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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm new to the UK and trying to figure out sexual behaviour here. Any statistics/experiences/advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I was just wondering: In the United Kingdom, what is the average sexual behaviour of people? Are the majority of people ok with no strings attached sex, or do most prefer waiting for a relationship? And is it a foreign concept to wait until you ...

Hot? Or cool? What sort of relationship is this really?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Kinda long..sorry..I met this really cute guy at a night club. We danced last few songs. Got his number. A few days later I go to his place. We kiss and hug (didn't hit 3rd base), but after we talked and laughed for a few hours. I then saw him again ...

I'm trying to organise something in my community to bring people together. Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - ok so i'm trying to organize something in my community to bring people together but ideas that will interest people are prooving quite hard to find, in general people act kind of apathetic and closeminded but there is so much more to them when you ...

He doesn't know what he wants, I keep being dumped and picked up again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend have been on and off for years. After 5 years i asked him are you sure you really want me?Because lately id been feeling like im more than a nuisance in his life. He spends time going places and doing things with his mates sayin im not ...

Could it be because he can't betray his dead wife's memory?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Other people said we looked good together on the dance floor, and we have so much in common its uncanny. we are roughly the same age and just by coincidence he lives in a small town a long way away, but I have a flat that I rent out just virtually ...

How can I deal with this? My stepmom won't let me have extended visits with my mom anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Last night I was watching TV and when I had to go to bed I saw my favorite show was on, so I decided to watch it, when it was done I went upstairs to find my stepmom watching me. Because she knew I didn't go to bed, I got in trouble, and now she ...

She's a great friend, but I feel like she'll eventually drag me down along with her, please help me out here.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - This isn't a sex question or anything..but I seriously am confused. Please help me out :( I'm a bit lost as to what to do about a certain friend. You see, we're pretty close. She's one of the more genuine friends that I have, and probably the...

When I like someone, my old shyness problem awakens again. Why can't I be myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Well i thought i had dealt with this problem, and i have for the most part, but when i like someone my old shyness problem awakens again. And because of this anyone i like - i cant act normal and like myself around because of how i lock up. But this...

I felt he must have thought something of me, or am I being silly here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I cant make this guy out. I met him on holiday we didnt have sex although he was trying his best every day!!! He got angry becasue I didnt, but then when he returned back he emailed me and asked to meet up, and we did, a few days later (he doesnt ...

He was so nice to me, and then he said I'm not giving him the space he needs. I feel lost.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I have a question. I was supported by a good friend during a very painful breakup. He and I became a little more than friends as we talked multiple times a day. He decided after we talked to come out to Arizona to meet me for a four day weekend. ...

Would it be wrong to place an ad in a paper asking for someone to get me pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My husband can not get me pregnant do to a surgery that he had many years ago. My question for this community is this. Would it be wrong to place an ad in a paper asking for someone to get me pregnant?...

It was only our third date and he asked me what I wanted to name our kids. Then when I said I thought we would have cute babies together, he freaked out.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I just started seeing this really attractive man and on the 3rd date, he asked me what I would like to name my kids. I thought this was a strange question. But I played along with it because I'm really attracted to him. Since then, he has asked me ...

My boyfriend wants a tattoo with a bike and some lady on it! I feel a bit uneasy about it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'm feeling a bit indifferent about my boyfriend getting his new tattoo. He wants a tattoo with a bike and then some lady on it. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 1/2 years, not planning to seperate, anytime soon at least. I would ...

My boobs aren't growing!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - ever since i was 15 i have had 32a boobs bin a size 6 and 5'8 j havent grown in any way my boobs are so small i feel like getting a boob job because it has brang me down now for past couple of years. i try my hardest to put on weight nothing works ...

On a date, who should pick up the bill?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - What is the proper etiquette when going out on a date on who should pay? I always expect the man to pay for at least the first few dates. Then I may put some money towards dinner once in a while. Is this ok? ...

Why do I keep thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I met this young man he saw interest in me and wanted to know me more.I really liked him as well. Well we went out a few times we were really getting to know one another and growing fond of one another.He shared with me that he had friends one day ...

I think I'm in love with him, but I don't want to ruin our special friendship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - i've been friends with this guy for like a realy long time,he's sweet, sensitive, and everything good, but the problem is im in love with him but he only loves me as a sister. and i cant seem to get him off my mind, i tried to convince myself t...

