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Archived questions from: August, 2019 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I think my boyfriend might be married. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1686 days ago

31 August 2019 (F) - I think my new boyfriend might be married and I have no idea how to bring up the subject. We've been together for almost three months and while things have been good, some of his behaviour has always been a bit off. Nothing I can put my finger on, ...

Never thought there's something I wouldn't want us to talk about but his talk of a dramatic event unsettled me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1698 days ago

29 August 2019 (F) - My husband and I have been together for almost 20 years and we love spending time together and talking about all kinds of stuff, there are no taboos. I have noticed that some friends of mine are so terrified by issues related to global warming. ...

Wife lied, she wasn't a virgin. What do you think? What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1685 days ago

28 August 2019 (M) - Ever since my wife and i met she has always been a very conservative virgin girl, her choice and she was very string that it was important to her. I knew she had a BF before me but she insisted she was a virgin and it was very important to her. This ...

Do I gain weight to please him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1657 days ago

28 August 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We have a child together. When I was pregnant he told me that I better get the weight off after delivery. He said “fat girls don’t get love”. So I did it. I lost all the baby weight within 11 ...

I feel so overwhelmed but I don't want to run away

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1699 days ago

27 August 2019 (F) - I feel overwhelmed and I don't know how to juggle everything and give it my best shot. Basically, in just under 2 weeks, I'm having my first driving test. I passed my theory on the third try. If I don't pass this practical test, I have to renew my...

How can I be organised but not frustrated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1701 days ago

27 August 2019 (F) - i am a very organised person and sometimes I am too organised to the point I get a bit annoyed at myself if I don't do some of things I planned on doing. Ive recently finished university , dont always have a lot of things to do, so as a result of ...

Why doesn't anyone care?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1702 days ago

27 August 2019 (M) - Is it me or everyone else? I can’t take it anymore, nobody cares at all. I feel let down by my friends. I am 100% sure nobody cares. I am not being negative, I am not in some bad time in life. But every event that happens it causes me stress when I ...

Is feeling desired by your partner a valid need?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1698 days ago

26 August 2019 (F) - Is feeling desired by ones partner not a valid needs . I posted a question here about whether it was reasonable to expect to feel desired by my partner . I mentioned my age ( 50) and that he seemed to have an interest In porn with much younger women ...

Should I pursue a formal, legal route over what happened to me when I was younger?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1695 days ago

26 August 2019 (F) - I need help please, about something that has confused me for 36 years and which I am only now able to speak about. When I was 15 I agreed to have sex with an 18 year old male. This has, one way or another, plagued me all my life. I am now...

I get the attention but come off as disinterested

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1701 days ago

25 August 2019 (M) - Hi everyone, I have problems finding a girlfriend. I know what the cause is, I just don't know how to fix it. I have a hard time communicating with others. I find it difficult to pick up social cues. It's not that I'm shy, I just don't have the p...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to understand that I want more from the LDR

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1704 days ago

23 August 2019 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend since two years. It is mostly a long distance thing. Previously, like every relationship it used to be very romantic, but now it seems the spark is gone. He is no longer romantic, he no longer ...

Am I being an overprotective cat mom or is it cruel to leave my little kitten at home alone when I go to work?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1704 days ago

22 August 2019 (F) - Hey i just bought the most divine cutest himalayan kitten, he is 2 months old and has been taken away from his mummy and daddy, and his other 2 brothers in the litter my friend and her husband took the 2 brothers! I absolutely ADORE him he is the ...

I want to volunteer but worry abut my dad's opinion and don't know how to research

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1707 days ago

21 August 2019 (F) - i want to do some volunteering overseas next year and i know i definitely want to do this but some obstacles that i feel will get in the way is my dads opinions and thoughts on where i should go , how long for and doing what , he doesn't mean to ...

30 years old without a degree and a career. I feel like such a failure

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1707 days ago

20 August 2019 (F) - I am feeling so depressed. As a child growing up, I always wanted to be a doctor. When selecting my courses my parents told me I should do business management instead. I started pursing business management but had no passion for it. I was accepted ...

