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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How can I get noticed more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - ok here goes im 14 now and so far my best friend has gotten soooo much attention off the boys in our year its unbeleivable but some times i feel left out because none of them even notice me, its not like i dont get attention at because on my way ...

HELP!! I'm headed for a breakdown!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - right, here goes... i don't know what to do with myself. in theory my life is good, i'm at college, got a decent relationship with my mum, got an absolutely amazing guy who would do anything for me and has asked me to marry him. but undernea...

Thoughts on rebounding...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I have a general question about this rebounding phenomenon. I've never done it myself, as I give myself time to heal. I may get physical with someone, but I'd never dive into a new relationship, because it doesn't feel right to me if my heart ...

How do I get "free" again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hello, I have a problem, I used to be an exellent student I didn't repeat any class and everybody was respecting me and I was always the hard working girl, but in the beginning of my adolescence something changed inside of me, my parents and my ...

I don't know what's wrong with me. I only like guys with blond hair.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - ok here goes, for some reason i think i like guys if they have blonde hair i know that sounds really picky and i think thats y i didnt go out with a boy hu was just like me (personality wise) i mean the guy im in love with the heaven an bak and have ...

Where are the best places to meet guys who want a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi... I have been on this site for a couple months i think, used it before and have given advice. I just want to ask where are the best places to meet guys who want a relationship? I'm 28, with an Asian background and rarely meet guys, and dont ...

14 and want a baby...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Im 14 and i really want a baby. i know this sounds stupid at my age but its all i think about. i havent had a good education at school so far but i think if i have a baby it will be great. just somebody to love to be there for to give it a cuddle ...

I love him so much but I want to hate him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I love him so much but I want to hate him. What shall i do to oppose my emotions towards him?! please help!...

If he remembers lots of small things over the last 3 years we have been together does this mean he really cares for me?

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30 November 2009 (F) - my bf tends to remember many small things or events for the past 3 year we've known each other. we've been together for almost more than year. Does this show he really cares for me? or loves me truly?...

I think this man has stolen personal information from me, can he do any harm with that sort of info?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Hi there, I have just had to go to a local newsagents and ask if they could print some stuff out of me. It was about 30 pages of documents including job applications, email details and cv details. It was obviusly something the guy doesn't usually ...

I'm a bit ashamed that I cant afford to buy her expensive gifts, should I tell her I don't have much money?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Hi,i'm 22 and my girlfriend is 21 well we are dating together already 5 months, i'm 2 year university but shes already 4 year and working. We really like and even love each other. Recently she wrote me several letters that she's completly in love ...

Emotional and physical love... the differences?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - For a man, to live a life without ejeculating is hard, I am in a relationship with a celibate woman who finds it no problem, that is the difference, men need to express physically their love, women are quite happy having no physical relationship... ...

Should I marry my student or just be his mother figure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I am a 32 year old who's divorced recently. I teach. One boy who's 22 yrs old came to me as a student and in due course i started treating him like my son and he calls me mom. suddenly we ended up having physical relationship. now i am in fix as to ...

I feel like I have nothing in my life compared to my friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I am approaching 29 and feel like I have nothing in my life. My freinds are all off getting married, having kids, buying houses, in great jobs etc. I live in a shared house with a 25 year old and I work in dire job for 22,000 a yea...

Should I tell my sister in law that I'm in love with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I'm in love with my sister in law. My wife's sister. I think about her all the time. I'm just concerned about taking it too far. I am married with a boy and a girl. She is married with 3 girls. We are both in our late 30's but she is a couple of ...

Is not being able to get over a crush normal? How do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - i reallllllly like a guy that is a known flirt. i dont want to be in a relationship with him cuz he is a known cheater. but at nights i still dream about him and i still check his acebook statuses and stuff. is this healthy will this help me get ...

