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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Am I gay or what?

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24 November 2009 (M) - So I've been attracted to girls all my life but shortly after my ex-girlfriend broke up with me(2.5 years ago) I started getting these really strong sexual urges. These urges come by for about 3 days every six months. The thing about these urges is ...

My boyfriend's mother is a problem.

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24 November 2009 (F) - hello i have a lil problem with my boyfriends mother. it seems that he can't cut the cord and it creates problems for us. i am close with my parents but my parents aren't clingy like his mother is. i have much love and respect for her and i am sure ...

Nobody likes me and I don't understand!

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24 November 2009 (M) - well i have this problem since a few months ...i am 22 and am doing an mba ...all my classmates hate me...they dont greet me or even like to talk to me ....even i try to talk to them then i really feel disappointed by the way they respond...some ...

He seems so shy! Should I make the first move?

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24 November 2009 (F) - hi! could anybody help me? well, I use public transport, and I see Mister X almost every day, when we both go to work. we look at each other tenderly, but don't dare to say hello. obviously he wants to talk to me but he's too shy... what sho...

My boyfriend is introverted and I am extroverted! Please Help!

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24 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm new to this and I really need some advice. I've been in a relationship for 2 years and I adore my partner, the problem is I feel like our relationship is totally breaking down. Its a very complicated situation, but basic...

I don’t know what to think about him now! I am so confused!!!

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24 November 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 ½ years, and we have been living together only 2 months, but its going really well. I thought things were perfect between us.. he is sweet, kind, thoughtful, considerate and the perfect gentleman. Really ...

Need to shake this feeling! Please Help.

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24 November 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid... I am a 21 year old Junior in college (should be a senior but due to poor grades am not) and have been been dating my girlfriend who is a Senior in a private University about an hour away from me. I've been with her for a few months n...

How do I get my self-esteem and confidence back after all life has thrown at me?

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24 November 2009 (F) - When I came to this site, I was rock bottom in life. After going through so much adversity, in my life my self esteem plummeted. After visiting this site, I learned that so many man and women are going through similar problems and issues. My ...

Is their relationship against the law?

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24 November 2009 (M) - one of my best mates has just turned 15. about 7 months ago when she was 14 she was going out with a 17 year old, they where great together and she was madly in love with him. but he works at a primary school training children after school. ...

Am I in love with my uncle's wife or is this just an obsession?

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24 November 2009 (M) - dear cupid I'm 20 years old and I have a big crush on my uncle's wife she is 32, their marriage is not that great and I hear them argue on the phone a lot ,they have one child together, she has a doughter from a past relationship, my aunt and I ...

Should I foster or adopt a child against my boyfriend's advice?

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24 November 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend of six months who is against my idea of fostering a child. My idea is to adopt a child if i dont get married, and i would like to start with fostering. I realise i have been puting my plans on 'hold' waitng for marriage.I havent ...

Is my level of anxiety normal or not?

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24 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, im not sure if anyone is able to help but here goes... I recently passed my driving test and got myself a car. The thing is instead if being thrilled of having my independence im terrified of driving. I mean i was confident ...

How do I get back my 9 inch penis?

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24 November 2009 (M) - When i was a youmg man i was blessed with being well endowed with a 9 inch penis. I had no complaints and lots of complements on its size. A couple weeks ago i overheard my wife over the phone to her phone say that she missed my 9 and thinks it had ...

I'm making a mixed DVD for my girlfriend. What else can I put on it?

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24 November 2009 (F) - hey im making a mix dvd for my gf.. im putting slideshows and pictures on the dvd... i wanna know what else i can put on it? please help me? anything els? i cant think of anymore =[ help...

He sends mixed messages. Does he like me or not?

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24 November 2009 (F) - First, i like this guy. next, im confused as to how he acts. So...he treats me differently than other girls, basically, and idk if im just overanalyzing cuz i like him or if he really does treat me weird. He basically talks to me a bunch and invi...

How can you tell if you really like someone?

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24 November 2009 (M) - how do you know that you like someone? i cant tell and im staring to worry that i will never meet anyone who i will like or maybe im just incapable of love. its driving me crazy and starting to scare me....

I don't know how to be in any other relationshi[?

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24 November 2009 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up in September after ten months of being together. We were apart for about a month and a half, until we ran into eachother again, and all the feelings came back. We started seeing eachother no strings attached. (Well, ...

I broke up with him today...shoul I e-mail him or just let it go?

