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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Sometimes I wake up and for a while my world feels like it's tumbling into Hell.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Sometimes I wake up and for a while my world feels like it's tumbling into Hell. I cannot explain this because I can find happiness in friends, the arts, nature...but for some reason I have mornings where I wake up and feel "Oh God this life is ...

He broke it off but we still have sex! It's raising my hopes, so how do I stop since we live together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6173 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - My partner and I have been together for a long time. For the last 3 months tho, we have been living in different states, with plans for me to move in with him when I had found a job, the week before I was due to move down, he broke it off... This ...

This guy told me if I kept skipping school he wouldn't talk to me anymore! Why does he care??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Am 15 years old and I was talking to a 17 year old guy.Well sometimes I skip school with my friends.I would never tell the guy that i was talking to that I skipped but my friends talk to him and they would tell him everything.Well one day he erased ...

My bf gets so angry, he even curses God when he plays video games! Does he have some kind of problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend who is addicted to a computer game turns into a totally different guy when he is playing. He starts cursing, really bad. up to the point where he is using the MF word and he also says words that put down God. I find it really ...

Ever since returning from France, my life has totally sucked. What can I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - this thing called life....kinda sucks when not in europe so recently i have come back from one of the greatest experiences of my life. i spent 4 full months in france studying abroad and although i hated it at first, i soon after found i loved...

I get really emotional over my body - help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I really need to talk to someone who understands how it feels to get really emotional over their bodies. Can someone talk to me, please? ...

What can I do now that I've just given up on everything, women especially?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6174 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - What can I do now that I've just given up on everything, women especially? I just dont kno what to do with myself. I am on anti depressants but they wont start working till I have taken them for a week more what can i do?...

My large breasts are sooo uncomforatble! What should I do about it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Lately ive been feeling very self concious about my breasts. Im 17 and im a G cup.. but im small in comparison with my breasts, i wear size 10 clothes. I dont have any bras that fit and feel really uncomfortable. My question is.. can breasts be too ...

I moved overseas w/ my bf of several months - he just broke up w/ me and said we can live together as friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I met in September and we hit it of immediately. He was then offered a dream role overseas so he left to pursue it 6 weeks later. In December I moved over to be with him and we moved in straight together - yes far too soon but we ...

My ex won't let me see our little boy! I'm afraid our son will get the wrong idea if I take her to court! Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Okay - my ex broke up with me. We've got a little boy that i love dearly. She moved about 400 k\m away from me. I pay maintenance, but she doesn't want me to see him. Now the thing is if I take her to court, my son might get the feeling that I w...

Invited to the ex's house to visit. She spent the whole time flirting with her new bf-was she playing a cruel game with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Ok, i'm confused and need an unbiased response. My now ex-fiance and i split a year ago. Shortly after that i asked that i still see her 3yr old daughter to whom i became very attached and the child to me. She advised that wouldnt be appropriate and ...

Big decision--do I go to the club I hate, with my friends or on a work trip?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - hi i know this sounds like an unimportant question but i need some help!! its my last exam for uni tomoro so all my friends have organised a night out before we all go home for summer. But its also a works trip tomoro night which i desperately wa...

How can I find out if my girlfriend loves me in the same way as I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - i am going out with a girl and i really love her but i dont think she loves me the same way, how could i find out if she loves me the same?...

How do I know if I am in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - how do i know am in love??..i dunno how people tell there in love how would i know?? help??...

Was I looking like a pimp by overdressing? Some friends thought so...any views?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Now this question sounds weird but it's a issue for me. Do I come across as pervy or a flirty type? Ok well basically, I'm in my teens, never had a girl fiend always act poite and friendly as well as always treat ladies with utmost respect (...

I heard he's going to ask me to marry him and I don't know what to say to him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Hey, I am going out with a guy and I have been for almost a year now. His friends have told me that he's going to ask me to marry him. At first when they told me I was really excited about it because we were both really into each other, but now when ...

He sexually abused me and I can't get it out of my head.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - im 14, a year ago my boy friend sexualy abused me, he didnt have sex with me, he stalked me. sent me texts, asking me to do things, asking me to send pictures, he even sent me porn...of him. It was a monday and i had chemistry, he cornered me i...

