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Archived questions from: June, 2018 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Should I volunteer for the first time for three months in another country?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2124 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) - ive never known what I want to do career wise and ive never really had any ambitions or hobbies as such . I often get slightly worried that in a few years I don't know what ill be doing and I don't know if ill have a job . ive been wanting to ...

Something's not right with my mother and I'm very worried about her mental health

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2121 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) - I think my mother has ADHD,I'm no professional so I may be wrong in diagnosing her but something is definitely not right..she's a wonderful mum but I'm starting to feel very frustrated with our relationship, I apologise in advance if this is long ...

How could my girlfriend move on from a 4 year relationship so quickly and already be with another man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2102 days ago

30 June 2018 (M) - Two Weeks ago, my relationship of 4 years ended with my girlfriend. i have been devastated, things have not been good for a while, but i was willing to do whatever it took as i never saw myself being with anyone else. we have not been intimate in ...

Some colleagues at work are targeting me and I feel that they'll complain against me yet again and have me fired. How do I handle things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2124 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) - Hello everyone, how do you deal with a petty, catty work environment? Honestly, I feel like I just need to vent to some helpful strangers with the comfort of knowing no one will ever find this. However, any advice will be appreciated. I am a yo...

Why do men want to show off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2124 days ago

28 June 2018 (F) - I am back in the dating game after two years of not looking. For the first time in my life I am looking to actually pay attention to the red flags(previously when the signs read “wrong way”) I just kept going. I would say I am an attractive women...

I have had an extremely stifled upbringing but I want to break free by going to a college of my choice. How do I convince my authoritarian parents?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2116 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - In our family, it has always just been assumed that we'd all go to college. I've never been the best student, but I've basically been average. I liked "electives" the best and I got the best grades in music and Spanish. Actually, I won the John ...

Boyfriend left for a night of hard drugs and drinking and I haven't heard from him in 24 hours. Should I dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2129 days ago

26 June 2018 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend went on a night out that resulted in me not hearing from him for over 24 hours. He said he had ended up drinking all night with some guy he met and tried to get cocaine too. While doing this he also decided to ignore my messages ...

I've lost faith in relationships, love and marriage. Can anyone else relate to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2128 days ago

26 June 2018 (F) - Hi, I've kind of lost faith in love. The guys I dated taught me harsh realities and often love is not enough. I used to be romantic as a teenager and then it became mutual love and respect, then it became more about finding a good intellectua...

I basically have Chandler Bing's personality! How do I change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2129 days ago

26 June 2018 (M) - Dear Aunts, I realized that I have a flaw in my personality which is that I enjoy putting others down/make fun of them. I always did it thinking that the person wouldn't mind, would take it lightly and laugh at it. I told myself that it was just...

I stole from my brother, how do I repair our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2132 days ago

24 June 2018 (M) - My youger brother, Justin, is 23 months youger than me. I am 35 years old and he is 33 years old. He have always been a good person (doing charity work, volunteering his time to different charities, est.). When I was in my late teens and early ...

Anything that bothers me he says its a cultural thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

23 June 2018 (F) - Hello I'm married and my husband has all his exes on social media and still speaks to them. I have told him I feel its inappropriate to talk to your exes when their part of his past. He is also addicted to his cell phone. He has many Male fr...

What if I fail ......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2131 days ago

23 June 2018 (F) - Hello everyone! I am in the middle of some crazy studying because very soon I’ll be taking a competitive examination (if I pass I will have to take another three competitive examinations in the course of the next year) to upgrade my career and get a ...

I love him but feel neglected.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2132 days ago

23 June 2018 (F) - Hi Aunts and Advisors :) Ive been dating, "Evan" going on 1 year. We worked together at a bar that I left soon after but we continued to date. He still works this hectic hospitality schedule. I have a day job. neither opus are "rich" people bu...

I ask women I sleep with about their opinion on abortion because I don't want kids. How do I know the girl I'm seeing is on the same page?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2129 days ago

22 June 2018 (M) - So I met a wonderful girl online and we hit it off really well. We kissed on the first date, had lunch on the second, and ended up sleeping with each other on the third when she invited me over to her apartment for pizza and a movie. We used ...

I suffer from OCD and crippling jealousy and my husband's occasional comments about other women's looks drive me over the edge

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2134 days ago

22 June 2018 (F) - Hi, I hope you guys can give me some wise advice, because i can't deal with and handle my OCD and my jealousy. I do suffer from OCD and now my OCD appears to have crossed into the realm of the physical too, whereby i get obsessed by a part...