I am fourteen and afraid that I'm pregnant. Who do I talk to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Okay so Im 14 and Very Very Veryyyyyyyyy scared! I think i might be pregnant... Ummm....Ive missed my first period but theres no way for me to be able to get a preg. test. Im soooo Scared. I cant tell anyone because None of my friends would neve...

What kind of female personality tends to suit shy guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - What kind of female personality tends to suit shy guys? How much outgoingness? How much confidence? More of a child, an equal, or a mother? I don't think an equally shy partner works. They tend not to talk much. Neither of them draws the othe...

How do I make his last name mine legally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My mom and me havent gotten along since my dad left, and that was in the 6th grade. Im 25 now.Shes done so many wrong things to me to where today i have disowned her, i cant forgive her and move on . I have talked to my fiance about my plans to ...

Is casual sex a bad thing? Will I regret it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I'm 19 and to be honest...really horny. I masturbate probably too much (it may not hurt you but there is a point when its addiction for some people). I've always really wanted to have sex. I'm a virgin. I've tried going out with girls with no ...

Why did he break off the proposal? What can I do?

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30 November 2009 (F) - I had a boyfriend for about a year and a half. I loved him, and he said he loved me. One day he poposed. I said yes, and everything was just great. Then, about three hours ago, he called, said he didn't want to get married, didn't want to date me at ...

Is he being too shallow? Or does he love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi i have been going out with my bf since 9months, though i wwent to a different country 6 months after the relationship started and now, i am going to see my bf in a week and he said he won't be able to keep his hands off me. he is a great gu...

How can we work through our financial issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I'm a married man, in his mid-40s who is having a bit of trouble over my wife's bankruptcy. I myself have gone though it as well, but for some reason, I find myself getting angry about hers. It's a bit more complicated than mine, in that it ...

How can this be rape when I'm of legal age? His grandmother says she's going to call the cops!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17. I keep getting caught having sex with my boyfriend by his grandparents. He's 19. Yes he lives with his gparents they need help around the house. His grandmother said tht if we have sex then thts rape. How can this be rape when I'm at a legal ...

Is it possible that my husband is gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I have been married for a year. My husband hasn't slept with me most of that time. We have sex then he gets out of bed and sleeps on the coach. He never comes to bed till it's almost time for me to get up. This just isn't a normal marriage. A ...

I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Im 13 and i like this guy but he dosnt know i like him how do i text him and like tell him that i really like him without him freaking out.. ...

Do I tell her how I how I feel, and how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for 2 and a bit months, and already I see it taking a nose dive towards another failed relationship. Well, she wanted me to go to hers last night because she had the house to herself, as much as I wanted to see her pret...

Is it wrong to send sexy text messages?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - is it wrong to send him sexy text messages...the man that i love, i send him a text today. that said hey babe,thinking bout u right now wondering how it would feel to touch you...mmmm and kiss you all up..omg dnt u wanna play. ill be the teacher ur ...

What do I get my 15 year old b/f for xmas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi i have a 15 year old booyfriend and i cant think of a single thing to get him for christmas. we will be together for 8 months in december. so any ideas on what to get him?...

Does he want me as much as I wdnt him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - i think this boy likes me but im not sure whether hes prettending to the problem is i like him were best mates in p.e. he will feel my bum and penis wat sal ido because im to emberrased to ask him out because he might not be gay...

I want to stay and live in Spain but don't know how to do it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Forgive me for asking a question that isn´t about a romantic relationship, but I really need advice about something! Being an aunt here on this site, I feel guilty asking for advice when I should be giving it, but I don´t know how to deal with thi...

How sensitive IS a woman's vagina?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Lately my girlfriend and I have been really going at it when we make out. Lately we have been doing this thing where we will position ourselves in a way where I put my leg between hers and she locks it there and we kinda "grind" together. She really ...

My university exams start soon and I have left it too late to study

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - i am doing mba from a well known university....i got the paid seat for 2 million dollars(due to tough competition) as my grades have always been horrible ..... I messed up in my high school and have never been even satisfactory in my academic...

