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Big Questions: Help and advice

She flirts with everyone and shes married, Im annoyed as shes sleeping with a guy at work and it could have been me!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 568 days ago

3 April 2007 (M) - Hi, there is a girl in my office, she started flirting with me some time back but as she was married i did not respond,flirted with her sometimes but never slept with her (though i wanted too). whenever i would give her signals she sould ignore t...

I think I'm falling in love with him, but he loves my best friend and think shes falling for him! What do I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - Well... I think I'm falling in love with this guy that I know, his so nice and sometimes sweet. His not perfect, but his in love with one of my best friends, and i think she's starting to fall for him as well. I dont know what to do. what do i do?...

My partner and I are planning a backyard "commitment" ceremony.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - Okay me and my partner are planning a backyard commitment ceremony. I just don't know where to start with it. who should be the speaker? what should we wear? How to invite people? how long does it take to plan these things? my head is spinning. i ...

I knew he had a gf, we had sex, shes gone to America for 2 weeks I'm in love with him!! What do I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - We had sex even though he had a girlfriend. He told me they were on a break and he told her about me. Now shes gone to america for 2 weeks hes still sleeping with me and ive fallen in love! What do i do!...

We broke up as it was hard being long distance etc, Im hurt that she already had sex with someone and whilst not my business I am worried about her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up about a month and a half ago. We broke up because of logistical reasons. The distance that kept us apart, difficult legal issues concerning immigration should we want to move to be together and general conflicting life ...

I thought he was straight then we slept together! not sure whats going on now, What do you guys make of it ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 116 days ago

3 April 2007 (M) - Help!! firstly I feel like a total basket case for writing this but I am really wanting to get over this situation I find myself in. Okay I recently had a big sole searching holiday on my own in Thailand where I done nothing apart from detox an...

Im considering becoming a prostitute as I fear its the only way out of my debt!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - I'm so desperate for money right now, I owe so much out, I've been having thoughts that my only way out is prostitution. I really don't want to do this, is there any way round this? I need money asap and really have no other choice. Is it dangerous ...

My Bf doesnt always cum when we have sex, I take this personally and that I'm not as good as other women!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - Sometimes, my boyfriend doesn't come when we have sex and I take this really personally. I think he doesn't enjoy it as much with me as with other women. He says I'm being crazy but I feel bad about it. How can we sort this? ps we have to use cond...

My husband of 10 yrs gets drunk and smokes pot everyday, I want to leave, but I'm worried for my childrens safety!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 565 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - I am 38 years old, I have 5 children and I am contemplating divorse for the 2nd time. My Husband and I have been together 10 years. He gets drunk everyday and is a pot smoker. He blacks out and doesn't remember picking fights with me (or so h...

Just found out that he's been with a man! Putting up with his flirting with women is one thing, but men aswell!!! please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 597 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 3yrs with a breif break over xmas 2005. i knew he was seeing another girl and i was seeing another guy. we soon got back togther and its been going great since then. ive now just found out that he has also slept with a ...

We are looking to get back together, I've sorted my issues, but shes heistant as her family feel it would be a mistake, any advice on gaining her trust again!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and i of 9 years recently split up about 6 months ago. our reason for splitting was my fault as i disrespected her family, some of my actions looked as though i was unfaithful, and drank way to much.. these were repeated actions over ...

My ex wont leave me alone, I do still have feelings for him, but I know I dont want to go back! What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - My ex-boyfriend won't leave me alone- and i know theres a part of me that doesn't want him to. He was my first proper boyfriend- i lost my virginity to him but we broke up, because he deals drugs and is always getting into trouble. The thing that ...

I'm bisexual, but should I wait until I've been with another girl before Im really open about it ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I really need help. For the past 3 years or so, I've known I was bisexual. About a month ago I came out to my friends. At first they were a bit suprised but accepted me for it and they sort of joke about it but they mean well. But the problem is ...

We had a row, I lashed out and slapped him! I'm truly sorry, but how can I get him to believe me!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - we had a fight and i slapped my bf. i dont really mean it,it just happens bcoz i was in so much rage,i told him im sorry but he won't listen.what will i do to make him believe tat i'am really sorry for what i did? please help.i'm desperate.....

How can I get him out of my head as a potential lover, to back to just being a friend ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - I have beeen very good friends with a guy for 3 years, we love spending time together and we can talk for hours about anything. For the first 2 years I had a boyfriend but unfortunately we split up a year ago. It took me about 7 months to get over ...

His mother is jealous of our relationship! How can we get round it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - Boyfriends over controled mother. me(20) and my boyfriend(22) are in a bad situation or may i say i am. my boyfriends mother doesnt like me at all and i dont no why she is like this to me. I was still a virgin when we met and she told him just th...

Im due to get married but cant get the other guy out of my head despite him being distant! What should I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - About 5 years ago I had a relationship with the most fantastic guy I have ever known. After a while he had to move away with his job, I had commitments and couldnt go with him. We carried on seeing each other for a while but eventually decided it ...

How can I cool my head and get to better talking terms with my partner for both our sakes ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 115 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - I have been told that the regular swearing, sarcasm ect, even if I have made a mistake or upset my partner is abuse and not normal. It has allways upsett me and now Im looking to improve our relationship and us both as individuals. Im attending ...