I am simultaneously unsatisfied and satisfied with my life, I need direction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2133 days ago

20 June 2018 (F) - I am simultaneously unsatisfied/satisfied with my life. I have a bf whom I love, who does a lot for me and our 3 kids. But, sometimes he has a temper. He gets verbally abusive, not in a nasty way, but in a snippy sort of critiquing way. I've tak...

I’m conflicted on what to do or feel about my parents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2135 days ago

19 June 2018 (F) - Hi all, I posted some time ago. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-over-committing-to-him-.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-19-years-old-an-age-where-it.html In my previous questions, I basically had an argument with my parents ...

How can I stop obsessing over a taken man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2137 days ago

19 June 2018 (F) - Has anyone dealt with obsessive love and limerence? I have an issue with being obsessed with my crushes and making up scenarios and fairy tale endings in my head to the point where all I think about is the object of my obsession . To be frank I am ...

My boyfriend ignores me at times.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2138 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - im with my boyfriend for 5 years and he ignores me at time when he is in his facebook and takes awhile to answer me when im talking to him and i feel he takes advantage of my kinds and times i dont think he appreciate alot of things i do for him ...

I'm worried he still has feelings for his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2138 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - Is he really over his Ex? Me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years now and I thought we was both the happiest we could be. Last night he went to show me something on social media and his ex girlfriend was at the very top of his search bar I...

None of my friends like him .... what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2138 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - I (33F) am looking for advice regarding my boyfriend(31M) of two years. None of my friends like him. In fact, they all basically refuse to spend time with him. The typical reasons for this would have to do with the guy being a cheater, abusive...

I'm waiting for a girl to come and sweep me off my feet.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2137 days ago

18 June 2018 (M) - Please bare with me and sorry for the long post. Im in a bit of a slump the past year. Essentially I once again broke up with a girl I'm madly in love with because circumstances prevents us from being together, that being a long distance relatio...

He said we were moving too fast, and that he had bigger plans.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2137 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - I met this guy about a month ago and everything was going great. We were so genuinely happy with each other, always laughing and having fun. I met his friends and family. It felt like we were moving towards a relationship. We would see each other ...

We are growing apart and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - Hiya, Ok I am in desperate need of advice, I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now and I love him so much however I am thinking of ending our relationship. He is 10 years old than I am (the age has neve...

I'm talking all the time to my ex girlfriend who is crying about her life. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2138 days ago

17 June 2018 (M) - Well guys m confused how to think about something , i had a relationship with a girl for almost 5 years everything was great but we had to break up because she left the countery to study far away but we keept contact as good freind few months later ...

Who is the weird one, me or him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2139 days ago

16 June 2018 (F) - I have this guy friend that I’ve been knowing for almost a year now, we’ve been involved intimately at one point, pretty much on and off. We both have feelings for each other. We recently started conversing again and hung out. We’re both still ...

How can my boyfriend love me when I think I can't keep up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2140 days ago

16 June 2018 (M) - My boyfriend has quite a bit of intelligence, and I find it to be quite an attractive trait. All the same, a lot of his discussions and debates go over my head. When I see him talking with others who can carry the conversation, he always seems so ...

The death of my pet caused me to perform terribly at work!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2135 days ago

15 June 2018 (F) - Hi everyone. This is a coworker relationship question. Nothing romantic. Just wasn't sure where to go to ask this as I like going here. I started this job about two months ago. It is a unique job. Without getting into too many details, I...

Me and my dad's friend want to take it to the next level

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2138 days ago

14 June 2018 (F) - Me and my dad's friend have been texting for a while and we've talked about taking things to another level... Im not sure what to do about it, i mean i'm 21 an he's about 30, I have always like older guys and we are into each other but you know he's ...

I asked for help and he lied about why he couldn't.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

14 June 2018 (F) - I am not sure if what I am feeling right now is normal or I am being unjust? I asked for help from my boyfriend of 4 years. what I need is a room/place to stay for 1 year while I am doing the last part of my studies. We do not live together...

I have a big decision to make

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

13 June 2018 (F) - I'm at a crossroads w/my relationship and I am deeply torn. I love my bf and he is my best friend, but there is something I have to consider as well. Since he left college, he has been working a mediocre job in which I know he isn't happy (h...

My ex-girlfriend has a way of messing with my head

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2141 days ago

13 June 2018 (F) - Hi all, Long story cut short. I was in a lesbian relationship with my gf for two years. She kissed a guy during our relationship (even lied to my face and was secretly sending messages to him). This pushed me to pursue my dreams in working a...

He seems a bit too chummy with his real estate agent

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2137 days ago

13 June 2018 (F) - Hi ladies, ok so I am worried because, my boyfriend (in his 40s) is buying a house that he wants to make into a business a little more ahead, the thing is that he will need to rent one of the rooms to someone (a roommate) to help him pay off the ...

