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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Fiancée's attitude makes me sick but how can I leave?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

30 November 2015 (M) - A few weeks ago me and my fiancée of 2 years went to her parents house for her mom's birthday. It was there, her mother told the family she was sick. This is the wonderful woman who put my fiancée through school twice!, bought her a car when she ...

Feelings for my cousin driving me crazy. What's the answer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

30 November 2015 (M) - Help. I have started having incestuous feelings towards my cousin I can't help it but she is causing it unintentionally, how do I tell her without making it awkward for both of us? My cousin is very close to me she is the only child and we work in ...

Is it appropriate to send my ex work colleague Christmas card?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

30 November 2015 (F) - I guess this is kind of a silly question but I would like some advice please. I would like to know if it is appropriate to send my ex work colleague Christmas card? Basically at the start of the year, for about 5 monts I worked in a job that I...

I'm angry that my partner returned the iPhone he found to its owner

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - What would you do if you found a I phone? My partner found one by his car and it belonged to a woman because it had a case with flowers on to protect it and a photo of her and her fella. My partner said to see if she rang for her phone and if...

My husband is not the most attractive man but I fear I'm not good enough for him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Beem with my husband 23 years married 19. I have no confidence in myself and hate the way i look but try to make the most of myself. I have blonde hair that sits on my shoulders and im thinking of getting it cut shorter as i feel like a new ...

I can tell he's trying to change but I don't think it's enough anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I apologise in advance for this being a long question, but as I need answers/advice from people outside of the situation, I have to fully explain everything. So, basically, I'm 19 years old, and was dating a boy, lets name him Jordan, for over...

Is it normal to be this fearful of something bad happening to my baby son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I have just had the most beautiful baby boy who I am just besotted with. I am so blessed. But I am terrified of something awful happening him. Everytime I am enjoying him, I am consumed by this fear. I don't sleep, I stay awake just to make sure he ...

Keeping secrets is eating me up so why do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Sorry in advance about the long post - i need an outsiders perspective. I have been in an on-off relationship with my ex boyfriend for the past two years. We were together solidly for two years and now we have been on and off for the past couple ...

Why do women become so much more interesting when you are committed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

29 November 2015 (M) - Hello cupid I'm recently committed after a long time and I have been very comfortable and happy with my girlfriend. Before meeting my girlfriend, many girls showed interest but I was adamant to stay single till I find the person I can be fully mys...

He is getting annoyed at me, and more frequently. What can I say or do to address this issue with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm a 20 year old student and have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. We get along really well, and share a lot of the same interests, so it's never hard to find something to do together. I'm very very much in love with him, j...

We have a big decision ahead of us and he's not willing to discuss it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I'm in medical school and my boyfriend and I (I'm 25, he's 24, dating for 2+ years) have a process we are going through next year called "the match". We each basically have to match to a city and specialty and it involves this complicated algorithm. ...

How do I keep my college-age daughter from falling away from our church and family?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - I am a proud mother of six children from the ages of 27-10. I am a stay-at-home mom and part-time Sunday School teacher and I volunteer for many church activities as do all members of our family. All of our children attended or attend our small ...

Pay back my friend and have job security? Or go for my dream career?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - Dear friends, I need some advice on what to do. When I graduated, the career I had wanted was out of reach because there were no job openings. I was barely able to keep myself afloat participating as a subject in medical experiments and ...

He admitted that he only knows two girls who are 'hotter' than I am and they'll be at an upcoming party

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, When my boyfriend and I first started dating we were going to a party and I said as a joke "there are probably going to be really hot girls there" because he is very involved in sports so a lot of the girls that are in his friend g...

My employer isn't providing me with the additional training to meet qualififcation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - I have been working in my job for 2 and a half years, when I took on the job I was given a temporary contract, I was looking to develop my life into a career after a series of 'jobs' and I worked hard to move forward, I was taken on as a permenant ...

Men, can you be turned off a woman and lose attraction, based on one thing she said ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3062 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hello! There's a man that i serve every day at work, I really like him, and he seems to like me too- we just smile and sort of gaze at each other, even when we're not saying anything, and he does seem shy and quite nervous but tries to initiat...

What to do? My boyfriend will not stop talking about the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - My bf and I are moving in soon, but their is one big issue between us. During our time we've dated until now recently, he was the one who drove all the time to pick and drop me up at my home. I don't have my own car. I rely on my mother to allow me...