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24 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up today, he's been distant and I just couldn't take it anymore. He asked if I thought I'd be better single and I said maybe even thought I love him more then life itself. After I said maybe I just walked away, the look on ...

What should I do when I haven't seen someone in ages?

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24 November 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for nearly 2 months now and have only gone out with him once. We chat all the time over the computer and thats about it. He has a job that takes up alot of his time and he sometimes works on weekends. At the moment he has work...

Am I being played again?

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24 November 2009 (F) - I'm a freshman in college, and at the beginning of the semester I fooled around with a guy in one of my classes. I thought he liked me at first and then we grew apart and he only showed up when he wanted something from me. I'm not going to lie, I ...

Why are men generally more secure in themselves than most women?

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24 November 2009 (F) - Why are men generally more secure in themselves than most women? I mean, I myself am a very insecure female, especially regarding appearance. I always have a bit of an internal freak out when I'm watching TV with my boyfriend and a naked, big bre...

He's left me holding the baby while he goes out and cheats!

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23 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we have a 3 month old baby girl, we are engaged and living together. I'm 17 years old, he is 22 years old... i love him with all my heart and now i feel hopeless. lots of different girls have been calling him ...

Am I transgender... or is this just a phase?

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23 November 2009 (F) - First of all, please don't judge me by my age, so many people have and it gets annoying. I'm a fifteen (almost sixteen) year old girl, and the thing is I've been in love with one of my best friends (who is female) since I was thirteen. I know...

Why do I regularly get admiring glances thrown my way?

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23 November 2009 (M) - Forgive me if I have asked this question/or if it has been covered before but I would just like to know why, when I go to restaurants/pubs/supermarkets whatever, do I regularly get glanced at by woman of different ages (most commonly late 30's to ...

I can't trust women and it's ruining my life!

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23 November 2009 (F) - I can't trust women (it's almost like a fear, I guess and yes, I am a girl). I know why, though: I was bullied when I was younger because I couldn't speak English very well, all my female "friends" have stabbed me in the back, and most of all my ...

We just met on the phone and he's talking sex, kids, and marriage!!

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23 November 2009 (F) - I spent a whole night...last night...talking to a friend I know on the phone. I don't really know what happened, but we started talking about sex after I described the outfit I was wearing. We met through a mutual friend of both of ours and though ...

Whats the first step after releasing yourself?

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23 November 2009 (F) - I'v just realised the boy Iv been crushing over and been trying to get over for about 2 years isnt really ALL THAT. So now that I feel Im officially over him, what do I do know? I realise, I focused my life around him. How do I live without him...

Do you think I am the cause of his problem?

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23 November 2009 (F) - Hello i love my boyfriend so much and he loves me too, been together for some time and we are very tight, we are always together. its just he isnt very confident with himself, he covers up alot and looks anxious at times, i ask him why he does thi...

Why is he unhappy?

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23 November 2009 (F) - My fiance and I would have been celebrating our 5th year together in December but in October he tells me that he feels like something is wrong with him, he thinks its an early mid-life crisis (he's 33), something is missing in his life, he feels ...

Do you think he is interested in me?

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23 November 2009 (F) - i was chatting with this guy i really like. we are good friends. he sort of appears outgoing but is actually quite shy especially with women. i,ve known him ages and he has never had a girlfriend. (he's not gay) we were recently joking about what is ...

My friend told me he loves me, but then says he's unsure?

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23 November 2009 (F) - I have a male friend who i feel extremely close to, i can talk to him about anything. The other day we were having a normal conversation on MSN and i asked what gossip he had to tell me in conversation. He messed about and said things like 'haha its ...

Can anyone suggest some exercises I can do to make me last longer next time I have sex?

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23 November 2009 (M) - I really need help. I've suffered from premature ejaculation for ages. When I was with my girl we'd have sex about 3 times a week and that went on for 2 years until she broke up with me. I literally last about 10 seconds when having sex. As s...

For the men out there: Does seeing images of half naked men make you feel insecure? How does it affect your self-esteem?

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23 November 2009 (F) - For the guys only: A lot of women write on this site that thier significant other views porn and it makes them feel insecure as the porn stars are well endowed with fake boobs. In addition, the women write they are inundated by the media with i...

I'm too scared to say anything to him just in case I am reading too much into the situation!

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23 November 2009 (F) - I have a male coworker who lives in another city, we worked closely together for a couple of years, but only met on a work weekend away (last year). We seemed to have a lot of chemistry. Although there were about 100 of us on the trip, he spent a...

He made me have an abortion - should I forgive him or move on with my life?

