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Archived questions from: April, 2022 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Should I forgive my parents for the trauma they've caused me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 727 days ago

28 April 2022 (F) - For the last couple of months, my relationship with my parents has been awful. Let me start with the fact that I was raised in a very chaotic and abusive house, however, things have been more calm for the last couple of years but still, my mom does ...

My wife has an unusual business proposal

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 724 days ago

28 April 2022 (F) - Hello. I've been married to my wife for 8 years now; I'm 39, she's 38. We have an open marriage. No, not that kind of open marriage where it's open to other partners. The only open marriage here is one where both of us are open and honest abo...

Am I being hypocritical about seeing married men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 726 days ago

27 April 2022 (F) - This is a question about the past... I'm just trying to understand if we're "born smart" or do we live and learn... I know I have learnt from my mistake. And if it is ok to forgive oneself at some point… When I was 19 years old I fell in love wit...

My boyfriend does nothing but watch loud women on tv

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 731 days ago

24 April 2022 (F) - Hi there, I would like to know what others think about my problem. Firstly I would like to make it clear that in no way am I a jealous person but I do have my own morals and standards. I have been with my partner for about 10 months. In th...

Fiance wants support but I am not sure how to help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 733 days ago

24 April 2022 (F) - Hi there. This question isn't about me but my fiancee. She was made redundant from the firm she worked for (in tech, a mom-and-pop firm with around 4,600 employees across three sites, ) in April 2013, which she'd worked there since January 20...

Should I give up my singing career?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 733 days ago

21 April 2022 (F) - Hello all, its 3am and i cant sleep. I need really an advice. So here is the story. I am singer, more than 1/2 years of my life, this is already my proffesion and music is my life. Im now in my 50s and still active in music. Since 2020- 2...

My son's friend's mum left the kids alone at night

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 736 days ago

19 April 2022 (F) - My 12 yrs old son went to stay over with his mate, I assumed the mum of said child would stay in but my son told me she went to her mates for drinks and left them till 2am alone in the house to do what they liked , my son has never been left alo...

My husband's ex travelled 90 miles to see him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 737 days ago

19 April 2022 (F) - Hello guys. Not sure how to deal with this problem involving my husband and his ex. On Friday afternoon, his ex had come to our house, I didn't recognize the woman asking for him, she said she hadn't seen him since 1995, and wanted to talk to hi...

Needle play?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 741 days ago

15 April 2022 (F) - My new boyfriend has introduced needle play and I'm wondering if anyone else has tried this. I am into new kinky things and actually enjoy needle play. He has done patterns on my belly, back, and my buttocks. It really is not that painful. He uses ...

Should I have a breast reduction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

15 April 2022 (F) - Should I have a breast reduction? I feel really awkward about this, I am 38G (uk size) in bra size and it's depressing, they are so heavy and yes they retain the shape and they aren't the worst and I understand that some women would love to ha...

Can a prostitute have romantic feelings towards a client?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 741 days ago

14 April 2022 (M) - I am single and live not far away from the red-light district. To get to my appartement, you have to walk a while through this area. In any case, this is the shortest way. Since I come back late almost every evening, it is inevitable that I pass som...

I want to tackle my social anxiety

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 744 days ago

12 April 2022 (F) - Hi guys, Just wondering if anyone could give some advice on an issue that I have been dealing with for sometime. Basically, I am quite an anxious person and find meeting and speaking to new people face to face pretty awkward. I have been dati...

Is my reaction to an awkward moment considered 'harrassment'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 730 days ago

12 April 2022 (M) - Hi there. I cannot believe I am writing this but here goes. It is sort of a weird role reversal sexual harassment reality check. I am not trying to get anyone in trouble. I think I might be part of the problem, but now I am sort of the focus in ...

Did the pandemic kill it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 743 days ago

12 April 2022 (F) - I am a British woman. In June 2019 I met a man during a very short trip to Hungary, a place I really love and was, at the time, thinking about moving to. I was interested in talking to the locals and the man (let's call him Janos, although ...

My MIL is an alcoholic

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 745 days ago

12 April 2022 (F) - TLDR; My MIL (f, 60s) is an alcoholic who drives drunk. Her family has not taken her keys. I think this is insane. My husband is struggling with this all from hundreds of miles away and does not agree with my forcefulness on the seriousness of this. ...

Is it time to let her go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 745 days ago

11 April 2022 (M) - I guess I should start by saying "Hi and thanks for taking the time to listen to my personal issues" There's this woman, we'll call her Mary. Mary and I have been off and on since we were both in our early twenties. We're now around our mid t...

My parents refuse to accept me as their son

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 746 days ago

8 April 2022 (F) - Hello there! I'm 24 and transgender female-to-male (ftm). I've been questioning my gender since I was 16 (didn't know being trans was an option until then), and came out to them as trans, and therefore their son rather than their daughter, when I...

My girlfriend recently came out as non-binary

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 748 days ago

8 April 2022 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for around two years now and we plan on staying together for the long run. Quite recently she (whom from this point on I will use gender neutral pronouns with) has come out as non-binary. They don't identify as a ...

She cancelled our first date because of who I follow on Instagram

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 744 days ago

8 April 2022 (M) - I'm 34 and she's 24. We matched on Tinder, eventually transitioned into Instagram, then started texting,and she let me know she prefers talking on the phone. I gave her a call, we talked for nearly 2 hours, finally set up our first date and I was ...

My boyfriend contacted his ex during a trip

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

8 April 2022 (F) - Hi DC Aunts and Uncles. I have come here for some advice. Maybe I myself already know the answer but I want to get some input from you. So my boyfriend of 2 mths went on a trip with his friends and just returned home. During his trip away he was...

Might she still have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

7 April 2022 (F) - Me and my ex still talk. We still have feelings. She still has a reaction if she thinks I’m dating so I guess there’s a possibility we could get together. Only thing I found odd was, we were talking about babies and how she doesn’t want them yet and ...

My girlfriend's brother is a problem

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 743 days ago

4 April 2022 (M) - I have been seeing my partner for almost 2 years, and our conversation is now turning to moving in together. We both have our own houses and the plan is that I will move in hers and rent mine out. Decision based in part on her work commute, I work ...

I think my mom likes my sister better

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

3 April 2022 (F) - I think my mom likes my sister more than me you may be asking why? How do you know that? Well, I have some observations that will tell you how I think that my mom like my sister better. First of all, whenever me and my sister get into some kind o...

I want out of this marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

3 April 2022 (F) - I'm trapped and don't know what to do. I want out of my marriage but don't know how I can do it, my partner is a good bit older than I am 17 years my senior, and goes from being over attentive and loving to cold and completely degrades me usua...

How can we get help while in China?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

3 April 2022 (F) - We're an American expat couple who've been in China since 2018 when my husband got a promotion and we moved there for his new job. No kids, just us two. I'm a "trailing spouse" and legally can't work. Well, I could work under the table but we'd b...

Is my husband having a mid life crisis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

2 April 2022 (F) - I’m think my husband could be having some sort of midlife crisis. He’s 45 and during our state's lockdown had become obsessed by fitness, and lifts weights and runs every day. At first, I thought it was a good thing, but now he’s become critical ...

Fancy me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

1 April 2022 (F) - I really need help -I need to know whether this guy fancy me or he is checking something else: Scenario 1: He'd be checking me - noticing little things that I wear... but may be it is his job as he is the big boss... Scenario 2: Since I've kn...