Can opposites attract?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Hi helpful aunties, I just need some opinions here. Can opposites attract? I'm a pretty easy going guy and don't really have a "hectic" social life. Now, I've met a girl who is very much the polar opposite and who is a big party girl a...

I want to re-kindle things with my ex, but she isn't interested. On top of this, another ex is wanting me back and I can't say no. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 76 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - what does this mean? ok me and my ex girlfriend (2 years ago) ended badly but we went through everything together like a misscarriage , holiday . and this year i got back in contact with her shes still fit as hell. i got with a girl wh...

Why is everyone I love leaving me? My mum's so upset, it's making me worse!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hya, my name is Jodie, i was just wondering if you could help me. You see i don't know what to do, as i've just recently come out of a relationship that i wanted to be in my whole life, and i'm tryin my hardest to get over him. But now i have my mum ...

Should I stay in my relationship if I'm not really happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. We haven't been intimate yet. I know it's because he is paranoid about pregnancy. I went on birth control; the mirena, so I can't get pregnant in 5 years. I live with my mom and siblings and ...

Do men find strectch marks a turn off in women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Hi, This is one for the guys: Do you find stretch marks a turn off on a woman?...

My newly religious exhusband told our daughters that I and my new boyfriend are going to hell! How do I unring this bell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I was married to a man for about 6 years and we have two daughters together (one 8, one 6). We got divorced a couple of years ago (we weren't getting along, and the divorce was pretty messy). Now, I take care of the kids most of the time, but he has ...

My boyfriend won't live with me even though we've been together for ages!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years and in a few months we are both moving to the same city for work (we lived in the same city for 3 years, pretty much next door to one another then have been long distance this last year). Our relat...

When I talk to a girl I like I get shy and freeze up. I don't understand why.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - I have some confidnce on pretty girls cute popular i mean they like me but when im gonna try talk to the girl i like i get shy and stop talking.. i just dont get it ...

I can't figure out what this man wants from me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I recently started "seeing" a man I used have feelings for. Now I can't figure out what he wants. He says he is looking for a serious relationship, but I'm afraid he's just spending time with me until he finds what he's looking for. When we are ...

I can't be myself around older people, and I can't work out why.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - My sister julia is amazing at everything, everyone loves her, but then theres me..I dont know why, but i just can't get along with older people! I dont mean to compare myself to her but it really cant be helped. Like its not just her i compare ...

We are both young, but we want to get married, please give us your opinion on our situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - i'm 21 years old and my fiance is 20 although alot of ppl think we are still to yong to get married we've thought about it and talked about it and have come to the conclution that we just can live without eachother and we want to get married. we ...

My girlfriend dumped my. Should I give up or try to get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - So i went out with this girl for 5 months. She was great and we thought we were in love. Then she broke up with me. I still have feelings for her and she doesnt even want to know about me anymore. I cant get her out of my mind. Shold i let her go or ...

E.D. is destroying me emotionally because I just want to make love and not worry about the sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - Hi I am a male, 28. Since 7 years or so I have had a problem with erectile dysfunction. It has been creeping up and has been getting worse lately. I have had about 10 partners, all of whom I had sexual relations with. The problem is, I cannot r...

We've been together a lot, not just for sex, but our schedules prevent actual dates. Is he just using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I met this guy about 6 months ago through work. For the first few months we barely knew each other - but he would chat to me, there was a little bit of flirting and on more than a few occasions I caught him looking at me. A few months later we ...

Why do I have vivid dreams of cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I love my boyrfriend so much and have been with him for over a year. Recently however I've started having reocurring dreams in which I cheat on him. In all the dreams I've never been the one to initiate it, it's always been some other guy (one w...

How can I get my new guy to tell me if he plans a future with me or if I'm just a fling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Seven months ago I ended a four year relationship. I am not usually the girl to dwel on things, and about a month later I had a fling with his friend. It has been five months and the new guy and I are still together. Our relationship is fine, even ...

Everything is happening at once and I'm stressed and confused. How do I prioritise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - ok i need help! im in yr 12 and doing my last 10 weeks of schooling before my final exams. i am completely stressed out already because in this final year everything happens!!..the ball, u go out more and experience more, u get ur licence, u get a...