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23 November 2009 (F) - he made me make an abortion and he keeps on telling me dat he love me,i do really love him but im not sure if he really love me after what he has dan to me. i dont know if i should give him another chance,is de any guy dat wil drove his girl to ...

Should I save my marriage to someone I do not love or go with someone I love?

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23 November 2009 (F) - Twenty years ago I met the love of my life. At the time we both had just gotten out of a relationship and agreed to date and not get serious, but in the process we both fell in love. After 2 years he admitted to me that he wanted to marry me and I ...

How do I build upo the courage to talk to him?

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23 November 2009 (F) - There is this guy in my university that I have been noticing for the past few months. I know that he is the same nationality as me. He knows this too but we have never been introduced. I see him only once a week because we have classes that are ...

My girlfriend seems different. What can I do to keep this relationship working?

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23 November 2009 (M) - I am 18 years old, and will have been dating my girlfriend for 6 months in December. We got together in June, and though we originally planned to split up before we left for college, found that by the end of the summer we cared too much about each ...

Men don't turn me on, but they don't turn me off either. What does that mean?

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23 November 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm 17 years old and I'm not really sure about my sexual preference right now. I've always been really attracted to girls but I've also never been GROSSED OUT by guys. I've dated a few girls and I'm still extremely attracted to girls, but whil...

He hinted at bisexuality, initiated intimacy then said he was repulsed. Is he playing games?

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23 November 2009 (M) - I am 38 now and a gay guy. I have not had many relationships. Have tended to shy away from them after a rejection years ago. The last I had was 10 years ago. Last year, I met a guy at uni where I was doing a postgrad course. He was 19.....ok I know ...

He hasn't made a move and I don't want to miss my chance!

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23 November 2009 (F) - I really need some unbiased advice for my situation. I really like this guy, and personally think he's right for me. We're both very religious, and saving ourselves for marriage. Neither of us have dated or kissed anyone, so we're both very ...

How can I be happy whether single or in a relationship?

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23 November 2009 (F) - Firstly, I am a 17 year old female. My question:Why am I not happy? And how do I become happier? Right from when I was 13, I always wanted a boyfriend. Of course I was influenced by movies, mags and peers and I wanted to feel loved, sexy etc. ...

Why would an attractive woman like that want such an older guy?

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23 November 2009 (M) - A very pretty 37-year-old divorced woman with a 12-year-old daughter has indicated interest in me. However, I think that she is much more economically blessed, based on her home, and I'm a 62-year-old man, like 25-years her senior. Why would an...

Is it worth continuing on or am I just prolonging it by staying together??

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23 November 2009 (M) - Hey... ive been going out with a girl for the last 3 months and things were going pretty well up until last week. she just got knid of distant. anyway we had a chat tonite and she was saying that its nothing to do with me its all her, she cant help ...

I dare not risk telling him I love him just to loose everything!

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23 November 2009 (F) - Just think about the good times..and they'll come back again! Idlove to keep saying that to myself but even the good times depress me. Im in a mess, a big fat mess!! This guys my best friend....but sadly the love of my life! Who i cannot get over....

I am accusing her of the same things that happened to me in past relationships!

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23 November 2009 (M) - hi ihave a problem that is new to me. i have been in some really bad bad relationships. well i met my g/f 6 months ago an we were doing great. n then all of a sudden my problem from my past relationships poped up in my head. is she cheating can i ...

I need to get over these feelings for my best friend's husband!

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23 November 2009 (F) - I write this in tears. I have fallen head over heals in love with my friends husband. YES I KNOW THIS IS WRONG and HORRIBLE in everyway. I REALLY do love my friend. She is like a sister to both my husband and I. I've been married about 15 years and ...

What can I do to make it up to him and never talk about my exes again?

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23 November 2009 (F) - i really love my boyfriend and he loves me to bits, been together for 6 months but i have known him for years, but it wasnt until one night i realised i had feelings for him and we hit it off ever since. a year ago i was hurt really bad by a boy i ...

I miss him, but we can't be together :(

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23 November 2009 (F) - okay, i'll try to keep it short and sweet, i think im in love with my ex. he really cared for me to and it we were sort of forced to end it because no one wanted us to be together. the reason why? because he was my best friends EX first and i h...

How can I meet some more independent people?

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23 November 2009 (F) - I have 2 friends and they're nice girls who mean well, but it seems they always have some kind of drama surrounding them. They go through these phases where they meet new people, brag about them and talk about them constantly, stop hanging out with ...