I am really at the end of my tether with my daughter's father...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - I have done so much for my daughter's father and I'm getting the end of the stick. I still care for him however, he's with another woman who I know he will do the same thing to her (cheat, use her, live in babysitter, pay his bills, etc). I am...

I am working with Female Bullies whom are 17 to 20 years older than I am

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Working with Female Bullies whom are 17 to 20 years older than I am; seriously, this is ridiculous! I have been working there for 15 years and about 2 years ago, this happened when I moved from one part of the warehouse to where these rude femal...

I don't know if I want to be with my husband any more, we're both moving in different directions.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - im a lil frustraded and i need help.ok me and my husband have been together since i was 16{now im 20} and hes the only man that ive ever trusted, hes my high school sweet heart my first and only love. We split up for about a year cause he joined ...

Do men ever look at college or high school girls in a sexual way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - I'm wondering about something that only a man can answer, or maybe a really knowledgeable woman. I'm wondering what it's like for married men or even just older men to look at high school and college girls. Assuming these girls are attractive and ...

How do I tell my husband I KNOW he's been cheating on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I have just found out my husband is cheating on me. I have computer eveidence so I am sure. I hurt so much. How do i tell him i know the truth?...

Can you ever heal and move on from your first love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

27 May 2007 (M) - Can you ever heal and move on from your first love?...

I had no choice but to file a restraining order against my daughter's father.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I had no choice but to file a restraining order against my daughter's father. He's so unpredictable as well as his actions. I am tired of his threats, verbal abuse, etc. He just showed up at my place of employment harassing me about our ...

Tip needed..on how to cope with razor burn!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I like to maintain my pubic hairs, but when I shave I always get razor burn. Any suggestions?...

My dad and uncle have raped me! I'd be better off dead..........

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - im in a despreate postion my uncle and dad are not good people they rape and beat me they are drunk all day long please dont laugh this is my last hope to talk to anyone im 15 now and was 12 the first time i slept in the woods alone so i did...

I have a hard time confiding in others. When I do-I feel that my trust always being violated.What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I have a bad past and need to talk to someone but I have no one to talk to. My "friends" all have bfs/ gfs and when I try to talk to them alone they just say " I dunno what to say, sorry" then run back to their partners as if we hadn't spoken a...

My hair is falling out in clumps! What is happening to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I'm scared, im 19 and my hair's falling out. I have been under some emotional stress lately but that part of my life has some what calmed down but my hair just seems to be falling out more and more. Whenever I touch my hair it comes away in my hand ...

It bugs me that people say, couples should not look at each other's emails! Isn't that th choice of the couple involved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - You know, it really really bugs me when I see people responding saying it wasn't a gf's or a wife's place to look through her bf's or husband's email or vice-versa. Maybe some people have an understanding and are okay with things like that. I have ...

Found a small painful lump on my armpit. What could it be?

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - hi ive recently been having a pain under my arm that started like 2 days ago and ive just found a lump in my armpit. its small but painful if i press it. what could this be? i cant get a doctors appointment before i go on holiday in 2 days time and ...

When a guy you know says he won't kiss you because you are drunk, what does that mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - Hi, i'm a bit confused. I know there are lots of guys who will gladly kiss a girl when she's drunk becuase i suppose it's easier for them to be taken advantage of and all that... however, when a guy you know says he won't kiss you because you are ...

He stole naked pics of this other guy's wife...off their computer! Is this really creepy or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I need advice. My husband and I have always had a strong loving, trusting relationship. We have been married 4 years and we a have a wonderful two year old daughter. We are both highly successful working professionals. We have very close friends ...

I think this policeman I like knows how I feel. What do I do next time I see him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - i really like a cop and the other day my daughter and career day at school she only 11 years old ,te cop that i like his partner was there at the school and my daughter talked to the cop and told him to tell the cop i like hi for us. i was ...

I am a mature student and I am bi-curious.I have this mad crush on my female teacher! What should I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I am in my mid-twenties, happily married with a child. I am currently a mature student at college and I am head over heels madly deeply in love with my female teacher who has children older than me. She is not only beautiful outside but she's caring ...

