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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

What's more important ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Ladies! what's more important to you a man or money? Gentlemen! what's more important to you love or hanging out with your friends? :) thinks carefully ladies and gentlemen!...

Need some help on where to shop in sydney?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - This isn't really a question about love or a relationship but I'd like to have some help please. I am going to be moving to Sydney in Australia by the beginning of next year (hopefully) and I would like to know if anyone would be able to help me....

I like my boss, but..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - The other day, I went in for an interview, and the guy who interviewed me seemed to be close to my age or a couple years older, with a very attractive face and pleasing manners. He seemed quite friendly and easily amused. I however get the ...

Does my boyfriend want kids or is he just being silly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is 26 and do you think he wants kids or is just being silly? these are things he has said to me: once we drove past a new playground and he said "we should have lots of kids so we could go to the playground all the time". we wer...

Will my boyfriend ever stray or get bored of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - hello. will my boyfriend ever stray? were together a year now we see each other nearly every day. will he get bored of me? i dont want him to i love him to bits it just worries me sometimes. is it just me been paranoid? we get on great were always l...

Am I the only afraid of living in an apartment building?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi everybody I know this might be a bit of an unusual question but am I the only one or is there anybody else who is afraid of living in an appartment building? Up until now I've always lived in houses and I'm about to move into a building wi...

Unrequited love......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - What do you think of one sided or unrequitted love? Well it doesn't have to be "I love him and he doesn't" but "I love him and he doesn't know about it. I can't tell him because I am married or so on." Have you had a similar experience? How ...

I need a man's point of view on this one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - From a male's perspective, do men as a general rule feel uncomfortable dating a woman who is separated and in the process of divorcing? If so will you explain why?...

Is this true about military men?

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30 September 2010 (F) - Is it true that some men who have served in the army for a number of years have difficulty in knowing how to treat a woman? and always seem to divorce and marry multiple times?...

Am I gay, straight or bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Hi I am straight but I like to go on gay porn somtimes and I do like girls but I want to no if I'm gay straight or bu...

Anniversary tomorrow and don't know what to do!!!! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Eek! Its our 2 year anniversary tomorrow (since we met) and weve been so busy that we havent thought about booking anything we would like to do. I wanted to see a show in London or go to a spa but 1. Its too late to book, and.. 2. We can only se...

What would you do if someone you met for the first time smells funny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Lets just say you are going to meet someone for the first time (woman/man) and as soon as she/he gets in the car she/he smells like onions better yet bummy.what would be your first reaction? And how would you approach her/him? Lol :)...

What do women really, actually want?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Why do women so often say they want things that aren't the man himself, e.g. clothes, tatoos, car, house, money, job, hairstyle? If you ask a man what he really wants, he wants a good looking, healthy woman who doesn't actually need makeup, or ...

He's married, but I like him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hi! I've been working in my current job for a few years now, and everything was really nice until a new colleague joined us in the office. He's hot, I mean really hot, and nice and kind and gentle and funny and all the other good things about a ...

I had an abortion. Will getting pregnant help me ease the pain I feel?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I had an abortion two months ago, now I am so depresed, nobody knew about my abortion, and I live in a place in the united states with my two kids and my husband. I feel really bad after my abortion, I has been thinking about getting pregnant again, ...

I've never felt this way before! Do you think he feels the same for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been friends with this guy for about 5 months now. Ever since the first night we hung out we have been basically inseparable. We never did anything sexual, we never even kissed. I'm in love with him! But I don't think he would ev...

Am I gay or am I going through a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hey am 15 .. I know most people would say am confused .. But i need help ! I find girls attractive at times but guys too. At the same time i would choose a girl over a guy. To be honest i don't even like the look of the " the third leg" i don't ev...

Is he capabale of settling down with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Am abit confused, my bf and i both love each other so much bt he is reluctant with life. he has a job, doesnt pay rent, has enough savings in the account but wont use any of it to upgrade his lifestyle. he mostly spends it on drinking and partyng. ...

He is thinking of leaving his wife for me, but I'm worried he may only be leaving because he thinks the grass is greener on the other side....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Ok, it's best to start at the beginning. I work with a guy who is 15 years older than me, have always had a soft spot, and the room kinda lit up when I saw him. I hadn't realised that (2 years down the line) he had felt the same as me. He is ...

Is this realshionship one sided or is this in my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (?) - hi you lovely agony aunts out there, i always come on her for help when i need, and feel i need a little reasurring today..., i at the moment feel my relashionship is one sided, me more than him, or could it be in my head, i will tell you how it is ...

Does the pain ever go away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Hi, This may not be the right place for my Q but I thought I'd ask it anyway. My father very suddenly collapsed and died in my arms over 20 yrs ago although it feels like yesterday. Each year on the anniversary of his death (today) I a...

Are careless people happy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I'm asking because I see so many people who don't seem to fear anything. They are at easy with every situation, they don't put much effort into whether things go the right or the wrong way. When it comes to serious stuff, they just do what they have ...

Is it time to leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - i have been with my current partner for 11 years. he refuses to get a job to help with the bills. If he gets any money he will spend it on drink. he is verbally abusive and on a few occasions in drink he has been physically abusive. i am at the end ...

Will he ever commit to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - scared he may never commit? Me and my fella been seeing each other coming up to 9 months. Before he got with me he had been broken up with his ex of 8 years for 7 months. We broke up a month after dating because he told me that he thought he wa...

When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...

Is there a cure for my indecisiveness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Ok I have known two wonderful guy "A" business man and "B"a doctor which i just knew...this two relationship is a long distance relationship. "A" i have knew him like around for a month and we so madly in loved with each other but he is always so ...

