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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:this is long story, but i'll try to cut it down as much as possible.i met this guy while on a placment for 2weeks, we got on straight away, i think i fell for him straight away. im now totally in love with him. we always asked how i was and if i needed any help. he treated me differently to the way he treated other people that worked there. during the placement he asked me to accompany him on some business i did. we got really well. he asked me personal questions and i was comfortable telling him. he told lots about himslef without me even asking him. he exchanged numbers. on my last day he told me to keep in touch. i think he wanted to tell me sumtin but then didnt. we kept in contact, he asked me out the next time we met and gave me a hug. that was totally unexpecxted. we held each other for ages. we didnt meet, but yet get in touch. we spoke every week to each other and sumtimes 3/4 times. he then asked me out again, we had arranged everytin, i was gona meet him after work, we were gona go for a meal, but yet again something got in the way. but we still spoke on the fone.we flirt constantly on fone, text, in person or msn. when ever sometin is happenin in his life thats new and exciting he tells me straight away.he is the guy i have always wanted. someone my parents would approve off. i feels so right.he is now moving to different city for work. he told me straight away when he got his job. before he applied, he asked me what i thought about him applying for jobs away from home, i didnt say much. he then sed to me it will only be for a year or two then he'll move back home. what could i say. well his now moving. things recently have started to cool off between us, i dont kno why, but we aint spoken to each other. then last week, he texts me at 5.30am when i was sleeping, telling me he cant sleep. at first i was annoyed for him waking me, but then i asked him why. he said that he is moving very soon and he is thinking about his new life. why did he need to tell me a that. his new life? am i part of it i dont know? why did he wake me up and no one else? he has totally confused me! anyways, he were texting for about 30mins, again he was flirting with me. i did ask him if he was ok, and he replied "yes hun". he then asked lots Q's about me, coz we aint spoken for long time. any ideas please on what this means or what i should do?
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reader, penta  +, writes (13 April 2007):
 Since he's getting ready to leave, it's time to stop being coy. Say "I'd like to be more than friends. I think we'd be great together. How do you feel about long-distance relationships?" Then let him talk. And really listen.
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