All couples argue..But where do we draw a line?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

13 June 2018 (F) - My dear other half thinks his verbal abuse is just an arguement and it would be if I would agree to that. But I know there is more to it than that and it destroys me as the pattern repeats with increasing frequency. He cant see that its not a c...

How do I learn to stop caring so much about other people's opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

13 June 2018 (F) - Hello aunts, I wanted to seek advice on how to stop caring about how other people perceive me and how to gather strength on the inside. I am a woman in my thirties that (not trying to sound vain) has been told I am very pretty - skinny and beaut...

My boyfriend's drunken behaviour was nasty. Should I just let it pass?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

12 June 2018 (F) - My bf, myself and our close friends were at a house party. I spent most of my time helping the hosts so I was pretty much sober while my bf decided to get sloshed after many years. By the end of the night, he had way too many and was totally out ...

Is it normal to miss a toxic relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2141 days ago

12 June 2018 (F) - We are both 30, in the good days, we had an amazing relationship, we had a TONNNNN of things in common, we agreed on a lot of things, we traveled many times and we were a team, when things were good, they were amazing... rarely things that we ...

What’s the difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2144 days ago

12 June 2018 (F) - Whats the difference between making love and just having sex? Like what are some things that would take place if you’re making love rather than just having regular sex?...

How do you know if you're meant to be together forever?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2144 days ago

11 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years, lived together for almost 3 years of that. He's my best friend and we've spoken openly about marriage and kids. Anyway, my question is, how do you know if you're really meant to be together fore...

After seven years I find myself becoming detached.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

11 June 2018 (M) - I'm in a 7-year relationship. We're both divorced, both have children, but mine are older (hers are 11 and 14). It seems to me that we used to be "closer" and talked about future dreams, things we liked about each other, flirted with each other, ...

Should I bother with this communal garden? I think I’ve attracted a bully!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

10 June 2018 (F) - I live in a block of eight flats. It's a period (Victorian) building, converted into separate dwellings. Surrounding this (kind of in a circle) are five houses. In the middle, is a communal garden. The two flats on the ground floor all have th...

Should I just resign myself to the fact that my looks are going bye bye?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2146 days ago

10 June 2018 (F) - This isn't a relationship question, but it's been weighing heavily on my mind and heart lately. I know that I'm setting myself up to be judged because I'll be perceived as "vain," or "shallow," but I have a huge dilemma because this is causing my ...

My boyfriend says if I don't lose weight after our baby's birth he will dump me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2146 days ago

9 June 2018 (F) - I am 24 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend is constantly calling me fat. He says he is teasing. He also said that if I don't lose the weight after the baby is born he will dump me. I have taken all these things to heart. I was really skinny before I got ...

I had a dream that my husband's best friend kissed me, and now I need help clearing my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2144 days ago

9 June 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been married for three years and just found out I have a child on the way. I have a very loving and kind husband who bends over backwards for me. I love him dearly. Now, DH has a best friend that I've met only a handful of times. T...

Have you ever felt perplexed by a person's disinterest towards you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2149 days ago

7 June 2018 (F) - To keep it short, I've been having sex with this guy for almost 2 years. I'm fine that it's not a relationship. Things have been good, but there is one thing that's been on my mind. Firstly, yes, we always talk before sex, he'll sometimes tak...

My partner doesn't know how to parent our child

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2148 days ago

6 June 2018 (F) - Hi I’m in a relationship for 5 years we have a 3 year old daughter I have started a new job 8 months ago so now my partner has to bath our daughter and put her to bed something which he had never done till I started this new job due to changing my ...

I caught feelings for a friend and I'm not sure if I should tell them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2149 days ago

6 June 2018 (?) - We've worked together for about a year now. We became friends a couple months ago after he broke up with his girlfriend, and we started hanging out outside of work (his initiation). We've hung out every week with his group of friends, and aside from ...

Everyone around me seems to want to sabotage me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2149 days ago

6 June 2018 (F) - Hello, this is less a romantic question and more of a coping question. Due to some mistakes I’ve made and struggles I keep having, I had to move into a homeless shelter. I’m going to call it The Haven and I want to make it clear that any names and ...

My coworker admitted his feelings for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2146 days ago

5 June 2018 (F) - Help my coworker admitted to having feelings for me! Brief scenario - we sit next to each other in the office and at first I thought he was nice( I treat him the same way as the other guys) innocent jokes etc. I did notice he likes to blame o...

My girlfriend has given up on her ambitions.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2149 days ago

4 June 2018 (M) - Hi everyone I've been in a relationship for about 2 years now and it's all going well, we are compatible in most ways however there is one thing that bugs me. That thing is a lack of ambition, drive, motivation etc. It's quite common to hea...