Would a man be put off by a woman in her 30s if she isn't that worldly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1710 days ago

19 August 2019 (F) - I had a general question about men and their opinion on women they date and the amount of life Experience they have or expect them to have ? I am in my 30’s have been abroad a couple of times but by no means much, I have had a small handful of...

Does my partner have the right to know about the details of my therapy sessions?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

18 August 2019 (F) - Hi. I won't bore you with too many details. Just want to know if you think it is appropriate for your spouse/partner to ask you about the details of your therapy sessions? I was diagnosed with anxiety and PTSD. I have begun counselling rece...

Wife is angry that I hugged a co-worker

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1711 days ago

18 August 2019 (M) - My wife is angry I hugged a female former co-worker/friend that I have known for 10 years. When we seen this old co worker I have not seen her in 2 years and she is over 20 years older than me. She has met my kids. When my mother passed she sent ...

Given our connections am I naive to believe that this couldn't blow up in my face?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1711 days ago

17 August 2019 (F) - So I'm at a loss as to if I'm making the right judgement. To be very brief, I'm currently hooking up with a friend of mine I've known for almost 20 years. I crushed on him hard as a preteen and we got close to hooking up years ago but when sober he ...

Do most men see short women as less attractive than tall women .

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1711 days ago

16 August 2019 (F) - Do most men see short women as less attractive than tall women . I often see descriptions of ‘hot ‘ or attractive women include the word tall and cute or sweet women as shorter . Obviously individuals have individual preferences but in GENERAL is ...

How to approach her obsession with her looks

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1713 days ago

15 August 2019 (M) - Wife bought waist trainer corset. When I first saw it on her, she looked super sexy; tiny waist with huge boobs (DD; what a dream. I made the mistake of telling her how hot she was and as a result, she started wearing it all the time. Over time, she ...

I feel like I’m grieving someone who is still alive. How do I let go and cope with losing someone to addiction & mental health issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1716 days ago

13 August 2019 (F) - My ex-fiancé was the man of my dreams. He proposed this year after dating for three years. A few months later, his personality suddenly changed. He became disrespectful and manipulative. He then admitted to having severe depression and anxiety ...

Want advice on dealing with loneliness, pursuing goals and courage to talk to the people I want to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1703 days ago

13 August 2019 (F) - ive just finished my degree and have no academic plans for the next term as I have never known what to do job wise and I still don't which is why I haven't decided to pursue anymore courses. as a result of finishing my degree I basically have n...

Is what is happening to me financial abuse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1713 days ago

13 August 2019 (F) - Would you call this financial abuse? I go to work and support my husband who has little respect for me anyway. He also pressures me to sometimes support his parents as he so desperately wants to please them, even though they are just using him and ...

Does it sound like I disrespected him or is he overreacting a little bit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1717 days ago

12 August 2019 (F) - So my husband and I live here in England, but his family still live in Ireland so he goes over there a few times a year. Sometimes I go with him depending on if I can get time off work or not. He’s planning to go over in November but I won’t be ...

I'm worried I'll never find love...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1717 days ago

11 August 2019 (F) - Lately I've been feeling lonely relationship wise. I'm 27 never had a boyfriend or any sort of relationship. I have many friends but I just dont get attention like that. I'm not the most feminine girl and things like that. My friends think I'm ...

Taking care of stray dogs is taking a toll on me emotionally..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1717 days ago

10 August 2019 (F) - Hi. This isn’t a dating question but I was hoping to get some advice here . I have rescued a lot of animals in my life and it’s not easy to get help/vets in this part of the world, especially for poor stray animals. I won’t even talk about the anim...

Why do men bring their attention to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1718 days ago

8 August 2019 (F) - Hello, I’m having issues with men who are total strangers. I am a petite Asian woman in my 20s but I look young. I am often mistaken for 19 or younger. Men approach me regardless. I try not to assume anything and go about my day. I am not a very ...

Even divorcees with kids have it better than me when it comes to dating and marriage! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1724 days ago

2 August 2019 (F) - This is more like a frustration rant. My last relationship ended years ago. Since then, I have been going on dates, dating events etc but have not found anyone suitable. A year back, I have also signed with matchmaking agencies where I spent over ...