I do want you, I don't want you - is it my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - I feel at cross roads in my relationship. I have been seeing and older woman for two years. We had a rocky start due to her constant lies over her spending time with her ex which resulted in lack of trust on my behalf still even now. I have always ...

Feeling insecure about the future of me and my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Hi, its usually me giving the advice, but now I need some. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, we did get in to a relationship rather quick, but I don't regret any of it. He really does make me feel special and does take care of me. but ...

Tips/Advice on moving in with your significant other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Any tips you guys can give me about moving in with your significant other? I am going to be moving relatively soon with my bf, and I never have done that before. He has in the past when he was younger. He is 26 and I'm 22. But he told me it wa...

He said he's, "marrying me because I want it and he doesn't".Is marriage still a good idea, in the circumstances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Im 28 years old and yave been with my boyfriend for 13 years. We have a 10 year old and a 6 year old. We are best friends and cant be away from each other for more than a few hours a day. We are in love. He never proposed but gave me a ring on my 2...

I seek true love and a lasting romantic loving relationship. Are my goals possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - So, one thing has been driving me crazy lately. I am 21 years old and I have yet to find the girls around me as individuals that I want to date. It seems that the dating experience has changed drastically since the last 20 years. I watch and listen ...

How can I get past the fact that I'm not tall, improve my confidence and successfully date women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - Ashamed to be a short man. I don't feel like I have the same potential as a taller man. Anything positive that I do would be much better if done by a taller man. I am also the shortest guy in my family and every time I meet a relative, family friend ...

How do we start over again in order to have a more harmonius relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid Me and my bf have been together for almost a year ..recently we have been fighting a lot and most of the time it's because of me..otherwise we just happen to get into some misunderstandings. I love him a lot and after several failed...

Why do I delay leaving him? How do I gather the courage to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 5 years constantly belittles me, insults me, talks about how other girls look good and how I look v bad in front of them and how old I look, how I don't deserve him... But still comes to me for money, it's been months since w...

My new boyfriend lives in a tip

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I went round to my new boyfriend's house. I was very shocked. The place is an absolute tip. The kitchen is stacked high with dirty dishes and the washing in piles, garden unkempt and bike parts everywhere. When he came over for dinner he brought a ...

My father dying and best friend moving away has me questioning what I should be doing for my future! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Hi there, I am in a bit of turmoil right now. I am 35 and live with a lovely guy, however we have no passion it has died, we have been together 3 years and I do love him but I can't help but think what else is out there. My father who I...

I have recently come out as bisexual. Any advice on dealing with homophobic family members with ingrained prejudices, some micro aggression and some homophobic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - I have recently come out to myself and close friends as Bisexual but I haven't to my family. They are not outwardly homophobic but are generally full of micro-agressions and ingrained prejudices. My grandparents are super homophobic and w...

Did I ruin the friendship? I'm in love with my male best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3071 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - To cut a long story short, I'm in love with my male best friend. We've known each other 8 years and were close.. I came onto him a few weeks ago and we ended up having sex and now all these feelings have suddenly come from nowhere. We used to tex...

New baby, but he will not lift a finger to help in any way. What can I do?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I have been with my boyfriend 3 years we had a bavy girl 10 months ago I have now realised how lazy my boyfriend is he does nothing to help me with our daughter even after a emergency c section I have done everything I clean the ho...

Why is he choosing to treat me with less fairness than he shows to the rest of the staff?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I started working at a car dealership, in their admin team 14 months ago. From day 1 the sales manager took an instant dislike to me and I don't know why.... If I would ever say "morning" to him he'd r...

My ex: ''if only he had not signed up'' Why have his words hurt me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3072 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - Ikay so my ex and i dated when we were 15 up until the day before i turned 18. We broke up because he wanted to have his freedoms, live his life, yada yada. Well its been over a year since he and i broke up. And lately hes on my mind all the time. I ...

I want out, but how and when should I end it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - I am a woman in my mid twenties. I have been with a guy for about 3 years. We are engaged. We moved in together way way too fast. Once I moved in I eventually found out that he had a drinking problem. He would black out and yell/throw thing...

Do I marry my ex, when I hardly know him? What are my options in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I need your advice, I was dating T from Italy while I am staying in South Africa for 4 years, in that 4 years we saw eachother a couple of times when he came to see me in SA, like not more than 5 times in that 4 years, so we hardly spent ...