I hurt when I pee...how can I prevent this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I'm seventeen and have sex with my boyfriend who's 19 I hurt alot when I pee and I always have utis what can I do to prevent this ??. ...

What can I do to make our 1 year of dating annivesary special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Ok, so i really need some help. My 1 year anniversary is coming up in about 2 months, and i need ideas on something special to do for my girlfriend. My friend had this pretty cool idea, it was with those airplanes and they wrote in the ...

I am falling for him, but can't let him know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - hello friends! ...So, I am a singer/songwriter who has recently linked up with a very talented guitar player with whom I am working on a new project with. Thing is, I am 26 years old and am finding myself geting giddy inside and nervous ...

Will his record sabotage everything I worked for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 22 years old with my BS in Criminal Justice. When I was 18 i worked for a Police Department and now currently work for another department. My parents have always been pretty strict with me, which has alot to do with my success....

Is it only false hope, or is there really someone out there for everyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - ok alot of people say hold out there is somebody out there for everybody.. which is cliche to me. cuz wen i read alot of the post on this website even people of older age have complicated relationships and in real life alot of people go thru lives ...

Until it stinks!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - Can anyone tell me why a vagina might smell after sex?...

How do we mend a mangled heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - How many times does a heart get mangled before you give up on love? It seems that so many trying events in life, made to knock us down, only make us seem stronger. But what if they just make us more fragile for the next time? What happens when the ...

I want to emigrate to US, but hubby wont budge

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Hello aunts I have been hugely lucky to have had a job that allowed me 2 visit NYC, I have been in live with the place since I can remember, I think it's cause my grandad was a seaman and visited NYC hundreads of times and would come back to ...

I think I'm addicted to online gaming

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - I'm obsessed with playing videogames online. I play them most of the day, I sit up to half five in the mourning. When I win I feel really happy, when I lose I feel angry and pissed off. If I lose I feel I need to have another game to make up for the ...

I joined the police academy to impress him. Is this a mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - So I am 19 yrs old. I am in college to gain my BSN (bachelors n Science and Nursing). Not to long ago I met my friend and jus recently I have come attracted to him. He also recently graduated from the Police Academy in my city. We have been friends ...

I thought my life was full of love. I cherished every moment with him - now that is all destroyed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I have only married once in my mid 20's. It lasted 6 months. I never remarried until 17 years later. I have been married for 7 years, I thought I was careful with whom I married. After we married I found out I was wifie #6. I have just found out in ...

I only found out his secret fetish after we were married and I can't handle it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my husband for ten years, married for 2, just after the I do's I found out his secret fetish and now I don't feel the same way about him. I was so in love but I started finding porn mag's and toys but what's strange about this is ...

Got drunk last night and don't remember anything. Everyone is mad at me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - As i write this i am comming off a major drinking night. My friends and wife told me for weeks they know me drunk but i never been to drunk around them. I told everyone i was a nasty person drunk. So i got shitfaced last night. I have no idea what i ...

I have a list, but no woman to match it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - I don't know what I do wrong? I am 21 years old. I graduate with a Bachelors Degree in 3 mo. Live alone in a nice apartment. I work out about 3-4 times a week. I am handsome a leader and usually decently confident. I have NEVER cheat...

Emancipation???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - This may not be the case with all but I'm sure you'll some of it in your lives too... Well I belong to a country where for a girl/woman all lines start with "you are a girl/woman you are not suppose to...". All the constraints and limitations are ...

Why does work make personal lives so complicated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - It seems to me like work bills money all this man made crap kills every relationship out there. i really really dont want to end up like this if i ever get married i dont want to get divorced i dont id hate it. the only thing that comes to mind when ...

Why does he think this time will be any different?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - okay here the deal. my husband and i have been having problems for the last six months. just the other night we got into a heated argument to the point it almost got physical luckily he didnt actually hit me. I kicked him out the next even...