Is it wrong to have a physical relationship with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I have a guy-friend. We used to be close but dated briefly and are just now renewing our friendship. Last time I spent time with him, we were joking around and ended up making out. Today, when I saw him again, he kissed me good-bye. I still have ...

I'm 14, catholic, & want to have a baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - well i'm 14 and reallllly want to have a baby. i want to be married and, 5 months pregnant right now. i have babysat a lil a baby before but so i know its not a walk in the park. and i know they refuse to sleep and cry and stuff and im catholic so ...

How do I take the chance to be with my dream man at last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - A couple of years ago I met the man of my dreams. Things didn't pan out for us last year as there were a lot of personal things I needed to take care of that were stunting the growth of our relationship, not to mention long distance. After "re...

Should I get with him regardless of his flirty ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I like this guy and i can tell he like me to but hes a big flirt...but i like him alot...but i scared that if i get with him he might hurt me ...because when he had his exgirlfriend he kissed me multiple times...how do i know he won't do the same ...

He doesn't quite treat me as this new fella does, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 77 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - so i met this guy...he is amazing.he treats me like a princess...and i am seriously falling for him.but there is a problem:i am currently in a relationship.and have been for three years now.my boyfriend is great.good christian guy,understands ...

I can't break it off with this MM myself should I call his wife instead to break the tie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I have been seeing a married coworker since March of 2008. We've been together just about every day since. He is so unhappy at home but he won't leave his wife. He is 52 and I'm 26. I'm considering calling his wife so that all ties will be broken ...

How can I make more friends and have a fun social life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Hi, I know I might sound immature saying this, but I'm just frustrated and I wanted to see if anyone had any suggestions. My regular friends never seem to have time for me anymore and I really wnat to amke new ones(not to replace the old ones, but ...

It's 7 weeks 'til our wedding day, the nearer it gets ~ the more we're arguing. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Its 7 weeks to our wedding day, the nearer it gets the more we are arguing, I have never been married before, never lived with anyone and I have brought up two daughters on my own, always worked. My daughters are mothers, but with their partners but ...

What could anyone recommend for a man who is miserable in marriage and staying in it for the kids sake?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - What could anyone recommend for a man who is miserable in marriage and staying in it for the kids sake? I have been with my wife for 7 years (married 6) and for the last year or two I have been insanely unhappy. I'm in no way perfect, so I won'...

I keep thinking to myself: SHES MY FRIEND! I don't want to think about her in black lingerie!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - Sigh... I'm 22, not a daft wee boy. Sure as hell feel like one. I have a female friend, and sadly I've developed feelings for her, I now have a crush on her :( I thought that perhaps it was just the fact that it a progression due to the emotional...

I am very concerned about the size and shape of my breasts, I am 15, will my breasts grow more, and will the shape change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - this is quite a strange question but im concerned about my breasts. im 15. There small but they dont have the 'breast' look. There just like a triangle off my chest. They dont have the 'drop'. not a 'U' shape. more like a V but sideways. Will they ...

Are there any tips for using vibrators?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 77 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I know this sounds a little, um, weird to say, but, I cannot orgasm when I use my vibrator. I start getting pleasure, but then it fades away, and I can barely feel anything. On top of that I find it quite painful when I insert it--I can never find...

I don't like being touched... is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I've noticed for a while now that I feel very uncomfortable when touched by anyone who is not in my immediate family. Whenever I make physical contact with a friend or anyone else, I get an unpleasant shiver and have to fight the instinct to pull ...

I can't tell my parents I'm pregnant, what am I going to do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years had sex and i think i might be pregnant, and seeing as i come from a Catholic family i cannot tell my parents. What should i do? Love SOS...

What happended? Is he angry? I don't understand!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - this boy who i used to fancy, and he knew it, has stopped talking to me on msn. 2 days ago we were talking and it somehow turned to talk about drugs or something, then about who we both fancy (he knows who i fancie but i dont know who he fancies)...

I want to marry this man. He is phenominal. But I'm not sure he'll ever ask.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have been dating my guy for over a year and a half. We've both been married before. Currently no kids. We're both established. And own our own homes. For the entire length of our relationship I've lived about 100 miles away from him and I b...