We have been dating for 2 yrs things in the main are good, but then he makes me feel second best! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - hi i have a huge problem i need advice please. i've been dating this 43 yr olf guy 4 2yrs now we have loads in common and get on really well but lately he has gone very laidback he puts everything b4 me and it hurts me very much . it was my birthday ...

I've just discovered hes been looking at incest porn on the pc, I only gave birth 4 months ago, is this my fault!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - ive recently had a baby (4 months ago to be exact) after she was born, my partner kept saying to me he needed space, so i kept taking her on walks, when i would get home the blinds would be shut(which confused me as it was the middle of the day) one ...

Ive started to go very dry down there and its ruining my sex life! What can I do ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - Does any one know what causes you to dry up during intercourse?? i used to have such a high sex drive when about 4 years ago but all of a sudden i started to go dry, and i mean dry as a towel,and no matter how i try icant enoy sex anymore. I dont ...

Is he just being a typical boy or does he like me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 599 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - hey agony aunts. i have been friends with this guy for about 6 yrs and have liked him alot for ages and since last summer, wev started texting each other very flirty messages and then a few weeks later when we met up he kissed me. but that was ...

I need a counsellor really, but not sure where to get one, anyone on here able to help me out!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - My life is a real mess at the moment, have some serious relationship problems that I can't really go into at length in just one question. Could really do with some one to one counselling/advice. I know there are some professional counsellors that ...

He emailed her and arranged to meet! When confronted he said it was just to see who she was! Is this cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 590 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - A woman on myspace was sending my husband emails. She would tell him how she would like to meet him. One day he went to a local computer store to email her and in the email he gave her his work phone number so she could call him. He changed his ...

Married 9 months, shes seeing someone else! I said I can look past it if she cuts all ties! But shes carrying on! Am I too demanding!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

3 April 2007 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 9 months. In recent weeks, she has been going out late with her friends/clients to clubs, or for coffee. Few weeks ago, we had a major fight about her coming back at 7am in the morning and that left her angry with ...

I really like her and want to date her, but Im worried that I wont express myself clearly and things will go wrong!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (M) - Hi. Theres this girl I like, and who I really wish something happens with. I really like her and enjoy being with her, yet the other day when I asked myself 'What is it exactly do I like about her?' I wasn't really able to answer it. I've never b...

Is once a day normal to masturbate when your 15 ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (M) - Hello. I'm 15 and am currently going through adolescence. I'm ejaculating / cumming once a day and am wondering if that's the normal rate someone should do that sort of thing... thanks for any and all replies. :)...

My BF of 2 months has a 14yr old daughter, shes telling her mum shes jealous im seeing her dad!! What should I do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - Dear Everyone, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months, he lives an hour away and I come to stay at his home every weekend. He lives with his 14y/o daughter. I never been with a man who has a teenager daugther before so I don't know ...

I want to marry my lesbian lover, but how do I go about this when gays cant marry in America!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - Me and my fiance we are a lesbian couple. We both have wedding rings. Everyone knows that in america Gays can't marry. And she is in the military. I want to have a serimony in my back yard and let one of my friends say our vows instead of a priest. ...

My ex's parents are always over at my house, more so than when we were together, are they spying on me!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - Advice needed! My ex broke up with me at the end of last year. His parents, who I have known since I was born and really get on very very well with (our mothers were friends), seem to be coming over to our house alot more (both planned and on t...

I cant get an erection when with someone new, any advice ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (M) - I have had sex alot, but every time I meet someone new i cant get it up. Im so nervous can you give me advice?...

I prentended I was her ex and emailed her to see how she really feels, She loves her ex! How can I carry on knowing this ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 577 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - Me and my lesbian partner have been together for almost a year. We also live together. I pretended to be her ex and e-mailed her. Pretending to be her ex I told her that i miss her. And that's when I found out how she really feels. She was saying ...

My Ex husband and I still have sex, he said he only married her out of spite!!! What should I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - my ex husband and i still sleep together. He says he remarried for spite and does not love her what should i do?...

My ex wants to get back with me, but his friend claims my ex cheated when with me, did he only say that to get with me instead ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - I dated this guy for a year and recently broke up with him because he had lied to me about drugs and things like that and I couldn't get over it. Anyway I hung out with his best friend a couple nights ago and his best friend (of more than 10 years) ...

I was raped a while back, a guy friend showed some support, I was weak and things went too far, should I tell my BF ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 590 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - I'd been with my boyfriend for four months when I was raped on my college campus. The thing is I'd left for school only a few weeks earlier in Florida--very far away from him in Cali. For the rest of the semester he was like my rock, and things were ...

If hes cumming and we are not using a condom does that mean I'm pregnant!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - While me and my boyfriend are having sex,he says "Im cumming" Does that mean im pregnant if he doesnt use a condom?...

Dating 3 weeks, we want to have a baby!! But whats considered the right time to move in together!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

3 April 2007 (M) - ok let me start this out by saying i'm 24 nearly 25 in june and my new girl is 20 nearly 21 in september we've been dateing for 3 weeks nearly a month and i've slept with her once. she's stayed at my house twice and we didn't do nofthing the fir...

Im finding it hard to read him, is it time to say goodbye!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 598 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - I am a little confused right now and know that I can get good insight here. I have been friends with this guy for about a year and a half and we have been getting closer in the past couple of months. I have been trying to hold off on having sex with ...