am 174cm tall and weigh 95 kg. Over the last three years I have put on five kilos. Most of the time I eat fairly good food but i think I definitely eat way too bigger portions. And I also do eat some bad food if I have the urge. I have bee...

What am I supposed to do? Trust my ex or this creepy guy friend of hers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Everyone has heard the phrase love is not enough. Me personally I find it hard to believe that if someone says they love you and continue to do what they want that is not love. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. Maybe I was a little over zea...

People say once a cheater always a cheater, but considering we were on opposite sides of the world, is this different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - hi there Im feeling really insecure.Iv been with my partner for 5 years. He is from Germany I am from America.I met him when he came to university in america. As far as i was concerned our relationship was perfect and I wanted to spend my life wit...

I always thought that a marriage proposal should be a happy occasion but it’s left me struggling...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I always thought that a marriage proposal should be a happy occasion but it’s left me struggling with the answer. My boyfriend is a really nice guy and we were living together. He was having a difficult time financially and with his ex wife. I...

How do I ask him for help or hint at it without seeming needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Hello. I am currently in a LDR relationship. I have been working hard saving up to pay for the plane ticket in order to visit my boyfriend. However, even with my working, I am still short in cash and will only be able to visit him for a few da...

Any tips on performing oral sex with a small tongue and a sensitive partner??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - so me and my gf had oral sex... i have a really short and small tongue... i can't seem to please her really well... she says her clitoris is too sensitive... when ever i try to lick it she cant take it... even if im being slow, soft , and gentle she ...

How do I deal with somethng I did a long time ago??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I have a really big problem along time ago when i was 14 i did a sexual act with my third cousin i regret it so much i not attracted to him at all this mistake i made was because he harrased me until l gave in now im 20years old im still a virgin ...

Is it weird that my ex calls me after 8 months, says he misses me??

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - My ex called me after 8 mo or so.. saying he missed hanging out with me etc. When we were dating, he was going through a custody battle, living with his mom because he was helping her out (she had back surgery) and they fought alot. We ended on a ...

We broke up, he requested to be my friend on a Facebook & apologized, what am I to think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Well i split up with my boyfriend of 2 years just over 3 months ago. We ended in a pretty bad way leading me to delete him from facebook. He completely cut contact, although i finished him, he drove me to it and all i wanted was answers to why he ...

I think he's going to leave me, what do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - What do you do when your pretty sure the love of your life is going to leave you? Im worried that im going to resort to drinking to not feal pain. hes been the love of my life for so long the only one i ever been able to count on the only one who i ...

Need serious answer to big problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Hi aunts, i have a bit of a problem. Its a long story: I have a boyfriend, he's a muslim. I had a boyfriend before him. He didnt treat me well, took me for granted, commented on other girl's pictures on facebook telling them how sexy they are. I...

I like her, she has refused me before, what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - I have just turned 15 and i really like this girl but i think she is way out of my league. I'm 5'2 9.2 stone (not fat) and i kinda get bullied a bit. She is much taller than me but i really like her, i have asked her out once before (last year) and ...

My girlfriend is needy and controlling. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is very needy and controlling. She expects me to check in with her whenever I go out without her and often expects me to do the things and activities she wants to do. When I want to something on my own she always tries to prevent or ...

Baby Blues.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I've been really getting down lately a lot of friends have been having kids lately, I'm 23 and I've been broody for over 2 years. I just haven't been in a place to have them, I know have a lovely partner, but he isn't ready for them. I've got ...

What weekend do you prefer to go out on, the first weekend of the month or last weekend of the month?

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27 May 2011 (F) - Hey, this may be a confusing question to understand. But you know the last Friday/Saturday of the month is when everyone goes out (clubbing, bars, pubs etc.) because it's called 'pay day weekend'..... Well do people go out more on the last weekend...

I love pets but am very sad that I don't think I'm meant to have one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Lately I've been feeling blue and I'm not sure if there's a solution to my problem. It's not a relationship problem, but it's driving me crazy! I absolutely LONG to have a pet of my own, and I know that nothing else will fill that void. The ...

Why do I like getting attention from guys but then never following through on it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Is it bad that when i go on a night out i like the idea of meeting guys and getting the attention from them? I want to make out with them, but not so that it leads to sleeping together cause i couldn't do that with a stranger! But I don't understand ...

Feel so guilty for ignoring her...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - Hi, I cut this woman out of my life some time ago. I did it only after a long effort of trying to talk to her to reach a common understanding. And I did it only after a long period of deliberation and only after I was convinced that she was lying to...

Heart spamming on facebook makes me sick. Normal, or am I jealous?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - This is a mixed question, but I will try to explain what I mean best as possible. This is about how people choose to use facebook and the reactions people have to it. Im especially thinking about the couples who declare their undying love for...

My conservative wife wears low-cut tops that show her bra?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - OK, this is going to sound odd, because I certainly find it odd. My wife is in her 40s. She has always been very decorous. Serious professional, dedicated mother, married for 20+ years. A virgin when we got together. Very conservative sex...

Is he going to propose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Hi. my boyfriend and I's 1 and 1/2 year anniversary weekend is next weekend. We planned to go out of town for dinner and a movie. Out of the blue he said he wants to come and spend the entire weekend at my house. A lot of the time he comes over for ...

No sex after having a baby....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - My gf and me have been in a relationship for about 7 years. we live together and have a 10 months old boy. everything is great except that we have had sex once this year. I would like to have sex 3-4 time a week, at least. not 1 time in 5 months. ...

Should I invite this old crush home when my parents are away, even though I have a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, well here is my story.I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4.5 years. We love eachother so much and I am grateful of our relationship. We go out with our friends once in a blue moon but would rather stay home, cuddle and chill ...