Need advice for bristley pubes! Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - hi, A couple of months ago I shaved my pubes (I know stupid idea!) and now they have grown back horrible and stubbley. My boyfriend wants to touch me down there but im so embarrassed about my briskly pubes. Does anyone know how i can solv...

Is my female teacher coming on to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - Hey, I need some advice about this teacher at my school. Well the thing is am a girl myself and the teacher is also a girl, the thing is that I think she fancies me but Im not sure, she isn't my teacher but I do talk to her now and again and we...

Neighbor is wanting to call the police as his kid looked in our window, and saw us having sex! I think you should be able to do what you want in your own home! Any views?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - My neighbour has threatened to call the police as his 11 year old son saw my partner and I having sex in our living room. he also says it is illegal to walk around naked. The boy must have been in our back garden looking in the window so surley h...

I am suspicious of other people and their motives when they want to get close. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) - I find any act that is aimed to come close to me physically as being something that is a hostile move from a human being to hurt me, disturb me or harm me in some way. It is rarely a move that is aimed at showing affection / respect / love or ...

I think I fancy by bf's brother - I dream about him all the time! My bf says it's bc I'm stressed. Then why do I like it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - I think i fancy my boyfriends brother. I have been with my boyfreind almost 2 and a half years and up til about 6 months ago i was sure i was in love. Ive been getting dreams for the last few months about my boyfriends brother at least 3 times a ...

Is this legal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - I seperated from my Internet lover after 7 years because he told me that he has 2 Korean wives of which he married in Korea then brought them back to uk to live, Is this legal?...

I want to stop being gay because it is destroying my life!

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) - Alright i need a lot of help here. I want to try to get over my gay tendencies and stop thinking about guys. Being a gay guy has just destroyed my life, it has completely left me empty inside. I can't find friends like me because to tell you the ...

Is it too soon to be planning kids and marriage at the age of 18?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - I just turned 18 and my boyfriend is almost 21. We've been dating for almost 2 years. We keep talking about future plans to get married, have kids etc, and I really want to, but is it too soon to be thinking about those kinds of things?...

Is it true that some men "never get past sex"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Is it true that some men "never get past sex"? Like if the sexual aspect of the relationship has dipped into a less-than-hot-passion phase, then the man thinks it's over, and now you're approaching friendship, and he starts to look around....

My BF was sexually abused when he was 6, he is now 17 and we want to have sex but I'm scared he will panic and those feelings will come back again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

24 May 2007 (?) - Hi i am 15 in 2 weeks, i live in the uk and have been going out with my boyfriend now for 17 months and he is 17. i love him. i never felt like this before and i reali want to settle with him and be with him forever. i really want to have sex with ...

I want to convert to Judaism but my husband doesn't - does this mean I won't be allowed to convert?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I've been carefully considering converting to Judaism for a few years now and believe it's what I really want. That's not the issue though; the problem is, I'm married and my husband isn't Jewish. I know that a Jewish person isn't meant to marry a ...

We've been together 3 years but she is soo beautiful and I'm worried I'm too average to keep her satisified!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - My g/f and I have been together for almost 3 years, the first six months, just as friends, then lovers, then I asked her to move in with me and she's been there for a year-and-a-half. I love her but I'm starting to feel a little insecure about our ...

My family members abuse me and make me feel abnormal - should I seek legal help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - It seems to be that none of my expectations of getting emotional and psychological support have been met by my family members. Rather they have been abusing me all this time. Yet i feel addicted to them and get tempted to relate with them to escape ...

Should I follow my mind or my heart after my husband cheated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - What should i follow,my mind or my heart? My mind tells that i have to leave my husbnd for the cheat he did in our relationship. but my heart tells that i have to give him another chance for the sake of our marriage life..Im confused...any advice ...

Is it possible to be addicted to another human being??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - can anyone help me please? I have been in love with my ex-husband since I was 15 (I am now 39). We had many break-ups due to his violence and alcoholism. I am now separated from him a year and a half but he still goes through my mind every single d...

She's never been kissed before so how do I tell her I have feelings??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

23 May 2007 (M) - Ok sorry if this is long but it's kinda compicated. I'l try to make it short. Ok about 6 months ago i met this woman in the pub she had been in afew times before but i'd never really spoke to her. Anyway most people know each other around here so ...