Would it be selfish of me to have another child without being in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - i am a single mother and i have a gorgeous 3 year old son. For the past year i have been wanting another baby but i don't want to be in a relationship. I'm happy being on my own. Would it be selfish of me to have another child?...

How do I get a satisfying love life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - I turn 32 years old in a month and I've had three relationships, lasting from 2 weeks to 3 months and two one-night stands. The last was 6 months ago after a 5 year dry spell. Is this a sign of serious trouble? I definitely feel unsatisfied with ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't want to get married or have kids. Will he ever change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend says he doesn't want to get married or have kids. We about 19 which isnt a big deal yet, but we have been together for 6 years. Should i expect his answer of marriage and kids to stay the same, or do you think he will ever change his ...

How can I break it to a grown man that he needs to stop shoving his tongue down my throat?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Yes, yes. I'm sure this has been asked many times. I tried searching previous posts, but only found little girls asking questions and, frankly, found nothing entirely relevant to my problem. Sorry if this is seemingly redundant! So, now for my...

Is his demeanor and arousal a weakness or strengh?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - If a guy gets a hard on when he's sitting with a girl and they are currently just friends (neither appears more attractive than the other), yet he continues talking like he doesn't need anything from her (not needy)...... Does she feel she has power ...

My heart is smashed into a million little pieces...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago, my heart has literally been smashed into a million tiny pieces and it hurts so much. It hurts this much mainly because it was a sudden breakup and that I wasn't expecting it. What's even worse is ...

I am an idiot!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - I am currently engaged to a beautiful woman with 2 kids, the story is as follows. Beautiful woman was with self centered and controlling man that liked to see her bang other guys, she did not like this went though 10 years of this to stay married....

Horny for my brother in law!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi I am a 31 year old married guy. Successful carreer, beautiful loving wife and gorgeous 2 kids - whatever I do circles around them. I have known my wife since we were 15 - we were each other's first love and no one ever got between us. However, I ...

Should I send him the gifts after his cold response?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - This guy I like is in Afghanistan and he's coming home for Xmas. I asked him if I could send him a box with things before he comes home. By his reply that it was a cold one, I decided not to, but I told him I would anyway. Read the conversation: ...

My husband has a problem with sexting...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - My husband has a problem with sexting... This is the 3rd time I've found out. It's heart breaking. Some argue it's not cheating, but to me it is. And after 3 times I see it's not gonna stop, and it will lead to something else if it hasn't ...

The person I love is jealous of me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - So I really have feelings for my colleague, I hardly know him but I'm so attracted to him; he's good looking, intelligent, we potentially have loads in common, and I have no doubt he is aware that we could be great friends if nothing more. He only ...

How to know if you're gay, bi, bi-curious, confused or straight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi I'm a 21 years old male I'm here for help with some issues that I'm trying to deal with but don't know so please take your time to read my story and help me or give me some advice. This is me, a straight male who had never been or slept ...

I'm attracted to transsexuals, but I'm afraid that my interest might be considered insulting

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Hi there, I'm a young woman, I look feminine and pretty, in a girl-next-door way. Everyone who doesn't know better is mistaking me for "straight". But I've got a secret, and I don't know who to talk to. I'm known to be bisexual, but if I am re...

Another baby with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - ok so i have a son from a previous 4 year relationship. My son's dad and i are no longer together but he has regular contact with my son and we are both on good terms. He has now asked me to have another baby with him. I was completely thrown by the ...

Was my boyfriend's behaviour appropriate?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is in real estate. He went to a closing with his female agent. even though she lives closer to the closing site, she drove back to the office to meet y boyfriend so they can go together. I had no problem with that but after the ...

Should I meet up with my holiday fling? The whole situation is so complicated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I worked for some friends abroad for a year. and while I was there i got involved with my mothers friends husband (Im 18, he's 34) The affair was short and I expected to go home at the end of my work and forget all about it. Problem is I just cant!! ...

Fiancee and confusion! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] hey guys this is long story but ill try to make it as small possibleee i could do well with some ''outside'' advice so im going out with this girl... its been 11 months.. but in the beggining it was really...

Falling in love with my brother in law

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - i'm 38 years old and i fell in love with my brother in law who moved with us recently, my husband is always travelling and doesn't have much time for me or my kids, who became really attached to their uncle, he is much younger than me and passing ...

How a crush destroyed my marriage.....what is your opinion?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

28 September 2010 (?) - The excerpt below is a series of narratives I wrote 2 years ago after I developed a life-changing crush on a woman. Since then, this woman moved away, I lost touch with her, I fell away from my wife and had an affair (with a different woman), my ...

We are thinking about marriage but I have a few problems, can anyone advise me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - hello to all, this story is quite long. but please read it and advice. i am 16 currently. i am in a relation with someone. the problem is that i feel he is opposing too much on me though he loves me very much. am actually the 3rd girl in his life...

How do I find the strength to leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles I really hope you can help me. I have been in a relationship for close to three years now and for the duration of it I believe my partner has been cheating on me with different women. Back in March something wasnt right so b...

Is a second chance possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Me and this girl have known each other for 8 years now through contact over the internet. Earlier this year we found out our mutual love for each other, we were in regular contact and loved just taking to each other. After I graduated I decided to ...

How I can get rid of unwanted desire?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - How I can get rid of unwanted desire? I am female married in my 50s. Maybe when I was 16 and had never seen an erect penis desire developed to see. From early till now I never desired for intercourse sex. I married and have a good husband, first ...

I lied about my age when we first started talking, and now I need to tell him the truth but I don't know how....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I'm 16 years old, I've been meeting up with someone who I like very much for about a year now, and it's just been meeting and hanging out a bit in the past but now it's starting to be more like it could really go somewhere despite obstacles. which ...