She keeps asking to borrow money. Now I just want to distance myself from her. What can you suggest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - I'm not sure how to get out of this situation and need some advice please. About 3 -4 months ago a work colleague asked me if she could borrow £20 as another colleague in the office had a birthday and had invited us all out to dinner but my co...

How do I go forward and make something of my life, feel wanted, and get a birth certificate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - Well, I just need to know what to do with my current situation. For starters I'm 18 years old and want to go back to school. But have important reasons why I can't to back for one I have no of,birth certificate. Anything do it's like I don't exis...

Worried I'll lose him. Why did he wait to tell me about her pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - am 21years old i met this guy when i was still at primary school due to our relationship my mother got the romours about our relationship and my mum vacant to another area far from where we were living , IT WAS SO DIFFICULT TO COMMUNICATE WITH HIM ...

What can I do? Feeling unhappy with my body after pregnancies.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - I have a wonderful husband and 2 wonderful children. I had back to back pregnancies. I've always been a positive happy person but since the birth of my second son, I've been feeling pretty depressed about my body. I got very very bad stret...

Has he lied to me again about what he really said to this girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - I posted here last week about my boyfriend allowing this girl to pick off off his plate, take the cherry from his drink etc. Both myself and boyfriend's sister in law spoke to him telling him it's wrong, that he shouldn't have allowed it. He said ...

What needs to happen to effect some improvement in our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

16 November 2015 (M) - Dear cupid, It's been 3 years since we married, and we are together for about 6 years. I confess I wasn't very thrilled when she pressured me to get married. I guess I don't see the point in one getting married when a stable and healthy relat...

I feel unwanted ....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5.5 years, and he is embarrased by me. Whenever he has an office party, I am not invited or he makes excuses about not wanting to go after he has invited me. Its hurtful, and it keeps happening. Cam any man tell...

Should I be bothered? Does he want a girlfriend or a house-cleaner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. We are both in our 30's, never married before and have no children. We live about 40 mins apart. Here is what bothers me. His house is quite dirty from having 2 large dogs(160LBS) inside that ...

Why does my ex want to be friends with me and still want me in his life? He treated me very badly.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

15 November 2015 (F) - My ex use to manipulate me a lot! I felt used, was treated badly and finally walked away after a terrible breakdown from the relationship. My ex tried to reach out to me many times and I ignored him. we didn't talk for 3 years. But we made up t...

Am I doing the right thing by putting my career before this man that I love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

15 November 2015 (F) - Is it real or is it craziness? I have dated this man off and on for many years. The first few years, we only went out a couple of times, and I didn't think he was really interested in me. But he kept in touch with me. He always told me that he ...

Should I quit school and get a second job?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

14 November 2015 (F) - I am in a bit of a dilemma. I work full time and take college classes full time. My days are 'split' my classes are in the early morning - to early afternoon time, and I work a 2-10PM shift at my job. The problem is I need more money. I ...

How can I persuade my brothers to accept the fact that I may never find a partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

14 November 2015 (M) - Problem is people seem to think i should of settled down got married and produced maybe 1 or 2 children in the process. Honestly that is just not how i feel. I have brothers and they have children and to me that is my family. I do not think get...

I am concerned that my boss now hates me. How can I find the verifiable reason for all these errors?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3079 days ago

14 November 2015 (F) - Hey guys I posted on here last week about 13 weeks into a new job etc and bringing in sweets etc Well I was on a course last week and came back to a nightmare at work. Some of my work has been coming back with errors. I know it's a lot to do...

I don't want to play games, but should I back off? Am I being too intense?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

14 November 2015 (M) - Would like to ask the women a question. Met a woman a couple months ago, were in our late fifty's, been going out once a week, for a month or so. I really like her, like in falling for her, but should I stay the way I am? I treat her really good,...

Should I break away from my parents and my comfort zone to move in with nice people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

13 November 2015 (F) - Hi all, thanks for reading, sorry if this turns into a long post! I just turned 25 and im in my first year of uni. It turns out its not what i expected and its really awful so im looking to change degrees but thats a different matter. Right no...

Is it normal to fall out of love and then fall back in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

13 November 2015 (F) - Is it normal to fall out of love then back in? I've been with a guy for three years and it is almost our fourth year together. Our relationship started out bad because my family didn't like him. I fought to be with him though. Now, I spent time with ...